Has anyone done this on here.
Been chatting to someone for a bit and they suggested we meet for coffee yet she insists they have no photos on here nor does she have kik.
My instinct is I'm being played as she has multiple meet verifications. |
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As been said, public place not at other end of the world, that way you haven't lost anything from a no show or if you don't like, no real harm done then really |
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If you are meeting in a public place then that's something I suppose but I would also make sure someone knows where you are. I would also ask that person to phone you half to three quarters of an hour into the meet to make sure you are ok. So if you want to leave then that's a perfect opportunity to do so without causing offence or its a check you are happy and safe. You can never be too careful. Good luck OP.
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I had a blind meet once. Actually it was more of a blindfold meet. It was scary, exciting and because I'd chatted quite a bit and spoken to her it was amazing.
Like others have said. Meet in public place first or have a chaperone sat in a corner near you. |
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"If you are meeting in a public place then that's something I suppose but I would also make sure someone knows where you are. I would also ask that person to phone you half to three quarters of an hour into the meet to make sure you are ok. So if you want to leave then that's a perfect opportunity to do so without causing offence or its a check you are happy and safe. You can never be too careful. Good luck OP.
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"Has anyone done this on here.
Been chatting to someone for a bit and they suggested we meet for coffee yet she insists they have no photos on here nor does she have kik.
My instinct is I'm being played as she has multiple meet verifications. "
Go with your instinct |
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"Has anyone done this on here.
Been chatting to someone for a bit and they suggested we meet for coffee yet she insists they have no photos on here nor does she have kik.
My instinct is I'm being played as she has multiple meet verifications.
Go with your instinct "
That's exactly what I am going to do. Thank you all for your comments and advice |
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"If I'm confidant, I wouldn't send a picture wheres the need. They are going to like what they see. "
lmao .. How do you know they are going to like what they see ? ????
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"Has anyone done this on here.
Been chatting to someone for a bit and they suggested we meet for coffee yet she insists they have no photos on here nor does she have kik.
My instinct is I'm being played as she has multiple meet verifications. "
Personally I prefer a blind meet. Gives that little extra adrenaline rush.
Arrange a time, a pub/cafe, mention what you're going to be wearing, a basic physical description, turn up 15 minutes early, and watch out for the other lost looking sole.
Simple.
Exactly what used to happen with contact magazines and classified personals. Does anyone else remember the days before digital cameras? You know; when you needed to send the film away because you didn't want the local photo place to keep a copy for themselves |
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"turn up 15 minutes early, and watch out for the other lost looking sole.
Careful now, you could end up like a fish out of water   "
Yep,you wouldn't want to be left floundering.......*cue tumble* |
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"turn up 15 minutes early, and watch out for the other lost looking sole.
Careful now, you could end up like a fish out of water "
Yup caught on autoincorrect. Kinda wish it'd at least swap out with something totally wrong. |
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"If I'm confidant, I wouldn't send a picture wheres the need. They are going to like what they see. lmao .. How do you know they are going to like what they see ? ???? "
My thoughts as well lmao |
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"Has anyone done this on here.
Been chatting to someone for a bit and they suggested we meet for coffee yet she insists they have no photos on here nor does she have kik.
My instinct is I'm being played as she has multiple meet verifications. "
would never consider it .
My time for meets are limited as it is so I'd rather make sure I was meeting someone I was attracted to than meeting someone I might not be attracted to |
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"Has anyone done this on here.
Been chatting to someone for a bit and they suggested we meet for coffee yet she insists they have no photos on here nor does she have kik.
My instinct is I'm being played as she has multiple meet verifications. would never consider it .
My time for meets are limited as it is so I'd rather make sure I was meeting someone I was attracted to than meeting someone I might not be attracted to "
100% agree. I barely have time to even chat to new folk on here, let alone take time out to meet someone I haven't even seen! I'm very picky so it'd just be a waste of time for me. |
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