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"Considering it but not sure if I can x
Sure you can
K x
Are you lovely people coming too "
At this moment in time I don't know what we are doing as John is throwing up
Don't think he'd be amused if I left him at home
K x |
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"Considering it but not sure if I can x
Sure you can
K x
Are you lovely people coming too
At this moment in time I don't know what we are doing as John is throwing up
Don't think he'd be amused if I left him at home
K x "
Thank you darling, just put that out there for everyone to know...... See everyone I really am human not supernatural or a legend that some of you class me as.....
But yes never say never when it comes to going to CJs..... Even went on Wednesday night as I was missing the place so much.... Albeit I was only dropping off new staff polo tops but still
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over a year ago
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"Considering it but not sure if I can x
Sure you can
K x
Are you lovely people coming too
At this moment in time I don't know what we are doing as John is throwing up
Don't think he'd be amused if I left him at home
K x
Thank you darling, just put that out there for everyone to know...... See everyone I really am human not supernatural or a legend that some of you class me as.....
But yes never say never when it comes to going to CJs..... Even went on Wednesday night as I was missing the place so much.... Albeit I was only dropping off new staff polo tops but still
John "
Man up! Karen went to Cjs when she wasn't feeling good & tired. Poor show lol x |
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over a year ago
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Man up! Karen went to Cjs when she wasn't feeling good & tired. Poor show lol x"
It could be man flu. A very serious condition, you women wouldn't understand  |
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over a year ago
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Man up! Karen went to Cjs when she wasn't feeling good & tired. Poor show lol x
It could be man flu. A very serious condition, you women wouldn't understand "
Man flu is just code for being a wee pussy lol |
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over a year ago
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Man up! Karen went to Cjs when she wasn't feeling good & tired. Poor show lol x
It could be man flu. A very serious condition, you women wouldn't understand
Amen brother
John "
Man up lol |
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Man up! Karen went to Cjs when she wasn't feeling good & tired. Poor show lol x
It could be man flu. A very serious condition, you women wouldn't understand
Amen brother
John
Man up lol"
You trying to call me out? Haha
Don't make me come tomorrow night and spank you
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over a year ago
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Man up! Karen went to Cjs when she wasn't feeling good & tired. Poor show lol x
It could be man flu. A very serious condition, you women wouldn't understand
Amen brother
John
Man up lol
You trying to call me out? Haha
Don't make me come tomorrow night and spank you
John "
Maybe get you in that school room again standing to attention  |
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Man up! Karen went to Cjs when she wasn't feeling good & tired. Poor show lol x
It could be man flu. A very serious condition, you women wouldn't understand
Amen brother
John
Man up lol
You trying to call me out? Haha
Don't make me come tomorrow night and spank you
John
Maybe get you in that school room again standing to attention "
Maybe need to have it doing more than standing to attention does this mean I'll need to do a clean sweep again haha
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Am thinking about it doesn't look like its gonna be that busy tho
It's not how busy it is....... It's he people that are there
We can just take over the dance floor "
This is true would be good to see use  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hate dancing..... Lol
I know am bad at it so no point embarrassing myself...... Maybe the day I decide to get d*unk I'll go crazy on the dance floor
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I'll see you later Harry, and don't worry, I won't ask you for a dance!
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"I hate dancing..... Lol
I know am bad at it so no point embarrassing myself...... Maybe the day I decide to get d*unk I'll go crazy on the dance floor
I'll see you later Harry, and don't worry, I won't ask you for a dance!
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I'll expect a dance though  |
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over a year ago
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"I hate dancing..... Lol
I know am bad at it so no point embarrassing myself...... Maybe the day I decide to get d*unk I'll go crazy on the dance floor
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Just dance with me you can't be that bad |
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over a year ago
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"Our first time at CJ's shitting ourselves but looking forward to it
You'll have a great time! Everyone is really nice x"
From chatting here on Fab, I get the impression that there are quite a few nice, chatty people going tonight.
I've never been to CJ's before, but quite looking forward to it.
...and Diva Queen....book me in for that dance!
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"Our first time at CJ's shitting ourselves but looking forward to it
You'll have a great time! Everyone is really nice x
From chatting here on Fab, I get the impression that there are quite a few nice, chatty people going tonight.
I've never been to CJ's before, but quite looking forward to it.
...and Diva Queen....book me in for that dance!
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She's mine tonight sorry  |
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over a year ago
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Nothing to fear with cjs. Hard bit is walking through the door.mixing with other.lots of nice people.a few two faced people to.who like to stay in there wee groups.
Go and try it . |
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"Nothing to fear with cjs. Hard bit is walking through the door.mixing with other.lots of nice people.a few two faced people to.who like to stay in there wee groups.
Go and try it ."
Cause people stay in groups how does that make them two faced? |
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"Nothing to fear with cjs. Hard bit is walking through the door.mixing with other.lots of nice people.a few two faced people to.who like to stay in there wee groups.
Go and try it .
Cause people stay in groups how does that make them two faced? "
Its called bitching |
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"Nothing to fear with cjs. Hard bit is walking through the door.mixing with other.lots of nice people.a few two faced people to.who like to stay in there wee groups.
Go and try it .
Cause people stay in groups how does that make them two faced?
Its called bitching"
Causs you know what everyone is talking about? What a ridiculous statement to make!! |
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"Our first time at CJ's shitting ourselves but looking forward to it
You'll have a great time! Everyone is really nice x
From chatting here on Fab, I get the impression that there are quite a few nice, chatty people going tonight.
I've never been to CJ's before, but quite looking forward to it.
...and Diva Queen....book me in for that dance!
She's mine tonight sorry "
Ha! ....well according to your status; if you're not wearing a bra tonight, then I'd love to dance with you too. Something upbeat ! |
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"Our first time at CJ's shitting ourselves but looking forward to it
You'll have a great time! Everyone is really nice x
From chatting here on Fab, I get the impression that there are quite a few nice, chatty people going tonight.
I've never been to CJ's before, but quite looking forward to it.
...and Diva Queen....book me in for that dance!
She's mine tonight sorry
Ha! ....well according to your status; if you're not wearing a bra tonight, then I'd love to dance with you too. Something upbeat !"
Just play Simply the Best and she's anyones haha
John  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Been there .seen it done it. And it happens .no different from any other club.
Thankfully folk like that don't goto CJs very often anymore so all good
John "
Folk like that have a life away from swinging.. all good who you kidding .? All good in the cliques. |
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over a year ago
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Its called honest .not negativity.cjs can
Be a hit or miss depending on the crowd that is there .as long as you go mix . Chat. Make your. Moves . Mainly a good night . |
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over a year ago
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"Think I'm glad I'm not going tonight .... Some comments are enough to put the newbies off... A silent tongue is always a good idea "
Entitled to my opinion .don't need to agree with others . |
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over a year ago
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Same here,glad I am staying home,not a place for shy,quiet,bashful introverts like myself.
I come from a "Broken Home" and don't like "mammies and daddies" arguing.
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We went a few weeks back and really enjoyed it. Found it very laid back and relaxing. It was a quiet night though. Yes there was different crowds of folk but they made us welcome if we went over to chat and some came over and introduced themselves. I didn't expect everyone to greet us and speak to us just the ones we interested and we only made an effort to approach the ones that caught our eye. Saying that no one was rude or cliquey. We are looking forward to going back, we were put off a bit with some threads that mentioned hassles with guys but as long as we are assertive and deal with it right then I'm sure all will be good.
I think the swinging lifestyle is quite closed and it may seem cliquey but I think its about people finding others they are comfortable with, attracted to and can have fun with whilst protecting their goings on from outsiders who may judge and not look favourably at their choices. You need to be trusting in others while doing this. |
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"We went a few weeks back and really enjoyed it. Found it very laid back and relaxing. It was a quiet night though. Yes there was different crowds of folk but they made us welcome if we went over to chat and some came over and introduced themselves. I didn't expect everyone to greet us and speak to us just the ones we interested and we only made an effort to approach the ones that caught our eye. Saying that no one was rude or cliquey. We are looking forward to going back, we were put off a bit with some threads that mentioned hassles with guys but as long as we are assertive and deal with it right then I'm sure all will be good.
I think the swinging lifestyle is quite closed and it may seem cliquey but I think its about people finding others they are comfortable with, attracted to and can have fun with whilst protecting their goings on from outsiders who may judge and not look favourably at their choices. You need to be trusting in others while doing this. "
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I think that one of the things to remember is that perhaps there can be "cliques", and I'm sure I'm in one lol! However, this is just the result of groups of people getting to know each other and becoming good friends so I don't see the harm in it at all! Often these folks haven't seen each other in ages so of course they're going to sit and chat together!
In face many occasions someone in one of these so called "cliques" goes over to a newbie to make them feel at home and make sure they have someone to talk to.
If this is what people mean by clique then I'm proud to be in one!!
Perhaps (and this is directed at no one in particular) if after several visits no one talks to you, then dare I say that maybe you need to change your approach?
Just my thoughts! |
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"I think that one of the things to remember is that perhaps there can be "cliques", and I'm sure I'm in one lol! However, this is just the result of groups of people getting to know each other and becoming good friends so I don't see the harm in it at all! Often these folks haven't seen each other in ages so of course they're going to sit and chat together!
In face many occasions someone in one of these so called "cliques" goes over to a newbie to make them feel at home and make sure they have someone to talk to.
If this is what people mean by clique then I'm proud to be in one!!
Perhaps (and this is directed at no one in particular) if after several visits no one talks to you, then dare I say that maybe you need to change your approach?
Just my thoughts! "
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"I think that one of the things to remember is that perhaps there can be "cliques", and I'm sure I'm in one lol! However, this is just the result of groups of people getting to know each other and becoming good friends so I don't see the harm in it at all! Often these folks haven't seen each other in ages so of course they're going to sit and chat together!
In face many occasions someone in one of these so called "cliques" goes over to a newbie to make them feel at home and make sure they have someone to talk to.
If this is what people mean by clique then I'm proud to be in one!!
Perhaps (and this is directed at no one in particular) if after several visits no one talks to you, then dare I say that maybe you need to change your approach?
Just my thoughts! "
I wasn't a newbie but I was heading to Cj's alone a few months back (which I am comfortable of doing) and I confirm Diva is a star, she messaged me privately when she saw on a thread I was going alone and made a point to come and say hi on the night. I couldn't thank her enough for that she didn't have to.
I speak to everyone, well I try lol (am part of no clique) to people am interested in and people I can have good banter with. I don't believe in siting in my corner and waiting for people to come and talk to me, I try to mingle even if am shy  |
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hi guys, we are going on the 14th and plan on having a great time and being very sociable
For the newbies, promise, it's not as scary as you think, it is what you make it x big crowd, small crowd, whatever crowd, come along check it out and see what happens x
To all those who are regulars, see you Saturday
Miss k x |
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"hi guys, we are going on the 14th and plan on having a great time and being very sociable
For the newbies, promise, it's not as scary as you think, it is what you make it x big crowd, small crowd, whatever crowd, come along check it out and see what happens x
To all those who are regulars, see you Saturday
Miss k x"
I hope you don't leave anyone with big scary bruises...
See you tonight!
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over a year ago
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Tonight seems like it's going to be a good one got friends I know going,lined up some new friends to meet and a whole lot of booze packed x shots on us peeps x and if you like a good spanking, we would certainly oblige  |
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