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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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BBW - I get confused with this lol
What is a BBW? Profiles I have seen the girls might be a size 14/16 and I wouldn't consider that big?
Me being a fellow fatty would love to meet a guy who would accept my body the way it is but wouldn't consider myself a BBW Even though I'm fat lol
what do guys like about BBW? Is it the boobs or a strange liking for fat lmao?! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Dont really agree with the term especially when the person calls themselves it. Call yourself a big woman but the beautiful part is for others to decide. "
Yeah I totally agree with this lol |
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over a year ago
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"Dont really agree with the term especially when the person calls themselves it. Call yourself a big woman but the beautiful part is for others to decide.
Yeah I totally agree with this lol "
I don't agree with this no. Why shouldn't a woman believe she is beautiful? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dont really agree with the term especially when the person calls themselves it. Call yourself a big woman but the beautiful part is for others to decide.
Yeah I totally agree with this lol
I don't agree with this no. Why shouldn't a woman believe she is beautiful? "
Further to this I always thought that the 'beautiful' part was more a way of saying that just because you are big doesn't mean you can't be attractive, beautiful etc rather than saying that if you are big you are beautiful ...To me it was simply a more positive way of viewing yourself
I am not explaining very well  I need more coffee |
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"Dont really agree with the term especially when the person calls themselves it. Call yourself a big woman but the beautiful part is for others to decide.
Yeah I totally agree with this lol
I don't agree with this no. Why shouldn't a woman believe she is beautiful?
Further to this I always thought that the 'beautiful' part was more a way of saying that just because you are big doesn't mean you can't be attractive, beautiful etc rather than saying that if you are big you are beautiful ...To me it was simply a more positive way of viewing yourself
I am not explaining very well I need more coffee "
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"Dont really agree with the term especially when the person calls themselves it. Call yourself a big woman but the beautiful part is for others to decide. "
But others decide you are good enough looking when to mails you,but go from stunner to ugly slag when you say no to them .
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"Dont really agree with the term especially when the person calls themselves it. Call yourself a big woman but the beautiful part is for others to decide.
Yeah I totally agree with this lol
I don't agree with this no. Why shouldn't a woman believe she is beautiful? "
I agree totally ! Why can't you have a posative self image,self worth and be secure in your own skin ?Aslong as it not inflating your ego I believe it's a much healthier out look to have .I crawl in to a ball sobbing if I took some of the comments on here to heart . You need to believe in yourself and have a hide of a rhino on here or you'd end up a basket case lol . Fortunately I have the Rhino hide down pat lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Dont really agree with the term especially when the person calls themselves it. Call yourself a big woman but the beautiful part is for others to decide.
Yeah I totally agree with this lol
I don't agree with this no. Why shouldn't a woman believe she is beautiful?
I agree totally ! Why can't you have a posative self image,self worth and be secure in your own skin ?Aslong as it not inflating your ego I believe it's a much healthier out look to have .I crawl in to a ball sobbing if I took some of the comments on here to heart . You need to believe in yourself and have a hide of a rhino on here or you'd end up a basket case lol . Fortunately I have the Rhino hide down pat lol x"
I have the rhino ass haha |
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Why should it be upto others to decide?
Far to many want to put others down for the way they look so who should we believe the ones who tell us we are beautiful or the ones who tell us we're ugly ?... ive had both said to me but the bottom line is I'm a very confident woman who doesn't give a rats arse what people think of me because I was brought up with very encouraging parents who taught me selfworth which I have carried with me all through my life and belive it .
And I hope I've managed to pass that onto my own children .
I believe I'm beautiful so who is anyone to tell me I'm not?
Of course we all have good days where we truly feel beautiful and other days where we don't that's not size specific it's all sizes of women I'm sure have have experienced that.
Back to the op there are many guys who appreciate the fuller figured woman so just be patient and I'm sure ul find them ... good luck |
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Seems my comment ruffled some feathers this is my view and im not trying to change anyone elses. I do believe alot of woman especially believe the hype. Then suffer from moments of grandeur you can have a confident positive attitude without being beautiful. Im happy with who I am I dont need to plaster myself with the term stud handsome or any other self pleasing title. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think people missed my point I think it's more size than weight because someone who's say 5"2 would look totally different to someone who was 5"7 but weigh they same if that makes any sense! "
Agree with this.. I'm 6'1 and a size 24/26 which some people don't believe cause I don't look it whereas friends of mine who are much shorter are 18/20 and weigh more than me, it's so confusing haha. I call myself bbw cause I've been told I am but I'd rather just be called fat  |
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
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OP, everyone's definition of BBW or 'big' or 'fat' is different.
To me, it doesn't really matter what term any lady uses unless it's derogatory to themselves. Then I put them straight.
I've seen a few descriptions on this thread by ladies putting themselves down. I've met one or two of them and have to say that, yes they are larger ladies, but no - that doesn't make them unattractive to me.
Everyone is different.
But as far as your question goes, there is no set definition. It all depends on people's own individual views  |
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
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"Dont really agree with the term especially when the person calls themselves it. Call yourself a big woman but the beautiful part is for others to decide.
Yeah I totally agree with this lol
I don't agree with this no. Why shouldn't a woman believe she is beautiful?
I agree totally ! Why can't you have a posative self image,self worth and be secure in your own skin ?Aslong as it not inflating your ego I believe it's a much healthier out look to have .I crawl in to a ball sobbing if I took some of the comments on here to heart . You need to believe in yourself and have a hide of a rhino on here or you'd end up a basket case lol . Fortunately I have the Rhino hide down pat lol x"
I'm trying so hard not to mention the horn |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would say curvy is a 12-16, ample is 16-20 and bbw is 20+. Everyone's perception of that differs though, as does the world's perception of beautiful/attractive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why do you ladies put yourselves down all the time.
We are the size that we are and look the way we do.
If other folk can't accept that then that is their tough luck.
Be confident in your body and happy swinging
B |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Also, the ladies using the term didn't invent it! Its a term taken to mean a larger lady and doesn't neccessarily mean the lady in question is pushing the idea she is "beautiful" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ugh my post is full of typos lol some fetishist made up the term I personally don't use it and don't like to be called it after all I am just a large lady |
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"Why should it be upto others to decide?
Far to many want to put others down for the way they look so who should we believe the ones who tell us we are beautiful or the ones who tell us we're ugly ?... ive had both said to me but the bottom line is I'm a very confident woman who doesn't give a rats arse what people think of me because I was brought up with very encouraging parents who taught me selfworth which I have carried with me all through my life and belive it .
And I hope I've managed to pass that onto my own children .
I believe I'm beautiful so who is anyone to tell me I'm not?
Of course we all have good days where we truly feel beautiful and other days where we don't that's not size specific it's all sizes of women I'm sure have have experienced that.
Back to the op there are many guys who appreciate the fuller figured woman so just be patient and I'm sure ul find them ... good luck "
Very well put |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OP, everyone's definition of BBW or 'big' or 'fat' is different.
To me, it doesn't really matter what term any lady uses unless it's derogatory to themselves. Then I put them straight.
I've seen a few descriptions on this thread by ladies putting themselves down. I've met one or two of them and have to say that, yes they are larger ladies, but no - that doesn't make them unattractive to me.
Everyone is different.
But as far as your question goes, there is no set definition. It all depends on people's own individual views "
Well put sir |
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Beauty is in the eye of the beholder so no matter how big u are people are all different and no matter what people have choices to make when it comes to size etc, if we were all the same it would be a boring world, some women like being called a bbw and some dont as long as they are comfortable with the saying that's all that matters xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Dont really agree with the term especially when the person calls themselves it. Call yourself a big woman but the beautiful part is for others to decide.
Yeah I totally agree with this lol
I don't agree with this no. Why shouldn't a woman believe she is beautiful? "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Who gives a fuck? I'm sick of all these "titles" people have for everything. Just have good banter and whatever you look like shouldn't matter. I wish the world were simpler. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Dont really agree with the term especially when the person calls themselves it. Call yourself a big woman but the beautiful part is for others to decide.
But others decide you are good enough looking when to mails you,but go from stunner to ugly slag when you say no to them .
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Dont really agree with the term especially when the person calls themselves it. Call yourself a big woman but the beautiful part is for others to decide.
Yeah I totally agree with this lol
I don't agree with this no. Why shouldn't a woman believe she is beautiful?
I agree totally ! Why can't you have a posative self image,self worth and be secure in your own skin ?Aslong as it not inflating your ego I believe it's a much healthier out look to have .I crawl in to a ball sobbing if I took some of the comments on here to heart . You need to believe in yourself and have a hide of a rhino on here or you'd end up a basket case lol . Fortunately I have the Rhino hide down pat lol x
I have the rhino ass haha"
Well if you or temptress need your rhino assessment taken care of,give me a shout |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I may not be a BBW
I'm wee and on the wrong side of 50yrs
but I don't care!!
lets get it on and party.....Rx"
didn't realise there was a wrong side of 50  |
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
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"I may not be a BBW
I'm wee and on the wrong side of 50yrs
but I don't care!!
lets get it on and party.....Rxdidn't realise there was a wrong side of 50 "
I'm wondering if we are the wrong side of 50 mate  |
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"BBW - I get confused with this lol
What is a BBW? Profiles I have seen the girls might be a size 14/16 and I wouldn't consider that big?
Me being a fellow fatty would love to meet a guy who would accept my body the way it is but wouldn't consider myself a BBW Even though I'm fat lol
what do guys like about BBW? Is it the boobs or a strange liking for fat lmao?!"
Fat swingers of the world unite. But not on a bed with a wooden slatted base. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I may not be a BBW
I'm wee and on the wrong side of 50yrs
but I don't care!!
lets get it on and party.....Rxdidn't realise there was a wrong side of 50
I'm wondering if we are the wrong side of 50 mate "
I'm on the dark side of 50! Muahahaha..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I may not be a BBW
I'm wee and on the wrong side of 50yrs
but I don't care!!
lets get it on and party.....Rxdidn't realise there was a wrong side of 50
I'm wondering if we are the wrong side of 50 mate "
there are times I wonder that myself sometimes |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Dont really agree with the term especially when the person calls themselves it. Call yourself a big woman but the beautiful part is for others to decide.
Yeah I totally agree with this lol
I don't agree with this no. Why shouldn't a woman believe she is beautiful?
Further to this I always thought that the 'beautiful' part was more a way of saying that just because you are big doesn't mean you can't be attractive, beautiful etc rather than saying that if you are big you are beautiful ...To me it was simply a more positive way of viewing yourself
I am not explaining very well I need more coffee "
Stay away from the espresso machine... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do you ladies put yourselves down all the time.
We are the size that we are and look the way we do.
If other folk can't accept that then that is their tough luck.
Be confident in your body and happy swinging
B"
I never put myself down, plenty others around to do that for me but I'm a realist.
I'm a lovely, smart, very nice wee fat wumman! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not sure what constitutes a bbw it differentiates massively(no pun intended) from girl to girl.
I think the second part of your question is difficult for me to answer as the female body and touch is beautiful in my eyes regardless of size and shape aslong as we get on and feel comfortable in each others company my only must is good hygiene.
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't mind it as a term. It definitely beats the f word (fat)
I don't think it applies to any particular sizes it's just in the eye of the beholder as it were.
If I'm called a bbw I would take it as a compliment. But I would never say on a profile or a message 'I am a BBW' I would feel presumptuous lol
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