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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be honest maybe they just can't be arsed plus a reply even No Thanks seems to let guys think it is an open door to send more rather than fully understand what the words mean . |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"I've tried to be honest in my profile....feel free to look and advise me folks "
Your profile should be your shop window to entice people and tbh it just isn't doing it!
Also your pictures really need some work.
Nobody knows you better than you, so we can't advise you what to put. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to get annoyed with no replys . . . but understand how swamped girls get with mail on here , and we all have life's away from FAB , usually wait a while and try again , some of the folk I chat to on here didn't reply first few messages , just stay positive and remember it s meant to be fun "what's meant for you won't go past you" |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"I used to get annoyed with no replys . . . but understand how swamped girls get with mail on here , and we all have life's away from FAB , usually wait a while and try again , some of the folk I chat to on here didn't reply first few messages , just stay positive and remember it s meant to be fun "what's meant for you won't go past you" "
No sorry, if you have a crap profile and do nothing about it, sending a second message whether it be a few days or weeks after is not going to change my mind  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We try reply.. But sometimes dont get round to it or get chatting to someone.
And sometimes the first message puts us off... Fancy a meet?
Jeez.. Hi there too lolol xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I used to get annoyed with no replys . . . but understand how swamped girls get with mail on here , and we all have life's away from FAB , usually wait a while and try again , some of the folk I chat to on here didn't reply first few messages , just stay positive and remember it s meant to be fun "what's meant for you won't go past you"
No sorry, if you have a crap profile and do nothing about it, sending a second message whether it be a few days or weeks after is not going to change my mind "
This person seems to have a good point might be worth taken it onboard |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always try to respond to a well written message but sometimes there are too many. Also some can take any response as an opening to try and change your mind to meet, resulting in unwanted ping pong mails. Not always, I have also had some very refreshing thank you for replying messages too. It's not personal the site does say a non reply is a polite no thank you for the very reason that men outnumber women ten to one and get so many messages.
In regard to your profile I do feel you should find your own way to personalise it as otherwise it's not really you... 
Good luck on site, Red x |
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By *uboCouple
over a year ago
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Make sure you READ the profile before messaging. It might be that you are not what they are looking for ?
If we get a message from someone that it is obvious they couldn't be bothered to read ours, then we can't be bothered to reply. Simples.
All others get a reply even if it is a no thanks. |
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 so funny. Cock shot for profile picture will get you an instant delete off 90% of women and couples. So your brave picture choice is making it 10x less likely to get a reply. Honest to god you are wasting your time. Try a new hobby. This ain't gona work out. The only way it might go well for you is if you look at your profile and say "that's not who I am!" And start again. If all you are is a cheap cock shot, no woman in her right mind will want to touch you. It's up to you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because people get to many messages and on average a polite no results in the other person to think we'll need to try change mind so more messages and eventually a block |
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