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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thought i would put my post from another thread in here for Single Males, Hope you digest this.....
People do meet and it's the ones that stick at it, regularly get to socials, create a unique profile to them, unique style of pictures, guys that won't shag anything and are genuinely fun, people that are not complaining or causing arguments, want to actually get to know someone before meeting, willing to travel....
That's just in my view summarising it,
My own experience, I joined the site as a single male a year ago after 5 years being around the scene on and off as a single male/Cpl , first meet within a week as I went in chat and had banta and tongue in cheek cheekiness, first social not long after that, had a few more meets where I was driving hours up and down the country and expense of hotels and that, got a regular fuckbuddy, went out with her mate, left site, re joined, few more socials, met my misses on here, broke up but kept and still close (Going to swingfields with her) few more socials, and here I am today, all because I'm a gobby twat in the right sense, I'm mad as a hatter and became different from the normal type of guy on here, you want to leave your mark, maybe my youth helped but not by much as I see other guys that just be themselves prosper from this great site.
So if your a single male reading this ...... Start the emphatic land of hope and glory music,...... Here's my 11 quick steps on how to fully prosper from this site ......... 1)Don't expect to get it from anyone and anytime, you have to stand out to them. 2) Be unique. 3) Spend atleast an hour on your profile and truely sell yourself. 4) Don't be a twat and whiney. 5) Get to a social and be prepared to travel to one and/or travel to meets. 6) Have banter. 7) Don't ask for a meet straight away in messages. 8) Spend atleast 5-10 mins on a opening message after reading the profile thoroughly and not copy and paste. 9) Don't obsess over a girl and seem needy. 10) Have a variety of pictures on your profile and not just cock ones, or if they are cock ones make them stand out (reference sunglasses one on my profile.) 11) Spend that 5 pound to become a site supporter and get in chat more often and join in with the convo.
Now I know that might not appeal to some of you but them 11 steps might make your stay on this site more pleasant, WARNING them 11 steps DO NOT guarantee a definite meet but will increase your chances. Also yes I probably will get some stick saying "that's not how the site works" etc.... But in reality you have to stand out from the masses of single males
Thank you for reading
Lone_wolf.
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surely the most important too
