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Does any of the more experienced fabbers give people that are not photo verified or have no verifications a chance, or do you just skip past them?
I'm not talking about people new to the site but the ones that have been around a while.
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"Does any of the more experienced fabbers give people that are not photo verified or have no verifications a chance, or do you just skip past them?
I'm not talking about people new to the site but the ones that have been around a while.
Xxxxx"
photo verified doesn't mean a lot so not relevant .
Yes I'd meet someone who wasn't verified and have... we all had to start somewhere .
As kola said if you have a good feel for someone then why not take the chance  |
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I tell them about CJs and say happy to meet there due to them not being verified. I explain that the site gets easier once you are verified and how laid back it is there and give a description of CJs to them and offer to show around and introduce a couple of people to them. but very few if any ever go after they've been on for 6 months or more. Leading me to believe most aren't genuine or ain't ready to take next step yet |
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"Does any of the more experienced fabbers give people that are not photo verified or have no verifications a chance, or do you just skip past them?
I'm not talking about people new to the site but the ones that have been around a while.
Xxxxxphoto verified doesn't mean a lot so not relevant .
Yes I'd meet someone who wasn't verified and have... we all had to start somewhere .
As kola said if you have a good feel for someone then why not take the chance "
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Agreed, I don't put any stock in photo verified and am happy to meet people for a coffee to give them a verification if I have enough interest in them.
Unfortunately some are just pisstakers though, as a result of 4 guys letting me down over a weekend recently I've now blocked single guys for a while |
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"Agreed, I don't put any stock in photo verified and am happy to meet people for a coffee to give them a verification if I have enough interest in them.
Unfortunately some are just pisstakers though, as a result of 4 guys letting me down over a weekend recently I've now blocked single guys for a while
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4? thats shocking no wonder you're pee'd off. I hope they explained why or was it no shows? |
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"Does any of the more experienced fabbers give people that are not photo verified or have no verifications a chance, or do you just skip past them?
I'm not talking about people new to the site but the ones that have been around a while.
Xxxxx"
It wouldn't put me off but I would need to have had some kind of conversation and pics exchanged. The ususal safety rules etc etc  |
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I'll talk to anyone really, we've met people who weren't verified & they were lovely.
Going to a club might not be everyone's cup of tea, I know when I first joined I didn't want to go to a club & I didn't really know about socials. But I think it can be reasonably obvious when someone is genuine. I've had worse experiences with prior who are meet verified than with non verified people.
Saying all that, I'd be dubious of a profile with no pics, "fill in later" in the text, no verifications & been on for like 10 months. Then again...they could have joined, not been on for a while due to personal reasons & then come back.
So yeah, I'll basically give anyone a chance till they screw it up.
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Give a chance  but if arranging meet always speak to first or meet socially to be sure.
we all had to start the same way , although recently there seems to be lots of instances where a profile is up one minute then gone soon after . |
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Yes I would give them a chance, people aren't magically more genuine on this site becuase their verified in all the ways possible, I have been fucked about more times on this by verified people than people with no verifications, they're no longer on the site but I've met 2 women on here who had no verifications |
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
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All you need to remember is that these are all tools the site gives us to help us.
THEY ARE NOT GUARANTEES
Use your instinct, Jedi mind tricks or the force. Meet socially in a public place first for safety. And as is always the way, if it sounds too good to be true, it probably isn't true.
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"All you need to remember is that these are all tools the site gives us to help us.
THEY ARE NOT GUARANTEES
Use your instinct, Jedi mind tricks or the force. Meet socially in a public place first for safety. And as is always the way, if it sounds too good to be true, it probably isn't true.
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Dunno mate, we said that about Mrs J's creme egg rocky road. It WAS true 
Mr J |
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By *ndykayMan
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"All you need to remember is that these are all tools the site gives us to help us.
THEY ARE NOT GUARANTEES
Use your instinct, Jedi mind tricks or the force. Meet socially in a public place first for safety. And as is always the way, if it sounds too good to be true, it probably isn't true.
Dunno mate, we said that about Mrs J's creme egg rocky road. It WAS true
Mr J"
There's always an exception to every rule
Like you're straight but everyone thinks you're not Mr J  |
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"All you need to remember is that these are all tools the site gives us to help us.
THEY ARE NOT GUARANTEES
Use your instinct, Jedi mind tricks or the force. Meet socially in a public place first for safety. And as is always the way, if it sounds too good to be true, it probably isn't true.
Dunno mate, we said that about Mrs J's creme egg rocky road. It WAS true
Mr J
There's always an exception to every rule
Like you're straight but everyone thinks you're not Mr J "
Shhhhh, don't tell anyone #stillnotgay
Mrs J xx |
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