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Bringing up the subject of swinging to your partner
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By *omaMan
over a year ago
Glasgow |
None of our business and not trying to preach but why do you have a "Single Guy" profile on Fab when you have a partner that apparently doesnt know you are into swinging?
You are deffo playing with fire.
Is it worth it considering if she finds out you may well become truely single?
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By *mf4BxJCouple
over a year ago
edinburgh |
I'm not picking through anything. You're a single guy asking how to get your partner into swinging. It's not the best start is it?
Is your profile honest about you being in a relationship?
Maybe you could tell her about your single profile and let her make up her own to have some fun too. Fairs fair and all that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ok - Some Advice !!
Pluck up the Courage or a grow a set of balls as u men say - and just Fooking Ask Her.... simple..
im not saying it works - but it worked for my hubby !! lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Funny you say that Greig, we used to be pals with a couple on here last year. He appeared on a male profile a while back, face pic on view and using his name on profile.
2 weeks ago we get a pals invite from the female half who has on her profile 'married female playing away', again using her name!
It's gonna end in tears!
S. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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No nit-picking please
Unless someone specifically asks for their profile to be critiqued or if it's relevant to the thread e.g. someone is wondering why they're not having success, please don't critique their profile or be mean about it. We want the forum to be open and friendly to newbies and everyone starts somewhere.
http://www.fabswingers.com/content/forum-rules
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"How would you bring the subject of swinging to your partner . I would love you bring my other half into the scene but have no idea how to "
I think sometimes people can't win on this site. When a married men thread comes up, they get told to go and ask the wife to swing ....so this man is asking for advice on how to go about it and that isn't right either.
Hi, I think it all depends on how open you are and your wife are.
We are really open anyway, but to get started we just spoke about fantasies...we ended up writing a list of fantasies we wanted to try, then put yes , no or maybe against it, then we swopped lists to see what the other had put.
It turned out we has a lot of fantasies that were the same, and a few the other hadn't thought of but both wanted to try. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Funny you say that Greig, we used to be pals with a couple on here last year. He appeared on a male profile a while back, face pic on view and using his name on profile.
2 weeks ago we get a pals invite from the female half who has on her profile 'married female playing away', again using her name!
It's gonna end in tears!
S. "
Would love to be a fly on the wall when that kicks off! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How would you bring the subject of swinging to your partner . I would love you bring my other half into the scene but have no idea how to
I think sometimes people can't win on this site. When a married men thread comes up, they get told to go and ask the wife to swing ....so this man is asking for advice on how to go about it and that isn't right either.
Hi, I think it all depends on how open you are and your wife are.
We are really open anyway, but to get started we just spoke about fantasies...we ended up writing a list of fantasies we wanted to try, then put yes , no or maybe against it, then we swopped lists to see what the other had put.
It turned out we has a lot of fantasies that were the same, and a few the other hadn't thought of but both wanted to try."
Thanks for your advice. At least that's 1 reply worth reading . Sorry i'm not as perfect as some of the posters in here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not as bad as the guy who mails you with their single guy's profile swearing they ARE single - even though they have a couples profile up "we're a couple, love each other, best friends" etc. Fair enough, but when you mention the "couple" bit you get the whole "we've spilt but no-one knows yet" bull.
Some men are very stupid.  |
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Agree with poster above - suggesting it as a fantasy is def the way to go, - whilst in the act too - maybe start with "imagine someone watching us right now" - if you get a frosty response you might not want to continue. If you get a pleasant surprise at the notion, build it up into a fantasy and then, once that is a turn-on for both of you, ask "why not turn it into reality?". I'd also suggest a posh party is the way to go to begin, though we have met a few couples that seduced their friends : ) |
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