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Sharing in the world of swinging
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How good are you at sharing when swinging?
We all know that from time to time jealousy can rear it's ugly head when swinging.
Are you happy say for your friends to meet the same people you do or do you prefer not to meet people your friends are having fun with ?
Would you recommend a playmate to your friend knowing they would get on great ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I've only met the person once before I don't mind who they meet but there have been a few lads that I've really hit it off with and I dunno, just think it'd be weird if they met friends. Don't mind if they meet others just not people I'm close to.
I've recommended a couple of people in the past before but then it's turned bitchy because they didn't want me still meeting the person haha or the lad compared me to them and they didn't like the answer 
I tend to just block people that have played with friends as it saves the hassle of any crazies. |
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"If I've only met the person once before I don't mind who they meet but there have been a few lads that I've really hit it off with and I dunno, just think it'd be weird if they met friends. Don't mind if they meet others just not people I'm close to.
I've recommended a couple of people in the past before but then it's turned bitchy because they didn't want me still meeting the person haha or the lad compared me to them and they didn't like the answer
I tend to just block people that have played with friends as it saves the hassle of any crazies. "
I don't mind who's meeting who either .
Ive often invited friends to join me and playmates no problem but some have not been so good at letting me join Thier fun with friends lol.
It does make me laugh when others think because they have met someone then you can't. |
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"I think for couples if you can share your husband or wife then you can share others.
I don't have a problem with who meets who and what goes on "
Agree with fabfem, a lot of our friends play together, doesn't bother us at all, makes for a better party
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Oh dear they ran off before I could reply .
Never mind I'm sure they will be watching from thier real profiles ..so I hope all you people who attend my socials have enjoyed shagging me as it seems I only allow those who will   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"LMFAO
Oh dear
I thought the whole idea of swinging was sharing.
Or am I outta date and swinging has evolved to vanilla rules "
Who do you have to share?
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Never mind NMD, your little friend probably has probably went unlos as his Mum is probably shouting at him to come down from his bedroom. As the headmaster and school truancy officer are at the door asking about his poor attendance record! |
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By *oznrayCouple
over a year ago
helensburgh |
But on the original question, not sure we'd recommend anybody, as our likes and quirks may be different, happily very people. Fab can and is full of little cliques which we don't really fit into, over the years we've had friends that don't get on with each other but that's never bothered us, if we like you we like you simples |
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I've always had an invitation to any of your socials but I can't recall you attaching conditions to them!!!!
I'm happy to share my yummy friends, so long as they don't forget about me if we're attending socials together. |
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"No problems sharing.
I've even been know to share cake too....with the right people 
But I never got a shag at the socials either MissD - did I miss the queue too??   "
seems like it will you accept an Iou Andy ?  |
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
Falkirk |
"No problems sharing.
I've even been know to share cake too....with the right people
But I never got a shag at the socials either MissD - did I miss the queue too?? seems like it will you accept an Iou Andy ? "
Seeing as it's you....ok...but you owe me cake now too   |
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"No problems sharing.
I've even been know to share cake too....with the right people
But I never got a shag at the socials either MissD - did I miss the queue too?? seems like it will you accept an Iou Andy ?
Seeing as it's you....ok...but you owe me cake now too "
As long as I get my Krispy Kreme |
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As far as I am concered who you sleep with is no one else's business. So I have no problem with people I've met meeting someone else even if it's someone I don't like.
I did stupidly give my bf and a close friend my blessing to meet each other. They never did thankfully but I have to admit when I thought they were I wasn't happy. So with swingers yes close friends no. Xxxxxxx |
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"Was that towards you or me NMD? Either way that was hilarious whoever it was. no no was to the comments posted by unlos lol
What 'unlos'? Confused.com "
Post's were removed after poster went unlos Bothy . |
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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago
Midlothian |
we have no problems what so ever with who our friends play with. We will often recommend single males to other couples and vice versa.
I think it's all part of the scene, to pass on details of good meets to your friends. |
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We like to share, and there's a single guy we're friends with that I have recommended to quite a few ladies.
The only issue I have is the converse - if someone has met a specific person, I won't or are reluctant to meet them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I met 2 Women on here separately many years ago when Fab had not long began.Unknown too me the 2 Women hated one another.They even told me this at the time of meeting.I didn't comment or judge and I'm certainly not interested in others dramas.However.several months later after i had met them both They became the best of friends.Although was happy that they had put any bad feelings behind them .It all backfired onto me for shutting my mouth .They made up their own wee Stories that they read out Woman Own and gave me grief.
I would be hesitant ,reluctant too meet 2 Female friends due to the issues above.
Its probably something i would need too deeply digest before committing too ..
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