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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi guys, was wondering if any one could give me tips on how to improve my profile? And what to say when messaging people? I've tried to message a few but they either get deleted or not even looked at. What am I doing wrong..? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Take new pictures but tidy your bedroom, make your bed, remove the posters off your wall first. I know I probably sound like your mother but I can guarantee many women and couples who'll look at your profile will think the same.
You are only 21, you will be far too young for many of the people on here, and for that reason alone you may struggle for meets.
I can only suggest you get yourself along to one of they many socials that get organised, maybe try CJ's, get to know people socially and that may help you get meets. |
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"Take new pictures but tidy your bedroom, make your bed, remove the posters off your wall first. I know I probably sound like your mother but I can guarantee many women and couples who'll look at your profile will think the same.
You are only 21, you will be far too young for many of the people on here, and for that reason alone you may struggle for meets.
I can only suggest you get yourself along to one of they many socials that get organised, maybe try CJ's, get to know people socially and that may help you get meets. "
I will take that into account. Thank you for your help. It's much appreciated. And I'm always scared about going to one of the socials and to cjs on my own.. Too nervous.. |
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"Yawn
Look at me.
No one is replying to my messages so let's start yet another pointless thread !!!!!!!!"
Ignore this one Matty.
The tidy room / new pics thing might be an idea so try that. Also it will depend what you write in a message, we're not looking for single guys but send us a message as if you were trying to meet us & I'll give feedback if you want?
Cjs is an option but truth be told I'd be scared shitless to go alone if I was your age or if I didn't already know people there.
I'd suggest the forums, polite messages & patience.
Mr J |
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"Yawn
Look at me.
No one is replying to my messages so let's start yet another pointless thread !!!!!!!!
Ignore this one Matty.
The tidy room / new pics thing might be an idea so try that. Also it will depend what you write in a message, we're not looking for single guys but send us a message as if you were trying to meet us & I'll give feedback if you want?
Cjs is an option but truth be told I'd be scared shitless to go alone if I was your age or if I didn't already know people there.
I'd suggest the forums, polite messages & patience.
Mr J"
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