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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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This is a post that i know will cause alsorts of replies, but as they say " theres no such thing a stupid question just stupid answers!"
I have never been involved in a ganbang and i would like to right this wrong.
So i am thinking about arranging one myself with maybe 2 fems and say 6 or 7 guys. (or smaller to start with 1 fem 3 guys??)
However i dont have the first idea of where to start except on here.
So i would need to find 2 greedy girls that would be willing to be the center of attention and a few guys of course.
Would this be possible do to this via here???
Any advise would be welcomed.
However please mind im not looking for the smart arse answers that these fourms normally turn in to. I am 100% genuine and have been up front about not knowing where to start etc.
Thanks for taking time to read this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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well this is a good one , having never participated in a gangbang myself i wouldnt know where to start either , but , being female i for one would not trust a man to do this for me , i would want to be the one to choose the males involved, there has to be a level of trust , no sane female would just turn up and trust that the men there were not into something odd , i wish u luck in ur endeavour. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have never been involved in a ganbang and i would like to right this wrong.
So i am thinking about arranging one myself with maybe 2 fems and say 6 or 7 guys. (or smaller to start with 1 fem 3 guys??)
However i dont have the first idea of where to start except on here.............."
Breaking your gangbang virginity by organising your own, espeecially when you haven't a clue what you're doing and share a flat is probably about the most difficult way of going about it.
You'd be much better off trying to get an invite to any of the gangbangs held by others.
If you're determined to DIY you should get the lady/ ladies organised first and get them involved in picking the guys. Maybe THEY know some already. Maybe YOU know some already. Either way you'll need 2-3 times the number the ladies want to confirm they'll attendin order to get the number you're looking for. Inviting people you actually know and not just peeps on your 'Friends' list. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Totally agree thongz !!
I think there would need to be a huge level of trust before any female would consider doing this and certainly majority if not all fems would not even consider a just "turn up" without choosing the males option!!!!!
Kay
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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if you invite 10/12 guys...
maybe 5/6 may turn up.
2/3 may actually have sex
2/3 will get stage fright
1 will defo go back to the car to get something and you will never see him again..........
and prepare to clean up after everyone.
they arrive, shoot and leave. 
enjoy tho......... |
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By *antaMan
over a year ago
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never organised one but been to a few,
have found as long you set out rules of the party beforehand everything goes fine.(ie, protection to be worn, whats allowed and whats not(all of the ones ive been to have been no anal allowed))
Like thongz says getting the female involved in choosing the men to attend is going to be key to the success of it as she has to feel comfortable.
Good Luck getting it set up and dont forget the nibbles for when folk want a rest lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for all the replies so far, I never thought for one min that i would be picking the guys on my own, this would be down to the women involved.
Also never thougt of the number of no shows i would have to take in to account.
Knowing my luck id end up with a room full of guys and no women!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its,, stressy, thinking you have the guys, being fed lots of reassuring promises they will "be there mate,cant wait" and on day of said gb, they go quiet on you.
(had 13 en-route to one before and within 30 mins of start, 9 had dropped out)
But certainly the lady or ladies are totally familiar to me,and thats why you are both there and the organiser of it, to be the host and take care of whatever potential non-fun person or circumstance pops up (never had that ever).
The ideas _antastic, the reality of it is quite diffrent.
But super when it comes together, apologies to those i know who do reliably turn out by the way .
T xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well it looks like my posting worked, i have a sexy women who would very much like to be the center of attention with me and 3 or 4 other guys.
Like you have all said we need to sort out the "pull outs" pardon the pun! so we would be after a few extra should we need to fill the spaces.
If any guys would like to show genuine intrest please mail me and i will pass on the profiles to the girl in question to look at.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well it looks like my posting worked, i have a sexy women who would very much like to be the center of attention with me and 3 or 4 other guys.
Like you have all said we need to sort out the "pull outs" pardon the pun! so we would be after a few extra should we need to fill the spaces.
If any guys would like to show genuine intrest please mail me and i will pass on the profiles to the girl in question to look at.
Ahh if only your profile could allow us to do that very thing?
T
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"if you invite 10/12 guys...
maybe 5/6 may turn up.
2/3 may actually have sex
2/3 will get stage fright
1 will defo go back to the car to get something and you will never see him again..........
and prepare to clean up after everyone.
they arrive, shoot and leave.
enjoy tho........."
there speaks a man of experience..
ur cam partys are legendary _iew!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You could always just go to CJ's on a Greedy Girls night..."
i would suggest this too - and that way maybe the sexy lady could go, and also see if there was any hot men there that caught her interest... and invite them to yours? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"you dont get something for nothing in this life "
That's not actually true and there's certainly no need to pay for sex.
The OP is looking to plan a gangbang and I doubt he's intending to charge admission to either the ladies or the guys. |
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Is it just me?
But I'd feel a bit strange contacting a single guy I don't know re a gangbang with a girl who I know nothing about, but who is apparently 'up for it' on the basis that he'll get back to me if my application is successful.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it just me?
But I'd feel a bit strange contacting a single guy I don't know re a gangbang with a girl who I know nothing about, but who is apparently 'up for it' on the basis that he'll get back to me if my application is successful.
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Isn't that the basis of Fab? You get in touch with someone you don't know about maybe getting a shag and they get back to you if you're successful? |
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"Is it just me?
But I'd feel a bit strange contacting a single guy I don't know re a gangbang with a girl who I know nothing about, but who is apparently 'up for it' on the basis that he'll get back to me if my application is successful.
Isn't that the basis of Fab? You get in touch with someone you don't know about maybe getting a shag and they get back to you if you're successful?"
Yeah, but at least i know i'm getting in touch with someone i know i'd be interested in meeting/shagging.
In this instance, i'm being asked to throw my hat into the ring without knowing who's 'ring' it is... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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opps sorry ill sort that out lol
And for the poster that says its werid contacting a guy for a gangbag with some one they dont know, i have never met this girl either, she got in touch because of the thread.
FYI im not bi or gay either i have no intrest in seeing or reading your profile, so if it makes you feel werid, dont to it! Simples! |
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"opps sorry ill sort that out lol
And for the poster that says its werid contacting a guy for a gangbag with some one they dont know, i have never met this girl either, she got in touch because of the thread.
FYI im not bi or gay either i have no intrest in seeing or reading your profile, so if it makes you feel werid, dont to it! Simples!"
LOVE the non sequitur re my profile!
If you hadn't seen it or read it, you wouldn't know anything about it.
It's not about a gang-bang with someone I don't know, it's about a gang-bang and not knowing who it is with.
How does anyone know if they're interested if they don't know who they're going to be 'banging'.
Simples, as they say. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"opps sorry ill sort that out lol
And for the poster that says its werid contacting a guy for a gangbag with some one they dont know, i have never met this girl either, she got in touch because of the thread.
FYI im not bi or gay either i have no intrest in seeing or reading your profile, so if it makes you feel werid, dont to it! Simples!
LOVE the non sequitur re my profile!
If you hadn't seen it or read it, you wouldn't know anything about it.
It's not about a gang-bang with someone I don't know, it's about a gang-bang and not knowing who it is with.
How does anyone know if they're interested if they don't know who they're going to be 'banging'.
Simples, as they say."
I don't see what the problem is. You list 'dogging' in your interests.
Isn't that another example of not knowing who you're going to banging?
At least if you go to someone's home and don't find the bangee sufficiently attractive you ain't out £50. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"opps sorry ill sort that out lol
And for the poster that says its werid contacting a guy for a gangbag with some one they dont know, i have never met this girl either, she got in touch because of the thread.
FYI im not bi or gay either i have no intrest in seeing or reading your profile, so if it makes you feel werid, dont to it! Simples!
LOVE the non sequitur re my profile!
If you hadn't seen it or read it, you wouldn't know anything about it.
It's not about a gang-bang with someone I don't know, it's about a gang-bang and not knowing who it is with.
How does anyone know if they're interested if they don't know who they're going to be 'banging'.
Simples, as they say.
I don't see what the problem is. You list 'dogging' in your interests.
Isn't that another example of not knowing who you're going to banging?
At least if you go to someone's home and don't find the bangee sufficiently attractive you ain't out £50."
Says the guy with no pics |
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Dogging may well be in my 'interests' but so is a lot of stuff which I may or may not choose to do.
And that's a bit of a cheap point to make.
The point I was trying to make was that as a single guy, I wouldn't be tempted by the scenario the OP outlined i.e he's the organiser and the 'bangee' is mystery woman.
I'm not saying there's anything wrong with it, each to their own and all that, simply that it would put me off.
And if it puts me off, presumably some others, but not all, would feel the same way.
So, despite the OP's slightly arsey comments earlier, he asked what the reaction would be, and i've given mine. If he doesnt like the answer, fine, but it's a forum & he doesn't get to choose who posts what, anymore than he 'owns' the thread.
And besides, it say 'bi-curious' on my profile too, but I'm not.
Or am I?
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"You could always just go to CJ's on a Greedy Girls night...
At £50 admission for a single guy? "
We've never organised a gang bang, but we'd imagine you'd want refreshments, some drinks etc... Or if you decide to go for a hotel rather than your own place. Could easily imagine spending that or more. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You're right, it was a bit of a cheap point but nonetheless valid for that. I'm not above make a cheap point when it's justified.
As I said in an early post on this thread the OP "should get the lady/ ladies organised first and get them involved in picking the guys. Maybe THEY know some already. Maybe YOU know some already." That way the OP can, if asked, describe the girls to any would be participants and, if the guys don't like the sound of it, they don't have to get involved.
The advantage as I see it, being a miserable Scot, if you go to a privately organised gangbang and you don't like the girl/s, you walk away and are no worse off.
Go to a greedy girls night at a club and, if you don't like the girls, I don't suppose you get your £50 back, do you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You could always just go to CJ's on a Greedy Girls night...
At £50 admission for a single guy?
We've never organised a gang bang, but we'd imagine you'd want refreshments, some drinks etc... Or if you decide to go for a hotel rather than your own place. Could easily imagine spending that or more."
The OP is talking about 6 or 7 guys. At £50 per head?
That's a lot of refreshments. Even if you throw in a Travel Lodge at £49 you'd still be in the money if you could find 6-7 guys prepared to pay £50. |
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"You could always just go to CJ's on a Greedy Girls night...
At £50 admission for a single guy?
We've never organised a gang bang, but we'd imagine you'd want refreshments, some drinks etc... Or if you decide to go for a hotel rather than your own place. Could easily imagine spending that or more.
The OP is talking about 6 or 7 guys. At £50 per head?
That's a lot of refreshments. Even if you throw in a Travel Lodge at £49 you'd still be in the money if you could find 6-7 guys prepared to pay £50."
Why would he need to bring other guys to CJ's though?
All we were saying is: you want a gangbang experience you can go to CJ's and not have to go to great lengths to set it up then have it fall apart if the girl changes her mind. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Where on the op post does he say hes charging £50 a head ?  "
He's not. A suggestion was made that the OP attend a greedy girls night at a club. The clubs website tells us single guys pay £50 admission. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You could always just go to CJ's on a Greedy Girls night...
At £50 admission for a single guy?
We've never organised a gang bang, but we'd imagine you'd want refreshments, some drinks etc... Or if you decide to go for a hotel rather than your own place. Could easily imagine spending that or more.
The OP is talking about 6 or 7 guys. At £50 per head?
That's a lot of refreshments. Even if you throw in a Travel Lodge at £49 you'd still be in the money if you could find 6-7 guys prepared to pay £50.
Why would he need to bring other guys to CJ's though?
All we were saying is: you want a gangbang experience you can go to CJ's and not have to go to great lengths to set it up then have it fall apart if the girl changes her mind."
And if all you want is a shag you can go to the red light district, pay your money and take your chances.
We're not comparing like with like here. The OP, for reasons of his own, wants to organise a gang bang.
He could, of course, go to club, pay his money, empty his baw bag and go home. He appears, from his posts, to be looking for more. He may, of course, simply be seeking to do it on the cheap.
Either way, it doesn't sound as if a club is for him. I might well be proven wrong.
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He said he'd never been involved in one and wanted to fix that.
Our suggestion was a simple alternative to setting up your own.
In our experience it's not been a problem finding attractive girls at CJ's. Guys, on the other hand...
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it just me?
But I'd feel a bit strange contacting a single guy I don't know re a gangbang with a girl who I know nothing about, but who is apparently 'up for it' on the basis that he'll get back to me if my application is successful.
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Cool, and every fem or couple that messages you, you kinda adopt that attitude too? "Ehh do i know you?"
Sorry, what im saying is i dont get your thinking on it. |
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"Is it just me?
But I'd feel a bit strange contacting a single guy I don't know re a gangbang with a girl who I know nothing about, but who is apparently 'up for it' on the basis that he'll get back to me if my application is successful.
Cool, and every fem or couple that messages you, you kinda adopt that attitude too? "Ehh do i know you?"
Sorry, what im saying is i dont get your thinking on it."
Erm, at the risk of pointing out the bleeding obvious in answer to your point, if a fem or couple contacts me I know who they are from their profile.
And as such can make a decision on whether they are people I'd like to meet or not.
Which I would rather do than turn up not knowing who I was going to be 'banging'.
Call me old fashioned, call me 'not a real swinger', but I like to know who it is I'm going to fuck before I leave the house.
And at the risk of repeating myself to labour the point, that may not be the attitude everyone would take, which is absolutely their decision.
Or were you just being obtuse?
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By (user no longer on site)
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As a help to guys wanting to be included in a gangbang and helping the organiser of it.
Do introduce yourself with helpfull info.
Do leave an alternative line of communiction to be contacted,(saying you want considered and only being contactable via site for an event in 2 days time and you click on 3 days later rules you out).
Keep the asks straightforward,"ohh what will she be wearing,etc" kinda scares even us blokes off,lol.
If its a real short notice fun spur of moment event, asking for pic upon pic and inside leg measurements are far too time consuming for the organiser.
Ohh, being polite is a winner too, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i know nothing about gangbangs,,only ever saw them in the movies
but i agree with the guy that thinks he shld see who the fem /fems who would be involved. even at a gangbang,,,surley everyone needs to be comfortable?
or is it like arrive
shag,,leave,,,,next!!!! 
as i said iv no idea how they work
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i know nothing about gangbangs,,only ever saw them in the movies
but i agree with the guy that thinks he shld see who the fem /fems who would be involved. even at a gangbang,,,surley everyone needs to be comfortable?
or is it like arrive
shag,,leave,,,,next!!!!
as i said iv no idea how they work
auds xx "
Bit like athletics Auds, you keep putting your legs in the air till you're over the last hurdle.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Firstly, good luck in organising your GB.
To the part of the post that has turned into a bit of a debate, I think many people (not ppl that have posted on this post, just in general) are of the opinion because you are a single bloke and are priviliged enough to be invited to partake in any activity you should be grateful!!! This is not the case .... single blokes are just as entitled to see a pic/profile before hand in order to make a judgement on whether they would be happy to meet.
What happens if you put yourself forward as a candidate, get chosen then when you find out the woman is not your cup of tea, does that mean when you call off you get classed as "wasting my time" or "a bottler" or "any other name ppl call each other" for having the cheek to say you dont find the woman attractive????
T xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I think you will find that I have not said once that I would be expecting and payment, I would never ask that. As for the rest of the posts I have still to read them as on phone just now but I will read them later at home. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok guys and gals, having read all the posts and got myself up to speed with the posts id like to say thanks to everyone that replied, however going to a club is not for me i don't think.
Also paying or being paid to be involved in any sexual experience is not my thing at all!
As for the comments were "i like to see who im banging" please use a little initiative and think, you would not be turning up blind expecting to have sex with some one you have never seen (i know plenty of guys that would like this however) there would be some contact with the girl in question before hand where you can get to know each other, i thought this would be obvious but i guess not
as you can imagine the girl that has shown interest would like to "vet" the guys in her own time without being overwhelmed with emails should i post her name on her as she also would "like to see who im banging"
So after all that! I have 1 girl who very much wants to be the only girl there to start and i have had 1 email for a male to say he is intrested, whos details i have passed on to the fem.
I would still like to hear if any other fems or males would be intrested as alot of you pointed out, you cant take it for granted that folk will turn up on the date.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"well good for you,,,
you seem to know what your doing and i hope all goes well on the day/night xx
auds xx "
Thanks, just seem to need to pull it all together now! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't buy condoms, you can get them from free from your local FP clinic and often local pharmacies.
Towels? If you really feel the need but baby wipes are better for cleaning up and sheets give better coverage for any initial spillages.
Viagra? Don't give viagra to other people. You never know what health damage it might do to them. If they want to take viagra let them source and take their own.
Booze? Your call on that one. I happily lay on lots of soft drinks and nibbles but let anyone who needs alcohol bring their own.
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"Don't buy condoms, you can get them from free from your local FP clinic and often local pharmacies.
Towels? If you really feel the need but baby wipes are better for cleaning up and sheets give better coverage for any initial spillages.
Viagra? Don't give viagra to other people. You never know what health damage it might do to them. If they want to take viagra let them source and take their own.
Booze? Your call on that one. I happily lay on lots of soft drinks and nibbles but let anyone who needs alcohol bring their own.
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Seriously? How to make a fun sexy event read like a medical operation,lol
T xx |
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"Don't buy condoms, you can get them from free from your local FP clinic and often local pharmacies.
Towels? If you really feel the need but baby wipes are better for cleaning up and sheets give better coverage for any initial spillages.
Viagra? Don't give viagra to other people. You never know what health damage it might do to them. If they want to take viagra let them source and take their own.
Booze? Your call on that one. I happily lay on lots of soft drinks and nibbles but let anyone who needs alcohol bring their own.
Seriously? How to make a fun sexy event read like a medical operation,lol
T xx"
The OP asked for 'any advise' (sic) |
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"Don't buy condoms, you can get them from free from your local FP clinic and often local pharmacies.
Towels? If you really feel the need but baby wipes are better for cleaning up and sheets give better coverage for any initial spillages.
Viagra? Don't give viagra to other people. You never know what health damage it might do to them. If they want to take viagra let them source and take their own.
Booze? Your call on that one. I happily lay on lots of soft drinks and nibbles but let anyone who needs alcohol bring their own.
Seriously? How to make a fun sexy event read like a medical operation,lol
T xx
The OP asked for 'any advise' (sic)"
some people prefer to see condoms coming out of an unopened packet - therefore they couldnt have been tampered with
some people are allergic to the chemicals in baby wipes, or for people who wish to was =h after fun
viagra could be there for people to give to people if they request it
and booze again for people who request it.
also a willing female, a bed and a sense of humour goes a long way too
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well folks looks like you were right about folk bailing out, the fem has not replied to any emails ive sent or been in contact for about 2 weeks since she said she would be intrested in the meet, so any other fems that fancy being greedy please get in touch .
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"Well folks looks like you were right about folk bailing out, the fem has not replied to any emails ive sent or been in contact for about 2 weeks since she said she would be intrested in the meet, so any other fems that fancy being greedy please get in touch .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"great idea am thinking of organising one myself
mb me n 8 or 9 females n a litre of smirnoff
lol "
if it had been gin i would have put my name down hahahah xx |
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"Well folks looks like you were right about folk bailing out, the fem has not replied to any emails ive sent or been in contact for about 2 weeks since she said she would be intrested in the meet, so any other fems that fancy being greedy please get in touch .
Fair play to you, you gave it a try.
x"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You're right, it was a bit of a cheap point but nonetheless valid for that. I'm not above make a cheap point when it's justified.
As I said in an early post on this thread the OP "should get the lady/ ladies organised first and get them involved in picking the guys. Maybe THEY know some already. Maybe YOU know some already." That way the OP can, if asked, describe the girls to any would be participants and, if the guys don't like the sound of it, they don't have to get involved.
The advantage as I see it, being a miserable Scot, if you go to a privately organised gangbang and you don't like the girl/s, you walk away and are no worse off.
Go to a greedy girls night at a club and, if you don't like the girls, I don't suppose you get your £50 back, do you?"
As someone who goes to cj's fairly regularly I have never known the charge for single males to be as high as £50.
Also, I like to think that I am paying to use the club facilities and meet people that I certainly wouldnt have time to meet in my busy life.
I resent the implication that going to a club means you are paying for sex, both as a paying person and as someone who has sex there.
I think perhaps you should rethink your take on attending clubs.
I feel safer going to an organised business event with security around than going to someones house or a hotel room that I know nothing about. Safety is paramount and a club is certainly a safe option.
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The gangbang thing has been a fanasty of mine for a wee while.
I tried a greedy girl night at CJ's, but I found that because I had no control over who was there, I didnt want to play with anyone.
After leaving it a couple of months, I have decided to give it another bash, with ME organizing it.
Hopefully all will go well. |
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"You're right, it was a bit of a cheap point but nonetheless valid for that. I'm not above make a cheap point when it's justified.
As I said in an early post on this thread the OP "should get the lady/ ladies organised first and get them involved in picking the guys. Maybe THEY know some already. Maybe YOU know some already." That way the OP can, if asked, describe the girls to any would be participants and, if the guys don't like the sound of it, they don't have to get involved.
The advantage as I see it, being a miserable Scot, if you go to a privately organised gangbang and you don't like the girl/s, you walk away and are no worse off.
Go to a greedy girls night at a club and, if you don't like the girls, I don't suppose you get your £50 back, do you?
As someone who goes to cj's fairly regularly I have never known the charge for single males to be as high as £50.
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I extracted the price from the club's website. At the time I wrote it was £50. There are still cached pages available showing that sum. It now reads £40. |
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"You're right, it was a bit of a cheap point but nonetheless valid for that. I'm not above make a cheap point when it's justified.
As I said in an early post on this thread the OP "should get the lady/ ladies organised first and get them involved in picking the guys. Maybe THEY know some already. Maybe YOU know some already." That way the OP can, if asked, describe the girls to any would be participants and, if the guys don't like the sound of it, they don't have to get involved.
The advantage as I see it, being a miserable Scot, if you go to a privately organised gangbang and you don't like the girl/s, you walk away and are no worse off.
Go to a greedy girls night at a club and, if you don't like the girls, I don't suppose you get your £50 back, do you?
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Also, I like to think that I am paying to use the club facilities and meet people that I certainly wouldnt have time to meet in my busy life.
I resent the implication that going to a club means you are paying for sex, both as a paying person and as someone who has sex there.
I think perhaps you should rethink your take on attending clubs.
I feel safer going to an organised business event with security around than going to someones house or a hotel room that I know nothing about. Safety is paramount and a club is certainly a safe option.
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I'm sure almost everyone has their own, perfectly valid, reasons for paying to attend a swingers club.
I can think of no reason(s) whatsoever why I would part with any sum of money, beit £40 or £50, to go to a swingers club.
It's probably my Presbyterian upbring but I just can't accept that money has any place in sex. |
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"You're right, it was a bit of a cheap point but nonetheless valid for that. I'm not above make a cheap point when it's justified.
As I said in an early post on this thread the OP "should get the lady/ ladies organised first and get them involved in picking the guys. Maybe THEY know some already. Maybe YOU know some already." That way the OP can, if asked, describe the girls to any would be participants and, if the guys don't like the sound of it, they don't have to get involved.
The advantage as I see it, being a miserable Scot, if you go to a privately organised gangbang and you don't like the girl/s, you walk away and are no worse off.
Go to a greedy girls night at a club and, if you don't like the girls, I don't suppose you get your £50 back, do you?
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Also, I like to think that I am paying to use the club facilities and meet people that I certainly wouldnt have time to meet in my busy life.
I resent the implication that going to a club means you are paying for sex, both as a paying person and as someone who has sex there.
I think perhaps you should rethink your take on attending clubs.
I feel safer going to an organised business event with security around than going to someones house or a hotel room that I know nothing about. Safety is paramount and a club is certainly a safe option.
I'm sure almost everyone has their own, perfectly valid, reasons for paying to attend a swingers club.
I can think of no reason(s) whatsoever why I would part with any sum of money, beit £40 or £50, to go to a swingers club.
It's probably my Presbyterian upbring but I just can't accept that money has any place in sex."
Will wait to see your "Guide to Free Hotels" etc, soon then, lol
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You don't pay for sex at CJ's, on any night. The people having sex make no profit from the entrance fee and therefore the money's no more invovled in sex than the fee you'd pay to get into any club.
You pay a party contribution. For lots of people it's a social thing.
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"You don't pay for sex at CJ's, on any night. The people having sex make no profit from the entrance fee and therefore the money's no more invovled in sex than the fee you'd pay to get into any club.
You pay a party contribution. For lots of people it's a social thing.
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That's a bit like saying you don't pay your cinema admission in order to see the film.
You just pay to go into a room and sit about with some other likeminded people and, if there happens to be a film showing, that's even better.
I'm not criticising, far less condemning, people who go to clubs. Each to their own but it ain't for me. |
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"You don't pay for sex at CJ's, on any night. The people having sex make no profit from the entrance fee and therefore the money's no more invovled in sex than the fee you'd pay to get into any club.
You pay a party contribution. For lots of people it's a social thing.
That's a bit like saying you don't pay your cinema admission in order to see the film.
You just pay to go into a room and sit about with some other likeminded people and, if there happens to be a film showing, that's even better.
I'm not criticising, far less condemning, people who go to clubs. Each to their own but it ain't for me."
It's not quite the same. You pay a fee, you go into the club, you have sex with someone - you're fee doesn't go to them. They have not been paid to have sex with you. Of course people go there looking for sex, but people do that in lots of places you pay a fee to get into.
Either that or we're owed some serious cash!
And anyway everyone pays for sex in someway. We buy clothes to look good for prospective partners and to increase our confidence. Hell we buy condoms and toys for the actual act. |
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