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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hello I was in cjs on sat night Wi 2 off my friends .which the guy was out o order and bared. Aparently involving spanking a woman hard as she wanted to stop as I was in toilet. What hapened and who was the girl so I can find out if she is oki |
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She's fine but sadly single guys have been overstepping the mark a little more each week ie trying to use the couples room and trying to join in on fun without asking! Just spoils it for the rest
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"She's fine but sadly single guys have been overstepping the mark a little more each week ie trying to use the couples room and trying to join in on fun without asking! Just spoils it for the rest
John "
See they are now doing occasional couple and fem only nights. Hope it takes off |
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"She's fine but sadly single guys have been overstepping the mark a little more each week ie trying to use the couples room and trying to join in on fun without asking! Just spoils it for the rest
John "
I had someone persistently try to get into a private room despite me telling him I didn't want him there. This is the only bad experience I've had in CJs. It hasn't put me off going back but if it becomes a regular thing it might. |
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By *dlilbumCouple
over a year ago
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I personally felt quite uncomfortable with a few of the single guys on Saturday night. Seen more than one instance of touching without any attempt at gaining a signal that it was ok to do so as well as a few guys rattling on private room doors as if they were going to be allowed access to join in. They're private rooms for a reason!
I'm not anti single guys either, I used to go along as a single guy myself! But maybe the rules and manner of expected behaviour has to be made clearer to a few.
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"I personally felt quite uncomfortable with a few of the single guys on Saturday night. Seen more than one instance of touching without any attempt at gaining a signal that it was ok to do so as well as a few guys rattling on private room doors as if they were going to be allowed access to join in. They're private rooms for a reason!
I'm not anti single guys either, I used to go along as a single guy myself! But maybe the rules and manner of expected behaviour has to be made clearer to a few.
D x"
Yeah in paticular single guys using a single female to gain access to the couples room and leaving them at door and trying to just join in without asking. It's very off putting, the couples room is great for playing when everyone follows the rules but when one person pushes it then it just spoils it for everyone. 3 of us left the bed just because someone wouldn't take the hint
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"She's fine but sadly single guys have been overstepping the mark a little more each week ie trying to use the couples room and trying to join in on fun without asking! Just spoils it for the rest
John
See they are now doing occasional couple and fem only nights. Hope it takes off"
One Saturday per month, just so happens to be next Saturday (20th)
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By (user no longer on site)
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"She's fine but sadly single guys have been overstepping the mark a little more each week ie trying to use the couples room and trying to join in on fun without asking! Just spoils it for the rest
John
See they are now doing occasional couple and fem only nights. Hope it takes off"
I don't know the couples well enough to know but the L does and insisted half the guys in there Saturday... singles taken in my fems, didn't put me up or down but she took ALOT of warming up for a lassy who could get wet at a funeral! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There was a few single guys that were a bit pushy. The staff noticed guys following me and another fem about and asked if we were ok or if anyone was giving us hassle.
Couldn't fault the staff on Saturday.
I'm no stranger to a single male but a polite no thanks means no. Not why don't you just try your luck anyway.
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By *dlilbumCouple
over a year ago
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"She's fine but sadly single guys have been overstepping the mark a little more each week ie trying to use the couples room and trying to join in on fun without asking! Just spoils it for the rest
John
See they are now doing occasional couple and fem only nights. Hope it takes off"
I think our next trip to CJ's will be a couples and single gem night!
D x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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At cjs ive always found the staff really approachable and they do deal with these situations really well imo, but unless someone tells them its near enough impossible to nip in the bud x |
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"At cjs ive always found the staff really approachable and they do deal with these situations really well imo, but unless someone tells them its near enough impossible to nip in the bud x"
Thankfully a few were shown the door this time whereas before they've only been warned which they forget about by the next day when they sober up, being ejected is the only way they'll learn and that others see that it's not allowed, staff are great but sometimes when it's busy they'll not see everything happening.
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To much drink leads to some of these problems unfortunately. Even i had a little unwanted attention from couple of guys on a previous night . If folk dont take no for an answer tell staff immediately then the offenders get dealt with . |
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"Yeh exactly they wont when its busy which is why people need to make them aware.
Im sure it wont be the first or last time someone is ejected x"
Sadly some folk would rather keep it to themself then bitch about the venue than just say to staff, like you said the staff are really helpful but they can't see everything especially what's happening in the rooms. Things like this happen but thankfully it's being sorted
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just need to put it into perspective a few trouble makers but 99%.of people had a great night, unfortuntly a sudden family breavement meant a change in plans for me personally x |
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"To much drink leads to some of these problems unfortunately. Even i had a little unwanted attention from couple of guys on a previous night . If folk dont take no for an answer tell staff immediately then the offenders get dealt with ."
But yeah I agree sometimes it's too easy to get very d*unk, we've all been there before lol sometimes nerves gets the better of folk and Dutch courage kicks in
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By *lue4youCouple
over a year ago
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TBH, I've had no more hassle from single guys at CJs, then on any other night out in town. Most times, a simple "no thank you but thank you for asking" stops the attention. If it doesnt and I get the whole ramble about what i would like etc, then the Paddington cold stare and a very direct "I said no thanks and thats my choice, so no and goodbye", actually seems to finish the pursuit with an apology from the guy. I'm very good at the cold stare lol. Failing that,I would have no hesitation in reporting it to the staff. Worth their weight in gold XXX  |
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"TBH, I've had no more hassle from single guys at CJs, then on any other night out in town. Most times, a simple "no thank you but thank you for asking" stops the attention. If it doesnt and I get the whole ramble about what i would like etc, then the Paddington cold stare and a very direct "I said no thanks and thats my choice, so no and goodbye", actually seems to finish the pursuit with an apology from the guy. I'm very good at the cold stare lol. Failing that,I would have no hesitation in reporting it to the staff. Worth their weight in gold XXX "
I wouldn't ask twice if you gave me that cold stare!  . Agree with this... As you said if your firm they get the message, fortunately for me my approach is much like yours and seems to do the trick
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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must admit i find all the staff at cjs very helpful but there were a few ass and boob feelers about on saturday night but being me i politely said if you dont get your hands off me you will be singing soprano lol oh mrs blue thanks for your oral support at the couples room x |
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The problem is how do we cut out the bad eggs?
Is there a way where we can leave feedback on people/couples? Then that way when they are looking to attend the poor feedback leads to a sorry you are not getting to attend. ? Just a thought.
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"must admit i find all the staff at cjs very helpful but there were a few ass and boob feelers about on saturday night but being me i politely said if you dont get your hands off me you will be singing soprano lol oh mrs blue thanks for your oral support at the couples room x"
You calling me a ass and boob feeler? x
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"must admit i find all the staff at cjs very helpful but there were a few ass and boob feelers about on saturday night but being me i politely said if you dont get your hands off me you will be singing soprano lol oh mrs blue thanks for your oral support at the couples room x
You calling me a ass and boob feeler? x
John "
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Best thing we can all do to protect CJ's is to be the eyes and ears.
There's always going to be twats that push their luck or cross a line, so if we all keep our eye out then a quick word with security will sort it.
Julie has had it before, guys being touchy feely without asking and the staff have always been quick to deal with the problem. |
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We also noticed there were a couple of single guys accompanied into the couples room. One guy was asked if he was alone and he pointed across at a woman chatting to a couple.
We also noticed something heating up in the upstairs corridor, but the staff dealt with it quickly and firmly. We didn't have any unwanted attention but were impressed by the response of the staff. |
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CJ's is normally very good for the single guys but Sat night we had a few annoyances. One guy followed us around and consistently tried to corner S when she was alone and when she left a private room for the bathroom some guy tried to block her from getting back to the room.
This is not usual for there. We've been to the new club 3 times, the old place and the one before that. We think it would be easier to stop them crashing the couples room if it was down the corridor, then they've no reason to be there at all unless invited/with someone.
We've nothing against the single guys who go, some are lovely and we've enjoyed talking with a few but it only takes one or two to ruin it for the rest. |
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"CJ's is normally very good for the single guys but Sat night we had a few annoyances. One guy followed us around and consistently tried to corner S when she was alone and when she left a private room for the bathroom some guy tried to block her from getting back to the room.
This is not usual for there. We've been to the new club 3 times, the old place and the one before that. We think it would be easier to stop them crashing the couples room if it was down the corridor, then they've no reason to be there at all unless invited/with someone.
We've nothing against the single guys who go, some are lovely and we've enjoyed talking with a few but it only takes one or two to ruin it for the rest."
Probably not the right thing to say on here however if someone tried to 'corner' j then there would be carnage. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Single males for the most part are fine at CJ's they act incredibly creepy just quietly wandering around upstairs following people but fairly harmless. Sadly sometimes they over step the mark, its happened to us more than once and will likely happen again thankfully the security staff are great and providing you make them aware they will sort it. Key is they have to be made aware, we constantly hear cringy stories the next day that end with 'we didn't bother reporting it' not much can be done if these ass hats aren't reported.
The only problem we had on Saturday actually came from the male half of a couple who thought it'd be funny to 'joke' about blackmailing us in an attempt to get us home with them.... At least we hope it was just an ill advised joke. |
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By *els01Woman
over a year ago
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There seemed to be more single guys than usual on Sat night! The congregation of single guys at the top of the stairs was off-putting! I felt very uncomfortable with it.
I was in couples/single fems room and felt very uncomfortable because there was single guys in there. They had been taken in by single fems, which is rubbish because it spoils it for everyone else!
In the dungeon, there was a guy branding a whip about without a clue - he got kicked out by one of the staff members, was very impressed at the speed that the guy was kicked out!!
I'm still pretty new to all of this and find it really difficult to relax and have fun there! The single guy element does put me off I think. I might try another couples/single fems night and see how that goes! Last time was a disaster but that's cos my head wasn't in it that night!! Xxx |
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"There seemed to be more single guys than usual on Sat night! The congregation of single guys at the top of the stairs was off-putting! I felt very uncomfortable with it.
I was in couples/single fems room and felt very uncomfortable because there was single guys in there. They had been taken in by single fems, which is rubbish because it spoils it for everyone else!
In the dungeon, there was a guy branding a whip about without a clue - he got kicked out by one of the staff members, was very impressed at the speed that the guy was kicked out!!
I'm still pretty new to all of this and find it really difficult to relax and have fun there! The single guy element does put me off I think. I might try another couples/single fems night and see how that goes! Last time was a disaster but that's cos my head wasn't in it that night!! Xxx"
They're going to have to sort something out or couples won't go and it'll just be a bunch of guys wanting. Also seems like too many single guys and single girls team up and go together then the guys just prowl about. Don't know how that can be remedied but needs looked into |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to go to CJ s old place with a friend but have not been to the new club. I would not attend as a single guy as I am not great at mingling. The one thing I disliked was the single guys trying it on with my partner rather than approaching us both.
I found this behaviour rather predatory and very off putting.Maybe CO has to chat to the guys more and set them straight !! |
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"There seemed to be more single guys than usual on Sat night! The congregation of single guys at the top of the stairs was off-putting! I felt very uncomfortable with it.
I was in couples/single fems room and felt very uncomfortable because there was single guys in there. They had been taken in by single fems, which is rubbish because it spoils it for everyone else!
In the dungeon, there was a guy branding a whip about without a clue - he got kicked out by one of the staff members, was very impressed at the speed that the guy was kicked out!!
I'm still pretty new to all of this and find it really difficult to relax and have fun there! The single guy element does put me off I think. I might try another couples/single fems night and see how that goes! Last time was a disaster but that's cos my head wasn't in it that night!! Xxx
They're going to have to sort something out or couples won't go and it'll just be a bunch of guys wanting. Also seems like too many single guys and single girls team up and go together then the guys just prowl about. Don't know how that can be remedied but needs looked into"
You cant really assess if people are just teaming up or not as not everyone that goes is not on fab etc plus plenty of fb/.fwb profiles on here. And i think its been said further up its not always single guys that are to blame. Best way is to report at the time , let the staff deal with it, and im sure if offenders get thrown out they would think twice about coming back x |
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"There seemed to be more single guys than usual on Sat night! The congregation of single guys at the top of the stairs was off-putting! I felt very uncomfortable with it.
I was in couples/single fems room and felt very uncomfortable because there was single guys in there. They had been taken in by single fems, which is rubbish because it spoils it for everyone else!
In the dungeon, there was a guy branding a whip about without a clue - he got kicked out by one of the staff members, was very impressed at the speed that the guy was kicked out!!
I'm still pretty new to all of this and find it really difficult to relax and have fun there! The single guy element does put me off I think. I might try another couples/single fems night and see how that goes! Last time was a disaster but that's cos my head wasn't in it that night!! Xxx
They're going to have to sort something out or couples won't go and it'll just be a bunch of guys wanting. Also seems like too many single guys and single girls team up and go together then the guys just prowl about. Don't know how that can be remedied but needs looked into
You cant really assess if people are just teaming up or not as not everyone that goes is not on fab etc plus plenty of fb/.fwb profiles on here. And i think its been said further up its not always single guys that are to blame. Best way is to report at the time , let the staff deal with it, and im sure if offenders get thrown out they would think twice about coming back x"
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Fun for all nights can be tough for single guys, and it doesn't make it any easier when idiots over step the boundaries.
I've seen one of the idiots before trying to get involved where he wasn't invited, if I see him again I'll need to let the staff know to keep an eye on him. |
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By *lascumMan
over a year ago
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Unfortunately due to work I don't get so CJ's as often as I like but the past few times I've been, a lot of new single guys are coming along. I've been as a single and couple but starting to feel embarrassed to go as a single guy now as we all seem to be tarred with the same brush. No means no, no matter the situation. The staff are great for keeping their eyes open for potential trouble but it's starting to get to the stage that I get concerned that Caroline will no longer have single guys coming along.  |
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"Unfortunately due to work I don't get so CJ's as often as I like but the past few times I've been, a lot of new single guys are coming along. I've been as a single and couple but starting to feel embarrassed to go as a single guy now as we all seem to be tarred with the same brush. No means no, no matter the situation. The staff are great for keeping their eyes open for potential trouble but it's starting to get to the stage that I get concerned that Caroline will no longer have single guys coming along. "
I think if it ever got to that guys such as yourself would still be welcome as Caroline knows who the decent guys are.
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By *lascumMan
over a year ago
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"Unfortunately due to work I don't get so CJ's as often as I like but the past few times I've been, a lot of new single guys are coming along. I've been as a single and couple but starting to feel embarrassed to go as a single guy now as we all seem to be tarred with the same brush. No means no, no matter the situation. The staff are great for keeping their eyes open for potential trouble but it's starting to get to the stage that I get concerned that Caroline will no longer have single guys coming along.
I think if it ever got to that guys such as yourself would still be welcome as Caroline knows who the decent guys are.
K x"
Thanks K but it does pee me off sometimes. I've been with my friend before and had to tell three guys in one of the room no in a pretty firm manner, which if the guys have had a drink could take in the wrong way. I'm all for playing but just because you are at a club night is no excuse for manners and reason to go out the window, I can understand why so many are now getting tired of it. Perhaps as was mentioned earlier the rooms could be rearranged to make no go zones although a lot of work has been put in to get the rooms the way people like. |
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We went when it wasn't busy last week and the guys there were respectful enough.
We did notice the locks on the private room doors weren't great and were easily opened with a wee push from outside.
Also I've looked at some clubs down south for our next trip and noticed one does coloured badges ie blue if your looking for couples, red of your into singles, yellow if your just playing alone. Maybe this could help although don't know where u would pin the badge when ur in the buff. Maybe a big sticky thing that u slap on ur arse
We will prob only attend couples nights as well though as that's what we are looking for |
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"We went when it wasn't busy last week and the guys there were respectful enough.
We did notice the locks on the private room doors weren't great and were easily opened with a wee push from outside.
Also I've looked at some clubs down south for our next trip and noticed one does coloured badges ie blue if your looking for couples, red of your into singles, yellow if your just playing alone. Maybe this could help although don't know where u would pin the badge when ur in the buff. Maybe a big sticky thing that u slap on ur arse
We will prob only attend couples nights as well though as that's what we are looking for "
How about rubber wristbands like the cloakroom ones? |
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"We went when it wasn't busy last week and the guys there were respectful enough.
We did notice the locks on the private room doors weren't great and were easily opened with a wee push from outside.
Also I've looked at some clubs down south for our next trip and noticed one does coloured badges ie blue if your looking for couples, red of your into singles, yellow if your just playing alone. Maybe this could help although don't know where u would pin the badge when ur in the buff. Maybe a big sticky thing that u slap on ur arse
We will prob only attend couples nights as well though as that's what we are looking for "
CJ's does give you a numbered wrist band, maybe they could be coloured that way?
I've found Wednesday afternoons more relaxed, maybe because of less alcohol or maybe it's guys who know how to behave. |
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"We went when it wasn't busy last week and the guys there were respectful enough.
We did notice the locks on the private room doors weren't great and were easily opened with a wee push from outside.
Also I've looked at some clubs down south for our next trip and noticed one does coloured badges ie blue if your looking for couples, red of your into singles, yellow if your just playing alone. Maybe this could help although don't know where u would pin the badge when ur in the buff. Maybe a big sticky thing that u slap on ur arse
We will prob only attend couples nights as well though as that's what we are looking for
How about rubber wristbands like the cloakroom ones?"
Yep that's an idea it would also show up any singles in the couples rooms x |
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"We went when it wasn't busy last week and the guys there were respectful enough.
We did notice the locks on the private room doors weren't great and were easily opened with a wee push from outside.
Also I've looked at some clubs down south for our next trip and noticed one does coloured badges ie blue if your looking for couples, red of your into singles, yellow if your just playing alone. Maybe this could help although don't know where u would pin the badge when ur in the buff. Maybe a big sticky thing that u slap on ur arse
We will prob only attend couples nights as well though as that's what we are looking for
CJ's does give you a numbered wrist band, maybe they could be coloured that way?
I've found Wednesday afternoons more relaxed, maybe because of less alcohol or maybe it's guys who know how to behave."
Not necessarily. We have only attended cj's once & it was on Wednesday afternoon. As I was playing with 2 guys, I caught site of another guy about to join in without introducing himself or waiting for an invitation 
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"We went when it wasn't busy last week and the guys there were respectful enough.
We did notice the locks on the private room doors weren't great and were easily opened with a wee push from outside.
Also I've looked at some clubs down south for our next trip and noticed one does coloured badges ie blue if your looking for couples, red of your into singles, yellow if your just playing alone. Maybe this could help although don't know where u would pin the badge when ur in the buff. Maybe a big sticky thing that u slap on ur arse
We will prob only attend couples nights as well though as that's what we are looking for
How about rubber wristbands like the cloakroom ones?
Yep that's an idea it would also show up any singles in the couples rooms x"
The problem here is the single guys who book in with a female n once inside they go their separate ways. Great idea but unfortunately there will always be ways round it.
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"We went when it wasn't busy last week and the guys there were respectful enough.
We did notice the locks on the private room doors weren't great and were easily opened with a wee push from outside.
Also I've looked at some clubs down south for our next trip and noticed one does coloured badges ie blue if your looking for couples, red of your into singles, yellow if your just playing alone. Maybe this could help although don't know where u would pin the badge when ur in the buff. Maybe a big sticky thing that u slap on ur arse
We will prob only attend couples nights as well though as that's what we are looking for
How about rubber wristbands like the cloakroom ones?
Yep that's an idea it would also show up any singles in the couples rooms x"
But what about the friends that come together theyd be given a couples band then i am assuming?? But not really a couple so then gives them access all areas.
ive never really had any issues at cjs tbh but i am sure she will find a solution soon enough x
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"We went when it wasn't busy last week and the guys there were respectful enough.
We did notice the locks on the private room doors weren't great and were easily opened with a wee push from outside.
Also I've looked at some clubs down south for our next trip and noticed one does coloured badges ie blue if your looking for couples, red of your into singles, yellow if your just playing alone. Maybe this could help although don't know where u would pin the badge when ur in the buff. Maybe a big sticky thing that u slap on ur arse
We will prob only attend couples nights as well though as that's what we are looking for
How about rubber wristbands like the cloakroom ones?
Yep that's an idea it would also show up any singles in the couples rooms x
The problem here is the single guys who book in with a female n once inside they go their separate ways. Great idea but unfortunately there will always be ways round it.
K x"
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"We went when it wasn't busy last week and the guys there were respectful enough.
We did notice the locks on the private room doors weren't great and were easily opened with a wee push from outside.
Also I've looked at some clubs down south for our next trip and noticed one does coloured badges ie blue if your looking for couples, red of your into singles, yellow if your just playing alone. Maybe this could help although don't know where u would pin the badge when ur in the buff. Maybe a big sticky thing that u slap on ur arse
We will prob only attend couples nights as well though as that's what we are looking for
CJ's does give you a numbered wrist band, maybe they could be coloured that way?
I've found Wednesday afternoons more relaxed, maybe because of less alcohol or maybe it's guys who know how to behave.
Not necessarily. We have only attended cj's once & it was on Wednesday afternoon. As I was playing with 2 guys, I caught site of another guy about to join in without introducing himself or waiting for an invitation
R"
Some guys are just arseholes though, just tell them to fuck off or shout on the staff if they persist after a polite no |
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Some really interesting perspectives of Saturday evening, i saw the whip cracker leave the dungeon.
Alcohol was affecting him, all the staff work hard ensuring a good time is had by all.
CJ strives to deal with any potential troublemaker male or female. If in doubt ask her for reassurance, she doesn't bite 
All the ladies received a rose for valentines |
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over a year ago
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A wee bit of dialogue with the club that use it and see how they do it and if it works. If it doesn't then ditch the idea.
The clubs have to be self policing to a certain extent as well. If you see someone uncomfortable you should be asking if they are ok the staff can only see so much. |
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"Alcohol really does play a big part. C doesn't drink and I rarely do, and we don't play with people who are obviously under the influence"
My arse... you were both like vultures the second Karen got undressed x
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"Alcohol really does play a big part. C doesn't drink and I rarely do, and we don't play with people who are obviously under the influence
My arse... you were both like vultures the second Karen got undressed x
John "
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By *lue4youCouple
over a year ago
Lanarkshire |
"must admit i find all the staff at cjs very helpful but there were a few ass and boob feelers about on saturday night but being me i politely said if you dont get your hands off me you will be singing soprano lol oh mrs blue thanks for your oral support at the couples room x"
Your more than welcome xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"She's fine but sadly single guys have been overstepping the mark a little more each week ie trying to use the couples room and trying to join in on fun without asking! Just spoils it for the rest
John "
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Yes we had a similar problem Saturday and it was such a shame! We had wanted to go into the dungeon and do some rope work but it was a mass of single guys, many well under the influence of alcohol. Its not just that this gave an off putting atmosphere or prevented others who may wanted to have watch respectfully from watching but also made the whole idea seem unsafe. In that environment with me tied up and no security guards present in that room it felt as though it would be easy for something dangerous to happen without H having any sort of back up.
On the flip side though, we met an absolutely fabulous single guy, polite, sober, funny and he was right up our street and therefore got the action deserving of his attitude. Guys don't seem to get that its being pleasant and respectful that will get them the action, not groping.
Jizz x |
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There defo was a fair volume of single men on Saturday night weither they arrived as a couple then parted company or not who knows ,but the staff was quick on the mark with any type of trouble which I commend them on ,it was only my second visit to cj's new club which says something in itself (i went back ) i think one or two more staff members wouldn't go amiss though as there's a heck of alot of people there for such a small amount of staff to contend with but in saying that they do a grand job |
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By *els01Woman
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"There defo was a fair volume of single men on Saturday night weither they arrived as a couple then parted company or not who knows ,but the staff was quick on the mark with any type of trouble which I commend them on ,it was only my second visit to cj's new club which says something in itself (i went back ) i think one or two more staff members wouldn't go amiss though as there's a heck of alot of people there for such a small amount of staff to contend with but in saying that they do a grand job "
There was a lot more staff there than normal on Saturday xx  |
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"Yes we had a similar problem Saturday and it was such a shame! We had wanted to go into the dungeon and do some rope work but it was a mass of single guys, many well under the influence of alcohol. Its not just that this gave an off putting atmosphere or prevented others who may wanted to have watch respectfully from watching but also made the whole idea seem unsafe. In that environment with me tied up and no security guards present in that room it felt as though it would be easy for something dangerous to happen without H having any sort of back up.
On the flip side though, we met an absolutely fabulous single guy, polite, sober, funny and he was right up our street and therefore got the action deserving of his attitude. Guys don't seem to get that its being pleasant and respectful that will get them the action, not groping.
Jizz x"
I did see the guy try and grope you, not the first time I've seen him try something uninvited. I'll be warning people about that one.  |
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We weren't at CJs, instead we visited After8 for the Mrs first time. Mr had been a few times solo.
Overall it was fine, however our night was spoiled by two overly pushy guys trying to stick their tongue down her neck and grab her ass/chest.
Then later the two of us played together and left the door open for people to watch. Which was fine, the guys were respectful enough. Until a cross dresser decided to jump on the bed, grab Mrs chest, try out his finger up her bum and also grab my bits. For some reason he removed the condom.
Had to tell him twice to get lost, and eventually he got the message. He kept thinking I was joining. But that was enough for us.
However we haven't been put off by it, and the After8 messaged me to apologise and were really nice about it all. In future I'd probably make sure the club were aware of it: at the time I left it as I had dealt with it myself.
But from prior visits as a single guy..I couldn't believe how pushy people can be. We were the only young couple there that night and I expected guys to want the Mrs...but it was a bit too pushy for our liking.
Funny to see similar stuff happening at CJs as we plan on visiting there soon.
Figured I'd add to the thread our experience at the weekend. |
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For me after 8 is not a patch on cjs.
There are some great people who attended both clubs but for me the atmosphere in cjs is far better.
After 8 seems cramped and wasn't a good atmosphere lots and lots of single also.
Mibi we went on a bad nite and it was our first ever visit to a swingers club and it wasn't a good experience and after attending cjs a couple weeks later we were hooked.
A think the issue with people after a few too many will always be there part and parcel |
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"Hello I was in cjs on sat night Wi 2 off my friends .which the guy was out o order and bared. Aparently involving spanking a woman hard as she wanted to stop as I was in toilet. What hapened and who was the girl so I can find out if she is oki "
The girl in question is fine just to answer your final question.
I'll agree the stuff did a good job even though they were well outnumbered by the single guys in attendance.
The ratio of couples/single guys/single fems in the club I think needs looked at for these kind of nights. There seemed to be more single guys than couples on the Saturday night which for some is off putting especially when they all stand upstairs in the corridor and the landing. The staff couldn't watch the couples only door every second and quite a few took the opportunity to open the door and walk in or just look in.
More couples only nights would be appreciated
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I like after8 and cjs but cjs wins hands down. But I think as a single women they have got all the power and the freedom in the club and find it easy to get involved Wi couples and any sort off fun.but it is hard for a single guy .maby it's me as I like to respect a girl |
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"I'm trying to gear myself up to go myself one night and keep pulling out last minute as too scared lol but this is kinda putting me off a bit "
Every night is different, I wouldn't let this put you off at all, go with friends arrange beforehand to meet someone/couple and all will be fine.
Minority will ruin some peoples night but in general more fun is had than these bad tales. |
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"I like after8 and cjs but cjs wins hands down. But I think as a single women they have got all the power and the freedom in the club and find it easy to get involved Wi couples and any sort off fun.but it is hard for a single guy .maby it's me as I like to respect a girl "
I agree it makes the female seem like a higher power but tbh most couples (well us in paticular) like single females as it ticks the box of us both, if we are being honest Karen isn't interested in most guys especially single guys although she does like a bit of fun with guys that she's got to know and trust but for her it's all about the girls.... And guess what I'm the same
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By *nonandyMan
over a year ago
Near Glasgow |
Cj's is brilliant av been going regularly for nearly two years now not keen on the new couples nights prefer to have a fun for all that everyone can go to obviously I am single although a can see the appeal for some
Single guys being Tits really annoys me gives us all a bad name but they're not alone av had experience with ignorant couples and fems |
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"Cj's is brilliant av been going regularly for nearly two years now not keen on the new couples nights prefer to have a fun for all that everyone can go to obviously I am single although a can see the appeal for some
Single guys being Tits really annoys me gives us all a bad name but they're not alone av had experience with ignorant couples and fems"
Andy you are a prime example of how a guy should be, you are always respectful and know when n when not to speak joking aside you've learned by past mistakes and it's always a pleasure to see you at CJs
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"Cj's is brilliant av been going regularly for nearly two years now not keen on the new couples nights prefer to have a fun for all that everyone can go to obviously I am single although a can see the appeal for some
Single guys being Tits really annoys me gives us all a bad name but they're not alone av had experience with ignorant couples and fems
Andy you are a prime example of how a guy should be, you are always respectful and know when n when not to speak joking aside you've learned by past mistakes and it's always a pleasure to see you at CJs
John "
Andy we love you at cjs with your bag of tricks 
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By *nonandyMan
over a year ago
Near Glasgow |
"Cj's is brilliant av been going regularly for nearly two years now not keen on the new couples nights prefer to have a fun for all that everyone can go to obviously I am single although a can see the appeal for some
Single guys being Tits really annoys me gives us all a bad name but they're not alone av had experience with ignorant couples and fems
Andy you are a prime example of how a guy should be, you are always respectful and know when n when not to speak joking aside you've learned by past mistakes and it's always a pleasure to see you at CJs
John
Andy we love you at cjs with your bag of tricks
Nice lad "
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"Are the couples and single fem nights just a once a month thing?"
Yeah and this Saturday is the next one and it's also my birthday so hope you can make it..... Unless one of you has his manopause hehe
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I was with Charlie as a couple the guy in question about the spanking in the dungeon as a member of staff came and found my self and another male friend that was with us, they told us Charlie had been put outside for his unreasonable behaviour and I told the male staff member Charlie will never be back at the club with myself and our male friend and the staff member said he was banned which I agree with as they told me about the whole incident that happened, may I add that Charlie will no longer be at any pubs, clubs or social meets with myself or my other friend, I DO HOPE THE WOMAN IN QUESTION IS OK AS STAFF COULDN'T TELL ME WHO SHE WAS as that is very bad behaviour and won't be tolerated or for anyone to experience and all people should respect everyone's choices xx |
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"Are the couples and single fem nights just a once a month thing?
Yeah and this Saturday is the next one and it's also my birthday so hope you can make it..... Unless one of you has his manopause hehe
John "
I bet you gonna have a great bd party |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Couldn't fault the staff on Saturday.... I fully admit that I reported the crazy whipper as he was harassing my friend which made me and her feel very uncomfortable. Saying that,there were quite a number of guys who went in and groped/ spanked folk without asking. I was with sweetandunique and again,the staff (and another party goer) were really quick to make sure we were OK... Wasn't aware to the extent we were being followed.
Also had a guy trying to use me to get into the couples and single fem room. There are always going to be a few trying to break the rules but I prefer to play by the books. It's only fair!!
That aside, there were lots of single guys who were brand new,super polite and respectful so I'm not put off from going back. I had a great night even though I didn't play. Great atmosphere and the good way way way outweighs the bad! X |
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By *inkyCJWoman
over a year ago
glasgow |
Thanks to everyone in their support with the incident on Sat night.
The staff are here to help and make sure the parties run smoothly. If anyone has a problem or needs assistance they should not hesitate to approach the guys here to help. I did have extra staff on Sat night than usual and this will be happening regularly if it is a busy night.
There were no more single males than usual on busier nights but it did make it look bad that they were all congregating at the top of the stairs. I even commented to them about it.
Unfortunately if no one makes myself or the staff aware of any problems in the playrooms then it is very hard to identify those who are causing the problems. Overall the single males are polite and well behaved but it is a shame that there are a few idiots who do not know how to respect other guests and these are the ones we need to be made aware of.
As for the wristbands it is something we have thought about but again if people pair up before they come along and book in as a couple it is not going to solve the problem.
Your experience at Cjs should never make you feel uncomfortable so please make us aware of any problems you may have here so we can identify the troublemakers and make sure they do not gain entry again. Cj xx
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
Falkirk |
As someone who has never been to CJs but has been to other clubs in the past, it's nice to see that there are plenty of genuine people willing to look out for others.
As has already been said, staff can't always be everywhere at once. If in doubt, FIND THEM and tell them your worry/concern.
I know plenty of people who go regularly and I've never heard anything except praise for the staff. If you identify the problem and troublemakers, I'm sure they won't be allowed back a second time.
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over a year ago
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"Couldn't fault the staff on Saturday.... I fully admit that I reported the crazy whipper as he was harassing my friend which made me and her feel very uncomfortable. Saying that,there were quite a number of guys who went in and groped/ spanked folk without asking. I was with sweetandunique and again,the staff (and another party goer) were really quick to make sure we were OK... Wasn't aware to the extent we were being followed.
Also had a guy trying to use me to get into the couples and single fem room. There are always going to be a few trying to break the rules but I prefer to play by the books. It's only fair!!
That aside, there were lots of single guys who were brand new,super polite and respectful so I'm not put off from going back. I had a great night even though I didn't play. Great atmosphere and the good way way way outweighs the bad! X "
I was following you!!!  leading me astray! Haha X |
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Quite right to report this type of behaviour and if I was there I personally would've stopped my whipping friend and gave him an ear bashing myself and told him that it would've been his first and last he would ever do that to anyone, I would also report the offender the same no matter who it was, CJ herself and her staff were brilliant and very pleasant to speak to and handled the situation brilliantly as I can't fault them in any way, a great job done by CJ and her staff xx |
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By *dlilbumCouple
over a year ago
Aviemore and regularly visit Glasgow |
"Are the couples and single fem nights just a once a month thing?
Yeah and this Saturday is the next one and it's also my birthday so hope you can make it..... Unless one of you has his manopause hehe
John "
We actually really want to come back down on Saturday! But it's looking like it's not going to be possible. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"TBH, I've had no more hassle from single guys at CJs, then on any other night out in town. Most times, a simple "no thank you but thank you for asking" stops the attention. If it doesnt and I get the whole ramble about what i would like etc, then the Paddington cold stare and a very direct "I said no thanks and thats my choice, so no and goodbye", actually seems to finish the pursuit with an apology from the guy. I'm very good at the cold stare lol. Failing that,I would have no hesitation in reporting it to the staff. Worth their weight in gold XXX "
I'm quite good at the 'resting bitch' face, normally interpreted as 'ive told you already no, are you that stupid to try again?' If that fails and if 'the look' fails, then C has a go. Very seldom do I have to go down that route.
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By * and KCouple
over a year ago
Glasgow |
Yes we had the same issue twice last Saturday where single guys came into the couples room with single women who stood by the door.
We still love CJs and the guys upstairs do their best and we feel very safe with them overlooking upstairs xx |
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