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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey everyone, needing some advice. What do you do if after meeting a couple and playing with them, they then stop messaging as often as they did before arranging the meet? In other words, very chatty before meet and after meet not really replying to your messages. They did say they would like to keep chatting and arrange another meet. Do you assume they are no longer interested? Do you send them a message and ask them outright if they're still interested in meeting again? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hate when that happens.... It's just rude and immature in my opinion. Happened to me recently too.... Met twice...Fed me all the charm then fell off the planet x |
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I don't see why you shouldn't message them . It sounds like you've been respectful and honest to them. If they answer you'll know either way, there could be lots of reasons for not answering but if they don't they probably weren't worth waiting to hear from. Happy fabbing! |
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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago
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There's one person I've now met a few times who does go silent on me . Initially I was a bit offended. However I've just accepted it's how it goes. Fab is not real life. He's not here to be chatting every day. It's a place that you visit now and again and when you do its great. I no longer take it personally. In fact I'm learning to view it in the same way.
I wouldn't get hung up on it. You can move on and either decide you no longer wish to play on their terms or you can set out your own.
It's meant to be fun not cause upset.
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Perhaps the meeting wasn't as good as expected for them .
Maybe they were just being polite in saying they would keep in touch who knows .
Just chalk it up to experience and take the hint in an adult way 
Loads more fun for you both to be had I'm sure xx |
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