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over a year ago
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I wouldnt say say but some people dont like to meet with people who have alot of verifications because they feel like theyve slept about with most of the site where this can sometimes be wrong cause some of my verifications are of social meets where ive met people at the club |
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"I wouldnt say say but some people dont like to meet with people who have alot of verifications because they feel like theyve slept about with most of the site where this can sometimes be wrong cause some of my verifications are of social meets where ive met people at the club"
Yes I've been told that I have to many but they've obviously just looked at the number and not read them. |
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To many.. people judge you.
Hardly any ...people judge you.
Verifications are more hassle than they are worth sometimes hence I choose to keep my meets private that way no one knows what I'm doing or who with be it social or otherwise.  |
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"To many.. people judge you.
Hardly any ...people judge you.
Verifications are more hassle than they are worth sometimes hence I choose to keep my meets private that way no one knows what I'm doing or who with be it social or otherwise. "
Yes I can see where you are coming from as a woman.
But with so many fake and strange men on here, as a man you feel you have to show that you are genuine. |
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"To many.. people judge you.
Hardly any ...people judge you.
Verifications are more hassle than they are worth sometimes hence I choose to keep my meets private that way no one knows what I'm doing or who with be it social or otherwise.
Yes I can see where you are coming from as a woman.
But with so many fake and strange men on here, as a man you feel you have to show that you are genuine. "
you do but that can be do everything with many or just a few it's your profile just display what your happy to display  |
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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago
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"Yes and no
6
Why 6 ? just interested "
It was the first number that popped into my head. I don't actually know what the best amount of veris are. Most people's veris seem to be from socials so what difference does it make how many they have |
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"To many.. people judge you.
Hardly any ...people judge you.
Verifications are more hassle than they are worth sometimes hence I choose to keep my meets private that way no one knows what I'm doing or who with be it social or otherwise.
Yes I can see where you are coming from as a woman.
But with so many fake and strange men on here, as a man you feel you have to show that you are genuine. you do but that can be do everything with many or just a few it's your profile just display what your happy to display "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To many.. people judge you.
Hardly any ...people judge you.
Verifications are more hassle than they are worth sometimes hence I choose to keep my meets private that way no one knows what I'm doing or who with be it social or otherwise. "
Well said ! |
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"To many.. people judge you.
Hardly any ...people judge you.
Verifications are more hassle than they are worth sometimes hence I choose to keep my meets private that way no one knows what I'm doing or who with be it social or otherwise. "
I'm exactly the same - mines are private too.
Sometimes it's not the number of veris, but also who they've met too that can cause controversy... This site...  |
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"To many.. people judge you.
Hardly any ...people judge you.
Verifications are more hassle than they are worth sometimes hence I choose to keep my meets private that way no one knows what I'm doing or who with be it social or otherwise.
I'm exactly the same - mines are private too.
Sometimes it's not the number of veris, but also who they've met too that can cause controversy... This site... "
So true |
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By *976scottMan
over a year ago
North Lanarkshire |
"Can you have to many verifications and what is the optimum number "
I would have to say yes due to recent experience! I got a bit of abuse from someone on here basically saying I was a man hoe!
Sometimes you can't win as if they read them they will see loads of them are from socials!
Single guys especially need them to prove they are genuine and not the dreaded time waster however I don't think they are as important for women and couples! |
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"Can you have to many verifications and what is the optimum number
I would have to say yes due to recent experience! I got a bit of abuse from someone on here basically saying I was a man hoe!
Sometimes you can't win as if they read them they will see loads of them are from socials!
Single guys especially need them to prove they are genuine and not the dreaded time waster however I don't think they are as important for women and couples!"
I know they just look at the number but don't read them |
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Single guys especially need them to prove they are genuine and not the dreaded time waster however I don't think they are as important for women and couples!"
I think it's more important for them to be verified, I kb none verified females and couples if they're not verified as in my experience, they're the biggest time wasters, especially new profiles, half of them are probably single guys on here with nothing better to do as well. It takes 60 seconds to photo-verify so there is really no excuse not to at least have that. |
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Sometimes worth reading, and i do read them. Often their just waffle that tells you little,but i do read them if im perving...
Most importantly what they do tell you is if they turn up or not....
Have as many as you like or choose to show, anyone has a problem with them, its their issue not yours |
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