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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We received a message a few days ago from a guy inviting us to play, with face pics attached, couldn't believe it's a work colleague "
Wow, what did you do? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We received a message a few days ago from a guy inviting us to play, with face pics attached, couldn't believe it's a work colleague
Wow, what did you do?"
Decided to delete message and no more will be said, however was tempted to message back referring to his real name , but decided that would be cruel as the site should be based on discretion |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Met a few folk... Doesn't bother me as the people that matter in my life know about fab.
K x"
The people that matter to us are our parents and children and I certainly won't want them to know about fab |
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"Met a few folk... Doesn't bother me as the people that matter in my life know about fab.
K x
The people that matter to us are our parents and children and I certainly won't want them to know about fab"
Fortunately for me my friends are my family
K |
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Saw a girl from here in the street, but cause I was in male mode, didn't say anything.
Plus it is rude to just randomly approach people you don't know and mention a Swingers site. After all you might not be correct in the recognition.
We did chat via PVT about it a little though.
I've been approached a few times in public by people who recognise features or my height, I normally just "bluff" my way out of it. Easy to do when you're hiding behind a wig and makeup normally.
Mandy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I bumped into a girl from work at CJs last night!
That's was a bit awkward....."
You just reminded me that the guy from the shop along my street was there  looks like ill be finding somewhere new to shop haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I came across a work colleague and chatted a bit but don't discuss at work. ( we don't and won't play) my neighbours sent me a message with a pic attached lol I couldn't believe it! I just replied laughing saying they look too much like my neighbours and they replied with a ( lol ) nothing more was exchanged lol awkward !!  that was 2 year ago we have never mentioned it since |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I came across a work colleague and chatted a bit but don't discuss at work. ( we don't and won't play) my neighbours sent me a message with a pic attached lol I couldn't believe it! I just replied laughing saying they look too much like my neighbours and they replied with a ( lol ) nothing more was exchanged lol awkward !! that was 2 year ago we have never mentioned it since "
When you say 'came across a work colleague' ....... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I came across a work colleague and chatted a bit but don't discuss at work. ( we don't and won't play) my neighbours sent me a message with a pic attached lol I couldn't believe it! I just replied laughing saying they look too much like my neighbours and they replied with a ( lol ) nothing more was exchanged lol awkward !! that was 2 year ago we have never mentioned it since
When you say 'came across a work colleague' ......."
 lol I might one day ! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I came across a work colleague and chatted a bit but don't discuss at work. ( we don't and won't play) my neighbours sent me a message with a pic attached lol I couldn't believe it! I just replied laughing saying they look too much like my neighbours and they replied with a ( lol ) nothing more was exchanged lol awkward !! that was 2 year ago we have never mentioned it since
When you say 'came across a work colleague' .......
lol I might one day ! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've seen people we know on here. We've also had friends joining because they knew we were on here to do their nosey.
As we've gotten to know people we have found how small a place fab really is. We've got loads of mutual friends with people on here and our kids are even in the same class at school as others fabbers kids lol. Small world
We told most of our friends we were on here to begin with but it was a bit of a mistake. People started staying away from us incase we 'groomed' them into bed with us  that was what one friend actually told us why they hadn't been down for drinks alot lately
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By (user no longer on site)
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I was on for a few years with my ex partner and we received a few messages from people we recognised. The closest we got was an old classmate from school and his partner emailed after joining the site with pics attached. We agreed it was only fair to send pics back, let them know who we were and also advised they took down the public profile face pics lol
Never met for anything other than nights out. Still have them on Facebook  |
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"I bumped into a girl from work at CJs last night!
That's was a bit awkward.....
How did that conversation go? Haha"
Not as bad as I thought. We had a laugh about it and that was it! I guess everyone is in the same boat there and we all value our discretion! Xx |
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Yup has happened to me quite a few times now on here vampira here hence making all my face pics friends only now thankfully everyone that has said they have seen me have been respectful and nice x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We received a message a few days ago from a guy inviting us to play, with face pics attached, couldn't believe it's a work colleague
Wow, what did you do?
Decided to delete message and no more will be said, however was tempted to message back referring to his real name , but decided that would be cruel as the site should be based on discretion "
I'm sure you would have been delighted if that had happened to you.
It would have been cruel to do that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im currently trying to work out who someone is that knows me. She knows me, wont tell me who she is (I cant tell from her pics) but seems happy enough to chat.  "
I hate this! Its so rude |
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By *els01Woman
over a year ago
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very 1st time I went to CJ's I saw a couple I know. Didn't know what to do, turned away and they came and said hi, we got chatting and it was great, they've really eased me into this, put me at ease and actually introduced me to fab xxx |
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Should it really matter?
As has been said before, we are all here for the same reason
If a colleague or neighbour sees or recognises you there is no need to feel obliged to playing with them. Just about courtesy and discretion really |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes a woman who I've worked with and find it extremely hard to believe that any woman on fab would be anything except discrete given the repercussions but then again I'm turned off by immaturity |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We've seen a few people we've seen on here or at CJ's out and about but would never approach anyone after all its all about discretion.
We did however have some of our pics fabbed by a guy I (mr) went to school with. He got a really hard time at school being bullied etc (not by me I might add, he lived round the corner from me was a decent guy) and one of the main reasons he got bullied was cos he always refused to get changed in front of others after PE (I know right who cares, kids) for the life of me I now cannot work out why, judging by the pics on his profile he had absolutely nothing to hide if you get our drift lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We received a message a few days ago from a guy inviting us to play, with face pics attached, couldn't believe it's a work colleague
Wow, what did you do?
Decided to delete message and no more will be said, however was tempted to message back referring to his real name , but decided that would be cruel as the site should be based on discretion "
Well said shame more do not take the discretion rule to heart
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'd love to find out I knew folk from the real world on here!
...unless you're my parents, then ignorance is bliss please  "
Would kinda be a Darth Vader 'Luke I am your father' kinda moment  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We received a message a few days ago from a guy inviting us to play, with face pics attached, couldn't believe it's a work colleague "
seriously
OMG, lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd love to find out I knew folk from the real world on here!
...unless you're my parents, then ignorance is bliss please
Would kinda be a Darth Vader 'Luke I am your father' kinda moment "
Noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo! cue the crying and the nose snot!
Not sure the severed hand is necessary!
Honestly I'm mobile most of the time and rarely in one building more than 2 nights in a row... I'd probably be harder than a oak tree trunk in no time if a lassie from fab walked up and propositioned me at work
Sorry but I'm a manwhore for women in satin blouses. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has anyone bumped into people they know on here? One of my biggest fears haha"
First week one here whilst browsing profiles I came across a couples profile,thought to myself I recognise that girl in the picture, clicked on the profile and it was a couple that use the same gym as me at the same time slot lol didn't realise back then that I would show up on the who's looked at me section lol was a bit awkward to begin with but we had a good laugh about it, strangely enough though they don't use the gym anymore lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have been spotted quite a few times. And then they message me on this and say they have seen me, I have also been approached or my name shouted over on the street... I'm not exactly bothered by it but I will admit I don't really appreciate it that much either.
If I recognise anyone from the scene in person I tend to just walk past them and blank them. Not sit and converse unless they are actually a friend of mine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Few mins after creating our profile a local guy winked , turned out we knew him and he's been trying to date Mrs for yrs before we met. We thought fuck it and moved on |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have been spotted quite a few times. And then they message me on this and say they have seen me, I have also been approached or my name shouted over on the street... I'm not exactly bothered by it but I will admit I don't really appreciate it that much either.
If I recognise anyone from the scene in person I tend to just walk past them and blank them. Not sit and converse unless they are actually a friend of mine. "
I'd not be happy either, discretion is super important for me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I once got messaged from someone I used to babysit, lol didn't half make me feel old. X "
Noooo that would kill me! finding my baby sitter from when I was a kid on here... she's a facebook friend! I know her kids! pmsl |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We've had that happen to us and it was awkward for about 5 seconds but is now a funny story.
I think if you're worried about it then don't have your face pics showing."
More worried about family finding my profile, I don't want to have the safe sex conversation with my parents again... it was bad enough the first time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was getting a good chat going last week,got to the stage to swap face pics,which I duly obliged to as we agreed a swap and was instantly blocked.
Either she knew me,or I'm fugly,suppose ill ever know.
I would rather someone said though,if someone sent me a face pic that I recognised and I wasn't comfortable,I like to think I would say so,as discretion is the most important thing,it would be a well kept secret. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think it gets any worse than a relative sending me pics of his penis!!!! AWKWARD MUCH??!! I always look at the detail in the back photos and I started recognising furniture etc! BLOCK! |
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"I don't think it gets any worse than a relative sending me pics of his penis!!!! AWKWARD MUCH??!! I always look at the detail in the back photos and I started recognising furniture etc! BLOCK!"
Oh no! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't think it gets any worse than a relative sending me pics of his penis!!!! AWKWARD MUCH??!! I always look at the detail in the back photos and I started recognising furniture etc! BLOCK!"
Oh wow
Bleach and a Brillo pad isn't enough! |
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