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over a year ago
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How many ppl here actually look for a true connection of intimacy over just a fuck?
Over the years all I read or witness on this site is fuck this hole, that hole and any hole! Yes it is a sex site, but why is it most just seem rampent rabbits where the majority of guys will put it anywhere they can create friction and women open their legs or bend over for anything hard and stiff.
It seems you could put a paper bag over anyones face and they'll do!
Where are those deeper connections and where is our integrity?
We do not need to be in a relationship to achieve this, however I think many ppl believe you have to be or are unwilling to open up to receive it if they are not.
Just some thoughts I felt expressing and sharing with you all today 
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"How many ppl here actually look for a true connection of intimacy over just a fuck?
Over the years all I read or witness on this site is fuck this hole, that hole and any hole! Yes it is a sex site, but why is it most just seem rampent rabbits where the majority of guys will put it anywhere they can create friction and women open their legs or bend over for anything hard and stiff.
It seems you could put a paper bag over anyones face and they'll do!
Where are those deeper connections and where is our integrity?
We do not need to be in a relationship to achieve this, however I think many ppl believe you have to be or are unwilling to open up to receive it if they are not.
Just some thoughts I felt expressing and sharing with you all today
Merry Christmas "
brilliant post and I agree with all you have said whole heartedly.
I love it when you know there is that connection with no expectations other than to please each other and have a good time.
Much as one off meets can be fun I prefer regular meets with people I feel uli click with both in the bedroom as well as outside it  |
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
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Hmmmmm.....I must be strange then.....I've never been an 'any hole is a goal' type of guy. 
I don't shag anything that moves.
I'd rather go without.
That being said, when I do meet for fun, I always enjoy it to the full and so do the ladies I meet  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have to agree, brilliant post!
I've known the Mr for over a year, we're not a couple outside of fab but we do have a connection with intimacy even though we are FWB.
I deleted my singles profile for the fact I couldn't find any connection, eye rolling touches, knicker wetting moments until I met him lol I couldn't meet others just for the sake of it. It just didn't feel right and I started to hate it eventually. Just felt used for their needs when I wasn't seeing to my own.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have to agree, brilliant post!
I've known the Mr for over a year, we're not a couple outside of fab but we do have a connection with intimacy even though we are FWB.
I deleted my singles profile for the fact I couldn't find any connection, eye rolling touches, knicker wetting moments until I met him lol I couldn't meet others just for the sake of it. It just didn't feel right and I started to hate it eventually. Just felt used for their needs when I wasn't seeing to my own.
Connection is key with me "
A think you would be surprised how many on here are like you If you hang out on this site for a bit you get to know what works for you |
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"I have to agree, brilliant post!
I've known the Mr for over a year, we're not a couple outside of fab but we do have a connection with intimacy even though we are FWB.
I deleted my singles profile for the fact I couldn't find any connection, eye rolling touches, knicker wetting moments until I met him lol I couldn't meet others just for the sake of it. It just didn't feel right and I started to hate it eventually. Just felt used for their needs when I wasn't seeing to my own.
Connection is key with me A think you would be surprised how many on here are like you If you hang out on this site for a bit you get to know what works for you "
Haha true! It only took me 4 years on and off of here to find him. But if I had went with my first thought of him then yeah I'd still be calling him a prick Actually I still do call him a prick when the time suits! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have to agree, brilliant post!
I've known the Mr for over a year, we're not a couple outside of fab but we do have a connection with intimacy even though we are FWB.
I deleted my singles profile for the fact I couldn't find any connection, eye rolling touches, knicker wetting moments until I met him lol I couldn't meet others just for the sake of it. It just didn't feel right and I started to hate it eventually. Just felt used for their needs when I wasn't seeing to my own.
Connection is key with me A think you would be surprised how many on here are like you If you hang out on this site for a bit you get to know what works for you
Haha true! It only took me 4 years on and off of here to find him. But if I had went with my first thought of him then yeah I'd still be calling him a prick Actually I still do call him a prick when the time suits!"
lol you should never judge so quick you can shoot yourself in the foot people do this with profiles on here all the time |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Well i have to admit i was kinda using the site initially just for hook ups not just any old random though i have some morals  that being said i have now met the love of my life on here and had an instant connection with him couldnt be happier now |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How many ppl here actually look for a true connection of intimacy over just a fuck?
Over the years all I read or witness on this site is fuck this hole, that hole and any hole! Yes it is a sex site, but why is it most just seem rampent rabbits where the majority of guys will put it anywhere they can create friction and women open their legs or bend over for anything hard and stiff.
It seems you could put a paper bag over anyones face and they'll do!
Where are those deeper connections and where is our integrity?
We do not need to be in a relationship to achieve this, however I think many ppl believe you have to be or are unwilling to open up to receive it if they are not.
Just some thoughts I felt expressing and sharing with you all today
Merry Christmas "
Well can't speak for single guys putting it anywhere. But from our perspective, we are here to fuck. We make love together one on one. That's where we get our connection from. But this site is for dirty, wild fucking.
Yeah, sometimes one of us has to take one for the team. And yes in a group situation sometimes you get so horny you get involved with folk you may not normally. But that's just getting go and embracing the sexual energy and having fun.
It's all part of the fun. We defo have two seperate sex life - 1. Fucking on fab and 2. Making love to each other x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I agree nothing worse than feeling like a piece of meat. Need to be a connection for me. Not intrested in 15 mins shag n go. Long seshs for me. As long as you understand nobody becomes your possession. That's the issue . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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This will be strange coming from a guy for me it's all about intamcy yeah I like the banter telling a woman I'm gonna duck their brains out etc but at the end of the day everyone has personal choices if they choose to fuck around then so be it just hope they wrap it up first lol
I see it every day women men couples needing instant meets etc yeah granted this is a sex site primarily but I would like to find someone here that I can then move forward with on the scene so to speak |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've had five sex meets since joining this time and only truly connected with one of them. The others were good but one offs.
I'd love a regular fuck buddy who isn't a dick when it suits him.
Seems impossible though x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How many ppl here actually look for a true connection of intimacy over just a fuck?
Over the years all I read or witness on this site is fuck this hole, that hole and any hole! Yes it is a sex site, but why is it most just seem rampent rabbits where the majority of guys will put it anywhere they can create friction and women open their legs or bend over for anything hard and stiff.
It seems you could put a paper bag over anyones face and they'll do!
Where are those deeper connections and where is our integrity?
We do not need to be in a relationship to achieve this, however I think many ppl believe you have to be or are unwilling to open up to receive it if they are not.
Just some thoughts I felt expressing and sharing with you all today
Merry Christmas brilliant post and I agree with all you have said whole heartedly.
I love it when you know there is that connection with no expectations other than to please each other and have a good time.
Much as one off meets can be fun I prefer regular meets with people I feel uli click with both in the bedroom as well as outside it "
What NMD said |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I really like this post............so yes I've done the meet and fuck thing but now making a connection is far more important to me. I need to click with a person outside and inside the bedroom.........conversation and banter can also lead to intimacy as you get to know a person.
Personally yes i do get intimate with my Fwb in bed but you don't need to be naked to be intimate ........yes I know this is a swingers site but sitting quietly holding a hand and looking into each other's eyes is just as intimate.........x
I am not looking for an emotional relationship on here but can I still have intimacy with my Fwb oh yes I can..........,,,, |
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"How many ppl here actually look for a true connection of intimacy over just a fuck?
Over the years all I read or witness on this site is fuck this hole, that hole and any hole! Yes it is a sex site, but why is it most just seem rampent rabbits where the majority of guys will put it anywhere they can create friction and women open their legs or bend over for anything hard and stiff.
It seems you could put a paper bag over anyones face and they'll do!
Where are those deeper connections and where is our integrity?
We do not need to be in a relationship to achieve this, however I think many ppl believe you have to be or are unwilling to open up to receive it if they are not.
Just some thoughts I felt expressing and sharing with you all today
Merry Christmas brilliant post and I agree with all you have said whole heartedly.
I love it when you know there is that connection with no expectations other than to please each other and have a good time.
Much as one off meets can be fun I prefer regular meets with people I feel uli click with both in the bedroom as well as outside it
What NMD said "
so do you fancy a sexual encounter with a little bit of connection with nothing expected other than to have a good time ? hahahaha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've had five sex meets since joining this time and only truly connected with one of them. The others were good but one offs.
I'd love a regular fuck buddy who isn't a dick when it suits him.
Seems impossible though x"
Nothing is impossible |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've had five sex meets since joining this time and only truly connected with one of them. The others were good but one offs.
I'd love a regular fuck buddy who isn't a dick when it suits him.
Seems impossible though x
Nothing is impossible "
Well it's not been easy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've had five sex meets since joining this time and only truly connected with one of them. The others were good but one offs.
I'd love a regular fuck buddy who isn't a dick when it suits him.
Seems impossible though x
Nothing is impossible
Well it's not been easy"
It never is |
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
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"I've had five sex meets since joining this time and only truly connected with one of them. The others were good but one offs.
I'd love a regular fuck buddy who isn't a dick when it suits him.
Seems impossible though x
Nothing is impossible
Well it's not been easy
It never is "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nah. Need the nsa sex. Tried the intimacy and I fell for him hard.
Now it just hurts.
No more.
Simple solution, find someone who falls for u, and u fall for them. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Nah. Need the nsa sex. Tried the intimacy and I fell for him hard.
Now it just hurts.
No more. "
How can a man enter your heart when the door is locked shut and you won't open it...? |
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