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Does age really matter?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont think it really matters, we have a window that we are comfortable with but we will expand it for the right people. Also a lot of people lie about their age so how would we really know. As long as its legal and you are comfortable enjoy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dont think it really matters, we have a window that we are comfortable with but we will expand it for the right people. Also a lot of people lie about their age so how would we really know. As long as its legal and you are comfortable enjoy "
Then again I am a desperate middle aged pervert whos not getting any  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me it doesnt. As the guy above said, if its legal then great. As a 29 yr old male id have no problem having sex with an 18 or 45 yr old. If you click and it feels right, thats the important bit. Yeah we have our comfort zones...but age shouldnt be a deal breaker  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I personally don't think age matters, I don't think height weight colour of hair or skin matters either. There are bbw I find attractive and some I don't, there are brunettes I find attractive and some I don't, there are 50-60 year olds I find attractive and some I don't. That said I've yet to meet a 99 year old I find attractive but who knows  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It does matter to us. We are probably more fluid with our upper age limit but not on the lower.
Our experience with younger guys (under 25) has been, without exception, poor.
I accept we may have been unlucky but when there are simply heaps of perfectly acceptable guys in our preferred age band we see no need to take the chance on meeting another sexually and emotionally immature young man with inadequate social skills. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi. I notice how it's all men who say it doesn't matter, but when you are older you have a limited amount of women who will even chat let alone meet. Jim |
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I think it matters hence I have age preferences.
But I have in the past met people younger than my age preference.
It think it really does depend how much of a difference there is... For instance a 20 year old girl playing with a 57 year old man is a bit dirty old Manish for me but that's just my opinion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it matters hence I have age preferences.
But I have in the past met people younger than my age preference.
It think it really does depend how much of a difference there is... For instance a 20 year old girl playing with a 57 year old man is a bit dirty old Manish for me but that's just my opinion. "
pmsl, cant wait till im 57
lol |
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I have an age window but am willing to expand it depending on the person. I tend not to go below 25 with ladies and 30 with males, mainly because I struggle to find common ground. Occasionally someone comes along that I will be more flexible with, but I'm definitely not comfortable with anyone around 20 or over 55, the age gap feels too much. |
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"I think it matters hence I have age preferences.
But I have in the past met people younger than my age preference.
It think it really does depend how much of a difference there is... For instance a 20 year old girl playing with a 57 year old man is a bit dirty old Manish for me but that's just my opinion.
pmsl, cant wait till im 57
lol "
get your mac in the boxing day sales |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it matters hence I have age preferences.
But I have in the past met people younger than my age preference.
It think it really does depend how much of a difference there is... For instance a 20 year old girl playing with a 57 year old man is a bit dirty old Manish for me but that's just my opinion.
pmsl, cant wait till im 57
lol get your mac in the boxing day sales "
I think you know im confident enough to just let it out and chat the way the girl desires at the time
cough! cough !
pmsl
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"I think it matters hence I have age preferences.
But I have in the past met people younger than my age preference.
It think it really does depend how much of a difference there is... For instance a 20 year old girl playing with a 57 year old man is a bit dirty old Manish for me but that's just my opinion.
pmsl, cant wait till im 57
lol get your mac in the boxing day sales
I think you know im confident enough to just let it out and chat the way the girl desires at the time
cough! cough !
pmsl
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I sure do cough! Cough! Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just a personal preference thing but it doesn't matter to me, the only time it pisses me off is when I see someone I like & can't mail them becuase they're minimum age limit is 27 & I'm 26? Is there really a difference between a 26yo & a 27yo? Naw |
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"Just a personal preference thing but it doesn't matter to me, the only time it pisses me off is when I see someone I like & can't mail them becuase they're minimum age limit is 27 & I'm 26? Is there really a difference between a 26yo & a 27yo? Naw"
lower it to 26 its then a 25yr old making the same claim yes age is important to me anyway I have very little in common with 20 somethings or 60 somethings
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Could never go with anyone whose age was close to my kids so never any more than ten years younger than me but upper age limit is more flexible if I found someone attractive age would not make a difference there |
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For me, the age itself, ie. the number, is irrelevant as long as they're not older than my mother.
For me it's more about (well, I'm trying not to sound shallow here) wether or not they're my "type"... and if I'm attracted to them or not, regardless of knowing how old they are. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd like to say it doesn't but for me it does. I get a lot of messages from younger men and I just think no...
I dare say in 20 years time someone 10 years younger may not be such a turn off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Age is very important to me. I am attracted to older guys and I'm not interested in younger guys"
Damg, Really
After All these years, Now You Tell Me
lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Couldn't get with anyone the same age as my kids, just doesn't sit comfortable with me"
I was young when I had my kids. I feel as if they are not much younger than me now, so I am not comfortable with anyone younger than myself chatting on here or otherwise. Just how I feel!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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for sex?...not that much at all..
for anything deeper than a shag or two..I'd have to be greatly emotionally involved with the person..
I wouldnt tie myself to someone way over my age range(say 15yrs),mainly because I'd still like to think about having children..its highly unlikely I'd find someone at this age as a viable long term partner.
in cases of younger people than me, theres hardly a limit...over 25 would be preferable, but it really all depends on the person themselves..as some can be more mature in their outlook than those twice their age.
so...superficial fun with any age group really..but limits if there are possibly long term committed plans.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not looking for commitment from anyone especially from a site like this where all I want is NSA fun.
Therefore age means nothing, if the person is in this for the same as me which I would expect from this site then I don't care for a number
Problem is I am over 50 and majority on here seem to have an upper age parameter of 45 yet say age doesn't matter....... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not looking for commitment from anyone especially from a site like this where all I want is NSA fun.
Therefore age means nothing, if the person is in this for the same as me which I would expect from this site then I don't care for a number
Problem is I am over 50 and majority on here seem to have an upper age parameter of 45 yet say age doesn't matter......."
Disagree a bit
I usually see
upper age parameter of 40/sometime to 42
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think it matters hence I have age preferences.
But I have in the past met people younger than my age preference.
It think it really does depend how much of a difference there is... For instance a 20 year old girl playing with a 57 year old man is a bit dirty old Manish for me but that's just my opinion. "
If you classed the 57yr old a "Dirty Old Manish".
What would you call the 20yr old Girl then ?
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"I think it matters hence I have age preferences.
But I have in the past met people younger than my age preference.
It think it really does depend how much of a difference there is... For instance a 20 year old girl playing with a 57 year old man is a bit dirty old Manish for me but that's just my opinion.
If you classed the 57yr old a "Dirty Old Manish".
What would you call the 20yr old Girl then ?
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By *yan19Man
over a year ago
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"I'm not sure I'm 20 years old and struggle to get a chat never mind a meet I don't know if it's because my age or my profile any comments?humm you might be useful. "
people have said I am useful |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Age dose matter there some younger men I look at and think..theres no way you could handle me. Plus if there under 22 Dosnt feel right. As for older . Some I wonder about there stamina . So round about my own age. Or slightly younger. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, for me it matters. If I'm old enough to legally be a guys mother then it's simply not going to happen. For guys older than me it's even stricter, 48-49 is my cut off point as I prefer guys a similar age or younger than me. |
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Age obviously matters to some that they feel they need to lie about it .
If your knocking years off or adding years on why is that ?
I believe it's so they can mail and try and meet people who don't wish to meet a certain age group in the first place and that should be respected.
As I've said a few times if your going to lie about your age at least be able to pass for the age your claiming to be ..and many dont  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There will Always be exceptions to any rule, our experience of young men to date hasn't been the best, but it's not a hard 'no' from us on age because of it.
Plus people lie about their age on here all the time, some to be older, others to be younger ... I've found from experience that it is really just a number.
Still I'm unwilling to have 18-99 on our profile as that seems a tad ridiculous so had to give a parameter |
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