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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I recently had the chance of a meet but it didn't happen because I don't like kissing, this has happened once before.
I wanted to know if this is an essential part of a meet for people or if its not a problem.
Personally I don't like kissing at all, I don't mind a peck but full on snogging especially with tongues just isn't for me, but doing it on a meet just seems weird to me. |
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It's not weird if that's your particular choice not to kiss. Personally I love kissing in all shapes from gentle pecks to full on French kissing. I couldn't meet without kissing. In fact I could meet just to kiss?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I recently had the chance of a meet but it didn't happen because I don't like kissing, this has happened once before.
I wanted to know if this is an essential part of a meet for people or if its not a problem.
Personally I don't like kissing at all, I don't mind a peck but full on snogging especially with tongues just isn't for me, but doing it on a meet just seems weird to me."
I see within your profile that you,ve been on the site for 7 years with no verifications. The fact you clearly state you dont like kissing is off putting for women as its vital to intimacy & vital to finding out abit about the person. Your message is a quick cold shag only. Learn the ropes mate. Im not having a go just good sound advise as women love to be treated as a special individual not a piece of meat |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I recently had the chance of a meet but it didn't happen because I don't like kissing, this has happened once before.
I wanted to know if this is an essential part of a meet for people or if its not a problem.
Personally I don't like kissing at all, I don't mind a peck but full on snogging especially with tongues just isn't for me, but doing it on a meet just seems weird to me.
I see within your profile that you,ve been on the site for 7 years with no verifications. The fact you clearly state you dont like kissing is off putting for women as its vital to intimacy & vital to finding out abit about the person. Your message is a quick cold shag only. Learn the ropes mate. Im not having a go just good sound advise as women love to be treated as a special individual not a piece of meat"
I have 9 verifications, the women/couples I've met have left the site or blocked, if I want intimacy I'll get a girlfriend luckily the people I've met have been ok with the non kissing part & more than none have said to me 1st about not wanting to kiss.
How does kissing help anyone learn anything about someone? I thought that's what talking is for.
But cheers for the advice & making me sound like a dick for anyone who reads your comment  I don't think of women as a piece of meat no idea where you pulled that one from? I just don't like kissing it doesn't appeal to me it freaks me out, |
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
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Some people like kissing, some don't. It's a personal choice. 
Personally, I like a good kisser.....a bad kisser is a turn off. But that's just me 
Keep doing what's best for you and never mind anyone else |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some people like kissing, some don't. It's a personal choice.
Personally, I like a good kisser.....a bad kisser is a turn off. But that's just me
Keep doing what's best for you and never mind anyone else "
For a wookie furry can give some sound advice |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Kissing is an essential for me. I'd find it it really odd to not kiss. However no one should think less of you for your preferences.
I've no doubt you do plenty of other things though.
You should never feel like you have to do something you'd rather not or don't like |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Kissing is an essential for me. I'd find it it really odd to not kiss. However no one should think less of you for your preferences.
I've no doubt you do plenty of other things though.
You should never feel like you have to do something you'd rather not or don't like "
Its early and folks giving out good advice....im off back to bed I have awoken in an alternate fab universe  |
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"Some people like kissing, some don't. It's a personal choice.
Personally, I like a good kisser.....a bad kisser is a turn off. But that's just me
Keep doing what's best for you and never mind anyone else
For a wookie furry can give some sound advice "
You might not know what he says but he understands what you say never good to upset a Wookie  |
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
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"Some people like kissing, some don't. It's a personal choice.
Personally, I like a good kisser.....a bad kisser is a turn off. But that's just me
Keep doing what's best for you and never mind anyone else
For a wookie furry can give some sound advice
You might not know what he says but he understands what you say never good to upset a Wookie "
Never a truer word spoken |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Will throw my advice in.
I have a lady friend who I love kissing.i love to feel the passion when we in bed and that portrays it to me.but as a lot of posters will say it your own choice perfectly good choice for op.my Lady friend is no my girl friend nor are they any feelings of love we just both find each other attractive and kissing works for us both |
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"Will throw my advice in.
I have a lady friend who I love kissing.i love to feel the passion when we in bed and that portrays it to me.but as a lot of posters will say it your own choice perfectly good choice for op.my Lady friend is no my girl friend nor are they any feelings of love we just both find each other attractive and kissing works for us both"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's already been said but it's everyone's personal choice as to what they do or don't do on a meet.
I love kissing cause it's something I'm really good at, or so I've been told, and makes the build up to sexytimes that wee bit better. I always think it's weird that people don't kiss on a meet but are happy to stick their dick in you, just odd in my opinion but we all have our dos and don'ts like I said |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Will throw my advice in.
I have a lady friend who I love kissing.i love to feel the passion when we in bed and that portrays it to me.but as a lot of posters will say it your own choice perfectly good choice for op.my Lady friend is no my girl friend nor are they any feelings of love we just both find each other attractive and kissing works for us both
Breaking news gasmonkey posts sensible advice you heard it here
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I could take it or leave it but I think it's just down to my mood.
If I want slow and passionate (which is a rare choice for me) then I'll want to kiss.
But if I want it hard and rough then I'd prefer a hand around my neck :-
Her x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's a bit strange, but that's just my opinion.
I don't think I could meet anyone and have carnal knowledge without kissing as for me that's the build up that works.
However if I wouldn't kiss someone, I certainly wouldn't want to have sex with them.
That bit I find a little off the wall.
I am prepared to live and let live and if the OP finds a willing partner/partners that feel the same. Who am I to judge.
To finish off though, I think kissing is the most intimate part of any relationship, wether it be short or long term. We are all animals after all. Also it feels so so good with the right person. |
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I find it the build up to fun so for me it's essentially important as the sex it's self.
I don't get that someome wants to get so intimate with another person yet has an issue with kissing.
But again it's all down to personal choice.
I had a boyfriend years ago who never really kissed just little pecks on the lips or cheeks.. Found out years later he was actually gay lol |
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"I could take it or leave it but I think it's just down to my mood.
If I want slow and passionate (which is a rare choice for me) then I'll want to kiss.
But if I want it hard and rough then I'd prefer a hand around my neck :-
Her x"
Should I warm my hands up first?  x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I could take it or leave it but I think it's just down to my mood.
If I want slow and passionate (which is a rare choice for me) then I'll want to kiss.
But if I want it hard and rough then I'd prefer a hand around my neck :-
Her x
Should I warm my hands up first? x"
Aye you can warm them up on me arse |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been on a couple of meets in the past were no kissing was a stipulation; that's just plain weird to me.
Each to their own but I'd rather not bother than not be able to kiss someone, as its a vital part of the act for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If your not into kissing that fine everyone has preferences
What confuses us is the couples who state fem won't kiss other males during full swap. I mean you can fuck her as much as you want but kissing is a big no no just seems backwards to us |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Kissing is an essential for me. I'd find it it really odd to not kiss. However no one should think less of you for your preferences.
I've no doubt you do plenty of other things though.
You should never feel like you have to do something you'd rather not or don't like "
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It isn't weird. Everyone's got there own likes and dislikes.
I would say no I couldn't meet someone without kissing but it would really depend on the situation. If it was a club meet and it just sort of happened then yeah I probably could or if it was a three way. But I couldn't prepay a meet with no kissing
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some cultures don't kiss at all, not sure which ones but like tribes and that i think.
Although i don't find it weird people don't kiss, i know i wouldn't enjoy that type of meet (having had one). Being intimate is something i really like to do and kissing, looking into eyes, talking, being stroked, all this i enjoy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I recently had the chance of a meet but it didn't happen because I don't like kissing, this has happened once before.
I wanted to know if this is an essential part of a meet for people or if its not a problem.
Personally I don't like kissing at all, I don't mind a peck but full on snogging especially with tongues just isn't for me, but doing it on a meet just seems weird to me.
I see within your profile that you,ve been on the site for 7 years with no verifications. The fact you clearly state you dont like kissing is off putting for women as its vital to intimacy & vital to finding out abit about the person. Your message is a quick cold shag only. Learn the ropes mate. Im not having a go just good sound advise as women love to be treated as a special individual not a piece of meatI have 9 verifications, the women/couples I've met have left the site or blocked, if I want intimacy I'll get a girlfriend luckily the people I've met have been ok with the non kissing part & more than none have said to me 1st about not wanting to kiss.
How does kissing help anyone learn anything about someone? I thought that's what talking is for.
But cheers for the advice & making me sound like a dick for anyone who reads your comment I don't think of women as a piece of meat no idea where you pulled that one from? I just don't like kissing it doesn't appeal to me it freaks me out, "
Eh no i havent made you sound like a dick!! You wrote the message for everyone to read & reading everyone elses message clearly means the majority prefer kissing.
Have fun & explore the unknown |
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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago
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"I recently had the chance of a meet but it didn't happen because I don't like kissing, this has happened once before.
I wanted to know if this is an essential part of a meet for people or if its not a problem.
Personally I don't like kissing at all, I don't mind a peck but full on snogging especially with tongues just isn't for me, but doing it on a meet just seems weird to me."
For me, it would seem weird not kissing on a meet!! In fact, no kissing would mean no meet!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If your not into kissing that fine everyone has preferences
What confuses us is the couples who state fem won't kiss other males during full swap. I mean you can fuck her as much as you want but kissing is a big no no just seems backwards to us"
I've never understood that either! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pmsl no kissing if its doggy with hair pulling
You could kiss my ass lol lol ass kissing not a speciality of mine but since its crimbo"
I'll drape some tinsel roon it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pmsl no kissing if its doggy with hair pulling
You could kiss my ass lol "
Never kissed a tree but know Someone Who Has. 
if I'm had the chance of a meet and the person didn't like kissing then I know I would not take it any further, that's a fact. PMSL, now I'm imagining everyone putting on their profile that they don't kiss, DAMG  |
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" I just don't like kissing it doesn't appeal to me it freaks me out, "
OP, if you don't mind me asking, why does kissing freak you out? It's one thing to dislike it but to say that implies a deeper issue with it.
Of course, you don't have to answer as its none of my business, I just found it an odd choice of words. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Everyone has their own preferences....For me kissing is very important part of sex and foreplay....It really turns me on "
Adore Kissing, absolute love it
Slagging time now
I could easily kiss someone all night and it would be that good that's all we would do
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"Everyone has their own preferences....For me kissing is very important part of sex and foreplay....It really turns me on
Adore Kissing, absolute love it
Slagging time now
I could easily kiss someone all night and it would be that good that's all we would do
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Nothing wrong with that, same here |
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