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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi folks,
just curious if people use this as a proper swingers site or just a nsa sex site?
Is there a difference between swinging and nsa sex?
Is tinder or plenty of fish not a better nsa sex site than this?
We don't really have an opinion either way to be honest. Just curious what others think.
Although we do use tinder to find singles, including females, as seems to be more choice. Dare we say better choice too lol Now we manly use FAB for swinging and parties, rather than nsa sex xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There seems a strong opinion swinging is more group sex. But to be honest think most people who come on here for nsa as its a sex site. Tinder is more a dating site. Think people can use it in what way suits them.
Me I like group and one to one meets. |
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People Deffo use this for nsa and I do think there's a diffrence between nsa sex and swinging.
Most people have nsa sex at least once in their life but swinging is a life style.
For example I'm in a 11 year relashonship if I had nsa fun with a guy I met in tfe put with friends I would be cheating on my partner but when I was in a club I was free to have sex with whoever I wanted to.
I'm shit at explaining but hope my points coming across xxxx |
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You'll find most on here and on POF ect are after different things... ie on here they'll fuck anything that moves but on POF ect they are looking for the perfect family life and 2.4 children
But yes a lot on POF ect are just looking for fun too but don't want to state it on their profile
Personally nsa sex doesn't do much for me, needs to be a connection and I find that in the swinging lifestyle
John  |
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Surely swinging is also NSA for some people?
All I know for sure is that people can use whatever label they like and it's bound to offend someone.
Just enjoy x |
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"Surely swinging is also NSA for some people?
All I know for sure is that people can use whatever label they like and it's bound to offend someone.
Just enjoy x"
Agree... Swinging has definitely evolved from when I first dipped my toes in around 20 years ago. I got into it as I enjoyed men and women and didn't want relationships so that would be seen as nsa. But like yourself don't really care for labels. Everyone has a different opinion n who's to say what's right or wrong.
K x |
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"Surely swinging is also NSA for some people?
All I know for sure is that people can use whatever label they like and it's bound to offend someone.
Just enjoy x
Agree... Swinging has definitely evolved from when I first dipped my toes in around 20 years ago. I got into it as I enjoyed men and women and didn't want relationships so that would be seen as nsa. But like yourself don't really care for labels. Everyone has a different opinion n who's to say what's right or wrong.
K x"
You sat it's evolved do you mean in a goid or bad way? I ask as I've only been a swinger for a few months so have no clue what it was like before.
Xxxx |
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"Surely swinging is also NSA for some people?
All I know for sure is that people can use whatever label they like and it's bound to offend someone.
Just enjoy x
Agree... Swinging has definitely evolved from when I first dipped my toes in around 20 years ago. I got into it as I enjoyed men and women and didn't want relationships so that would be seen as nsa. But like yourself don't really care for labels. Everyone has a different opinion n who's to say what's right or wrong.
K x
You sat it's evolved do you mean in a goid or bad way? I ask as I've only been a swinger for a few months so have no clue what it was like before.
Xxxx"
I'd say in a good way... The Internet has definitely opened it up. When I first started it out it was more couples swapping or parties with same and the odd single female who would usually be a middle aged woman. K xx |
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"Surely swinging is also NSA for some people?
All I know for sure is that people can use whatever label they like and it's bound to offend someone.
Just enjoy x
Agree... Swinging has definitely evolved from when I first dipped my toes in around 20 years ago. I got into it as I enjoyed men and women and didn't want relationships so that would be seen as nsa. But like yourself don't really care for labels. Everyone has a different opinion n who's to say what's right or wrong.
K x
You sat it's evolved do you mean in a goid or bad way? I ask as I've only been a swinger for a few months so have no clue what it was like before.
Xxxx
I'd say in a good way... The Internet has definitely opened it up. When I first started it out it was more couples swapping or parties with same and the odd single female who would usually be a middle aged woman. K xx"
I'm going back a good 20 years lol. K x |
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"Surely swinging is also NSA for some people?
All I know for sure is that people can use whatever label they like and it's bound to offend someone.
Just enjoy x
Agree... Swinging has definitely evolved from when I first dipped my toes in around 20 years ago. I got into it as I enjoyed men and women and didn't want relationships so that would be seen as nsa. But like yourself don't really care for labels. Everyone has a different opinion n who's to say what's right or wrong.
K x
You sat it's evolved do you mean in a goid or bad way? I ask as I've only been a swinger for a few months so have no clue what it was like before.
Xxxx
I'd say in a good way... The Internet has definitely opened it up. When I first started it out it was more couples swapping or parties with same and the odd single female who would usually be a middle aged woman. K xx
I'm going back a good 20 years lol. K x"
I going to ask if it was pre Internet days but I can't remember how long ago that was lol
I've got to say I've only really dipped my toe into the swinging world so far and I've had a great time. I met lots of lovely people in cj's that I really hope to see again this sat and I've spoke on and off to people on here I'd love to meet up with.
When I first came here I was only expecting sex I had no idea there was such a strong community xxxx |
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Mostly prefer using pof for meeting girls now
1. You see there face without needing to ask a million questions
2. They dont have daft rules ...put this in subject box etc ...really pisses me off that
3. Girls are usually prettier and more likely to get a reply on pof ...none of these ""im fat n ugly but still get 100s mags a day so im special"" girls
Just saying as i feel girls on here because theres so many guys msgn them they feel somehow important or can be rude....enjoy your day  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the hardest part is getting replies pure and simple. Pof is full of fakes with a small % of genuine people...as are all such sites sadly
Personally, attended my 1st ever party through here, was awesome. Had zero individual meets sadly xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Mostly prefer using pof for meeting girls now
1. You see there face without needing to ask a million questions
2. They dont have daft rules ...put this in subject box etc ...really pisses me off that
3. Girls are usually prettier and more likely to get a reply on pof ...none of these ""im fat n ugly but still get 100s mags a day so im special"" girls
Just saying as i feel girls on here because theres so many guys msgn them they feel somehow important or can be rude....enjoy your day "
Not all of us. Are like that this fat ugly bird is enjoying it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I first got involved in swinging some 20 years ago through a work colleague and his wife. Not only that they introduced me to what I now consider true cuckolding. Prior to that I had been involved in NSA primarily with married women.
My former boss and his missus used to organise parties that would usually involve the keys in a bowl scenario. This evolved to a monthly club scene similar to the one portrayed in Hellfire Club or movie Eyes Wide Shut.
Later I got involved in a number of 'wife swap' parties which to me were basically NSA although was informed by those taking part that wife swapping was in fact swinging
Nowadays I still play bull to cuckold couples but I take whatever comes along
Yes pre internet tended to be a more organised group thing and I suppose more relaxed and enjoyable |
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"Mostly prefer using pof for meeting girls now
1. You see there face without needing to ask a million questions
2. They dont have daft rules ...put this in subject box etc ...really pisses me off that
3. Girls are usually prettier and more likely to get a reply on pof ...none of these ""im fat n ugly but still get 100s mags a day so im special"" girls
Just saying as i feel girls on here because theres so many guys msgn them they feel somehow important or can be rude....enjoy your day
Not all of us. Are like that this fat ugly bird is enjoying it."
Well Obv there are some nice girls on here bit id say a high percentage wouldnt get a 2nd look in a pub or club ...they use the male to female ratio to their advantage...not replying/ leading guys on /etc....or thinkn they are better than guys because they have more choice .....
Just my opinion dont mind me hahaha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I found that the guys on PoF were either on Fab or just interested in nsa fun under the pretence of dating!
Stopped using PoF as it was getting weird. "
Yep. Most of them are also on here. Loads of fake profiles too. |
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