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By *eather47 OP Woman
over a year ago
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I dont know what others on here think about this but here goes Why when u meet and befriend a guy on here do some folk think it is right to let rip at you and tell u you shouldnt meet them because they have met them Get a LIFE its a swinging site |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I saw the most hilarious veri today on a single guys profile ... I think it had HE IS MINE, hands off , you can look but dont dare touch all in at the one time .... Talk about possesive haha |
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"I dont know what others on here think about this but here goes Why when u meet and befriend a guy on here do some folk think it is right to let rip at you and tell u you shouldnt meet them because they have met them Get a LIFE its a swinging site"
oh the eyes off hes mine brigade yes seen it many times Heather some dont know the meaning of swinging.
I meet who and when I want and if someone doesnt like it tough shit |
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"I was informed of one lady recently contacting the men who attended our party and called them mansluts, giving them earache for attending!
Sour grapes, presumably. Shocking !!!  "
Yeah, I'm so bothered  |
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"I was informed of one lady recently contacting the men who attended our party and called them mansluts, giving them earache for attending!
Sour grapes, presumably. Shocking !!!
Yeah, I'm so bothered "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is actually a lot more of it about than you actually think.
This is an adult swinging site where we choose to meet who and when we like. Too many people on here stake a claim on someone after a 5 minute chat |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I opened this thinking it was going be a fun game of monopoly.
Had it happen to me with a guy years back, he was going around telling people we were a couple  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was informed of one lady recently contacting the men who attended our party and called them mansluts, giving them earache for attending!
Sour grapes, presumably. "
What? That's bloody ridicolous |
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"There is actually a lot more of it about than you actually think.
This is an adult swinging site where we choose to meet who and when we like. Too many people on here stake a claim on someone after a 5 minute chat "
Agree but thank goodness most are savy enough to realise what's going on.
But sadly some get drawn into the wicked lies people weave just for the sake of a shag with those staking claim |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dont know what others on here think about this but here goes Why when u meet and befriend a guy on here do some folk think it is right to let rip at you and tell u you shouldnt meet them because they have met them Get a LIFE its a swinging site"
I stopped asking for verifications and stopped giving anything except social verifications for this reason. Yes it's a swinging site but very few men can actually control jealousy.
I still get the occasional twinge but it mostly makes me embarrassed  for feeling that way.... Again because I'm awesome  lol |
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"I was informed of one lady recently contacting the men who attended our party and called them mansluts, giving them earache for attending!
Sour grapes, presumably.
What? That's bloody ridicolous"
Yeah, but so is she  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was informed of one lady recently contacting the men who attended our party and called them mansluts, giving them earache for attending!
Sour grapes, presumably.
What? That's bloody ridicolous
Yeah, but so is she "
Haha. Fish slapped is needed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mystery gift im talking about both sexes on here "
Ive never experienced the other side of the coin, I know my sisters insanely jealous of any women even texting her husband but she isn't a swinger and nobody has ever texted me with ultimatums... At least not for about a year.  |
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goodness ....I certainly wouldn't want the hassle of anyone claiming me. That would be scary. as for claiming anyone ...I always return my books to the library on time. I may check them out again but they are not mine to keep.  x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think certain women just get jealous, especially if it has been a really good meet that the guy is going to get with someone else instead of meeting her again and again. It is a swinging site though so surely they know what they are signing up for  |
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"I think certain women just get jealous, especially if it has been a really good meet that the guy is going to get with someone else instead of meeting her again and again. It is a swinging site though so surely they know what they are signing up for "
you'd like to think so but apparently not |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think certain women just get jealous, especially if it has been a really good meet that the guy is going to get with someone else instead of meeting her again and again. It is a swinging site though so surely they know what they are signing up for you'd like to think so but apparently not "
It's not just women.
I have found some men also wanting ownership,
Some get offended if They read a veri because they think they should be next as if it's their 'turn'....!!
It's like being back at school..
Aren't we meant to be adults ..it's a sex site not a dating site!!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think certain women just get jealous, especially if it has been a really good meet that the guy is going to get with someone else instead of meeting her again and again. It is a swinging site though so surely they know what they are signing up for you'd like to think so but apparently not
It's not just women.
I have found some men also wanting ownership,
Some get offended if They read a veri because they think they should be next as if it's their 'turn'....!!
It's like being back at school..
Aren't we meant to be adults ..it's a sex site not a dating site!!
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I think the site should come with some sort of maturity filter to make sure it filters out all the people who are too immature to take the site for what it is or act in a reasonable manner. Might end up with very few people left on it though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People find strong bonds with some people. Why wouldnt you want more of what you liked and enjoyed. Doubt theres there many who dont feel some sort of emotions. Would you really want to meet someone who seen you as a piece of meat?? Fuck n go ?? |
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By *all saulMan
over a year ago
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"People find strong bonds with some people. Why wouldnt you want more of what you liked and enjoyed. Doubt theres there many who dont feel some sort of emotions. Would you really want to meet someone who seen you as a piece of meat?? Fuck n go ??"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"People find strong bonds with some people. Why wouldnt you want more of what you liked and enjoyed. Doubt theres there many who dont feel some sort of emotions. Would you really want to meet someone who seen you as a piece of meat?? Fuck n go ??"
I think it's one thing to have a strong bond but claiming someone as yours and not wanting to share is a bit extreme? I know I have had some amazing meets where there has been a strong connection and I want to see them again, however I would never not want them to enjoy what else there is |
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"People find strong bonds with some people. Why wouldnt you want more of what you liked and enjoyed. Doubt theres there many who dont feel some sort of emotions. Would you really want to meet someone who seen you as a piece of meat?? Fuck n go ??"
I agree but to be honest sometimes ur best with a fuck and go. Leas aggro, bs and drama. Would be nice to find a balance x |
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"People find strong bonds with some people. Why wouldnt you want more of what you liked and enjoyed. Doubt theres there many who dont feel some sort of emotions. Would you really want to meet someone who seen you as a piece of meat?? Fuck n go ??"
it's not for all but yes some do like fuck and go meets with no connection
When most folk joined here it was to shag an not much more.
That's why you see people putting up meet adds because all they want is a shag |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"goodness ....I certainly wouldn't want the hassle of anyone claiming me. That would be scary. as for claiming anyone ...I always return my books to the library on time. I may check them out again but they are not mine to keep. x"
Uh oh ... I have some really over due library books ... That i an not even reading ... What does that say about me |
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"People find strong bonds with some people. Why wouldnt you want more of what you liked and enjoyed. Doubt theres there many who dont feel some sort of emotions. Would you really want to meet someone who seen you as a piece of meat?? Fuck n go ??"
Hell yeah....there's times a one night stand type meet worked wonders fuck silly then go wham bam lol....other times it's nice to have more of a connection through time.....think there's times in life you want different types of meets and sex ....takes all sorts at deferent stages in swinging ...it's like a journey |
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"I dont know what others on here think about this but here goes Why when u meet and befriend a guy on here do some folk think it is right to let rip at you and tell u you shouldnt meet them because they have met them Get a LIFE its a swinging site"
Jealously is a terrible thing and not an attractive quality! We don't need bunny boilers on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"People find strong bonds with some people. Why wouldnt you want more of what you liked and enjoyed. Doubt theres there many who dont feel some sort of emotions. Would you really want to meet someone who seen you as a piece of meat?? Fuck n go ??
Hell yeah....there's times a one night stand type meet worked wonders fuck silly then go wham bam lol....other times it's nice to have more of a connection through time.....think there's times in life you want different types of meets and sex ....takes all sorts at deferent stages in swinging ...it's like a journey "
Driving to Edinburgh is a journey, what you're describing sounds like a fun free for all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As far as I can see there can be many gaps in communication that can contribute to such a situation. Honesty about what both yourself and your meet are looking for and expecting is always required so that should such an occurrence take place it's easier to deal with.
I've also seen members of both sexes play meets off against each other creating such a climate which is clearly unfair to all parties.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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hi guys and girls..i live in sussex and there are two women down here like that..one even kicked of at a meet saying the guy was hers and it all went a bit sour |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Replying to the original post...its been happening on here for years.. the jealousy about who folks are meeting. I still use the same system as I always have..meet who I want and don't let anyone dictate how I live my life and who I see.
If someone's not amused about who I meet tough titty! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As far as I can see there can be many gaps in communication that can contribute to such a situation. Honesty about what both yourself and your meet are looking for and expecting is always required so that should such an occurrence take place it's easier to deal with."
Fell into that trap twice... you would think I'd learn my lesson the first time but nooooooo
I should just start every message to someone I don't know with "what are your expectations for fab?" and if the answer is anything except friendship or sex bolt for the hills. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's inevitable that it happens. Especially if you've seen someone a few times and begin to get close. How that's dealt with is what matters most.
I'll be quite honest and say there is someone on here id be devistated to find had met someone else. However as someone said already he's not mine to keep. So it would be down to me to handle my own feelings accordingly and not create a drama for him or anyone else. And that's the difference. Some people act more irrationally when or if emotions get involved.
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now now ladies. lets all calm down. there's plenty of me to go around
no one has to stake a claim. we don't need any auctions or battles to the death
oh wait no ones fighting over me anyway well damn it there goes my ego 
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By (user no longer on site)
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from my cynicism from my years on the site..
a straight single woman who asks for no 'one off' meets I'd usually avoid..
a straight single woman slagging off other women she classes as bikes or sluts, I'd normally avoid
a straight single woman that meets one guy from the site and they verify eachother several times in a month..I'd usually avoid(I'll often see the moaning statuses later on when she realizes he's been fucking about anyway)
A woman that points out things about past or future partners..in a derogatory way or her being insecure(about herself compared to them), I wouldnt avoid..but it can be hard work trying to explain, without being slutty that a holes a hole..
oops..kidding at the last part
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By (user no longer on site)
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"from my cynicism from my years on the site..
a straight single woman who asks for no 'one off' meets I'd usually avoid..
a straight single woman slagging off other women she classes as bikes or sluts, I'd normally avoid
a straight single woman that meets one guy from the site and they verify eachother several times in a month..I'd usually avoid(I'll often see the moaning statuses later on when she realizes he's been fucking about anyway)
A woman that points out things about past or future partners..in a derogatory way or her being insecure(about herself compared to them), I wouldnt avoid..but it can be hard work trying to explain, without being slutty that a holes a hole..
oops..kidding at the last part
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Oh well patrick that bombs me out then. Pmsl.so list there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"from my cynicism from my years on the site..
a straight single woman who asks for no 'one off' meets I'd usually avoid..
a straight single woman slagging off other women she classes as bikes or sluts, I'd normally avoid
a straight single woman that meets one guy from the site and they verify eachother several times in a month..I'd usually avoid(I'll often see the moaning statuses later on when she realizes he's been fucking about anyway)
A woman that points out things about past or future partners..in a derogatory way or her being insecure(about herself compared to them), I wouldnt avoid..but it can be hard work trying to explain, without being slutty that a holes a hole..
oops..kidding at the last part
Oh well patrick that bombs me out then. Pmsl.so list there. "
ha-haaaa |
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