Women especially? Are you able to say exactly what you want?
I have no problems in the bedroom saying what I want and making sure we both get enjoyment. And I can easily complain in a shop/restaurant.
But today I found myself getting all shy and flustered when trying to put the feelers out with a single guy we'd like to invite for a mmf!
What's that all about! 
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"Women especially? Are you able to say exactly what you want?
I have no problems in the bedroom saying what I want and making sure we both get enjoyment. And I can easily complain in a shop/restaurant.
But today I found myself getting all shy and flustered when trying to put the feelers out with a single guy we'd like to invite for a mmf!
What's that all about!
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Very assertive and aint shy in going out and getting what I want from life and on here too .
No one goes far waiting for it all to fall into their laps.
If I find someone Im attracted to Im not scared to make the first move nor am I scared to let them know what I want in the bedroom   |
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
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I can me very assertive, but I can also be reserved which can be mistaken for shy or 'sweet'. But in general, I'll say what I feel. You only need to worry when I go quiet because it's usually a sign that I've got something to say, but I won't say it because it's not nice  |
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"I can me very assertive, but I can also be reserved which can be mistaken for shy or 'sweet'. But in general, I'll say what I feel. You only need to worry when I go quiet because it's usually a sign that I've got something to say, but I won't say it because it's not nice "
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
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"I can me very assertive, but I can also be reserved which can be mistaken for shy or 'sweet'. But in general, I'll say what I feel. You only need to worry when I go quiet because it's usually a sign that I've got something to say, but I won't say it because it's not nice
Dude are you sure we not relatives "
Jeezo.....any excuse to be me   |
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As a Guy (looks in mirror).
I'm more respectful and always goes with the flow. I am an assertive kind of guy but only go that level if the persons I'm with knowingly will enjoy that.
I can be very dominant, take control or laid back with a level playing field.
Lot of people are in here for chat, some say they meet, some of which don't intend to really, some just into meets
But we are all here for Fun, in different levels and being shy, sometimes could have you left behind on the stalls (oh its high up here).
As long as you both or all have fun then its a no lose situation and if your shy or become shy, its kl, you may like that person a lot juts don't make it that shy that you could miss out on that person.
Anno, intellectually stimulating, have I bored you yet, lol
All I can say is, Have Fun and Down with the Timewasters
woop, woop
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I'm not very good at saying what's on my mind unless I'm angry.
When it comes to anything sexual I try drop little hints instead of just coming out with it. Drives my bf daft. I don't know why I do it I just really shy.
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I'm the most assertive guy on the planet never mind on fab, I think! Anyway I'm just going to pop out for a while, or will I be better staying in, I've decided, I'm going to have a cup of tea and think about it, or will I have a coffee  |
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It really depends on the situation.
Sometimes I'm actually quite shy. Other times I say far too much. Especially if I'm standing up for someone or something.
I would never ever approach a guy in a bar or anything like that though.
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Before I was married I had no problem going up to a guy in a bar, pinching his arse and getting a snog. After 11 years of not giving a toss if anyone is flirting I think I've lost the ability to tell
Makes it very difficult to make the first move in that instance!
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By *ndykayMan
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"Before I was married I had no problem going up to a guy in a bar, pinching his arse and getting a snog. After 11 years of not giving a toss if anyone is flirting I think I've lost the ability to tell
Makes it very difficult to make the first move in that instance!
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"Before I was married I had no problem going up to a guy in a bar, pinching his arse and getting a snog. After 11 years of not giving a toss if anyone is flirting I think I've lost the ability to tell
Makes it very difficult to make the first move in that instance!
You never lose it, just get a little rusty "
So true, never lose it, just rusty, lol
Not big headed but could go into a supermarket and see and find if anyone would be looking / interested in fun
and not for bananas, cucumber or Lurpak, pmsl |
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
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"I'm definitely rusty! Lol
Will need to increase my Fan activity, oil up the old cogs 
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Errrrrrr those cogs aren't that old....and if you oil them up you'll only need to flash them and smile.....who could say no?  |
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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago
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Kiki's the assertive one around here, lol 
She has no problem with the reaseraunt thing, love it when salesmen decide to to take her on in a haggle, lol, the rest of us take a few steps back and and watch the fun from a distance, lmao |
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