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Why do woman not lkke us single men??
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over a year ago
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Know lots of single ladies who like single guys.You have to imagine fan.is like a night club and there are 100 single ladies in the club.If you lucky 40% may find you attractive.Of those you may find 20% percent attractive and that's before a conversation even starts.patience is a virtue fella  |
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Do you think it may have something to do with the hundreds of "I'm free now, wanna fuck?" messages they get snowed under? Or the unimaginative/barely there single guy profiles? Or the constant barrage of cock pics, as if they've never seen one before?
Hmm, I have no idea why some won't meet single guys. It's a puzzler. |
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"Why dnt all u woman not like meetin single men?? There some that do but there more that wont! "
do you have it on good authority that ALL US WOMEN dont like single guys or is that just a sweeping statement by you?
I happen to love meeting guys from here.. Couldn't eat a whole one but I've given it a good try on occasions   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just a lot of single women av read profile and basically said not interested in women!! For the hat then that's way a am an fae glesga that's what we all do trakies & a hat!! Won't change it if ppl dnt like that then that's there problem! Just was curious to see the comments that all thanks for the time ppl |
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"Just a lot of single women av read profile and basically said not interested in women!! For the hat then that's way a am an fae glesga that's what we all do trakies & a hat!! Won't change it if ppl dnt like that then that's there problem! Just was curious to see the comments that all thanks for the time ppl "
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over a year ago
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Sorta agree with op, I've seen more female profiles that say not looking for single guys more than I've seen looking for single guys, but they're are some.
But you ladies do make it a bit too hard on here, I realise you won't & shouldn't just meet & fuck anyone but us guys shouldn't have to jump through fiery hoops, take the eye from a cyclops, retrieve Medusa's head & slay the kraken all the while maintaining good vocabulary & wearing a nice suit.
I do my best on here with the text speak but do have the odd slip up like, sum1 instead of someone but is this really a good reason to not like someone without even knowing them?
As for the suit & or nice clothes I for one don't own a suit or jeans or trousers, shirts, tie ect ect ect
Through years of self hate & low confidence of being a bit heavy I like to wear what I feel is comfortable & that just so happens to be trackies, trainers, I've been lucky enough to meet women on here that when this was brought up they've replied with why does it matter what you wear when they'll be coming off anyway? Or something along those lines.
None of you will change the way you are on fab but I would like it if this attitude was dialed down 4 or 5 notches.
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"Sorta agree with op, I've seen more female profiles that say not looking for single guys more than I've seen looking for single guys, but they're are some.
But you ladies do make it a bit too hard on here, I realise you won't & shouldn't just meet & fuck anyone but us guys shouldn't have to jump through fiery hoops, take the eye from a cyclops, retrieve Medusa's head & slay the kraken all the while maintaining good vocabulary & wearing a nice suit.
I do my best on here with the text speak but do have the odd slip up like, sum1 instead of someone but is this really a good reason to not like someone without even knowing them?
As for the suit & or nice clothes I for one don't own a suit or jeans or trousers, shirts, tie ect ect ect
Through years of self hate & low confidence of being a bit heavy I like to wear what I feel is comfortable & that just so happens to be trackies, trainers, I've been lucky enough to meet women on here that when this was brought up they've replied with why does it matter what you wear when they'll be coming off anyway? Or something along those lines.
None of you will change the way you are on fab but I would like it if this attitude was dialed down 4 or 5 notches.
Sorry for going on I'm not aloud to text speak "
I agree with some of what you've said some do make demands on guys which is wrong.
We should all be equals here and treat people as we would like to be treated ourselves.
I'm one of those females who knows what she likes and that's well dressed men,I love guys in suits but would I demand a guy wear one for a meet absolutely not nor would I expect it it's a preference just like everyone else's preference.
The must do this and must do that profiles if I was a guy I'd avoid too  |
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"Sorta agree with op, I've seen more female profiles that say not looking for single guys more than I've seen looking for single guys, but they're are some.
But you ladies do make it a bit too hard on here, I realise you won't & shouldn't just meet & fuck anyone but us guys shouldn't have to jump through fiery hoops, take the eye from a cyclops, retrieve Medusa's head & slay the kraken all the while maintaining good vocabulary & wearing a nice suit.
I do my best on here with the text speak but do have the odd slip up like, sum1 instead of someone but is this really a good reason to not like someone without even knowing them?
As for the suit & or nice clothes I for one don't own a suit or jeans or trousers, shirts, tie ect ect ect
Through years of self hate & low confidence of being a bit heavy I like to wear what I feel is comfortable & that just so happens to be trackies, trainers, I've been lucky enough to meet women on here that when this was brought up they've replied with why does it matter what you wear when they'll be coming off anyway? Or something along those lines.
None of you will change the way you are on fab but I would like it if this attitude was dialed down 4 or 5 notches.
Sorry for going on I'm not aloud to text speak I agree with some of what you've said some do make demands on guys which is wrong.
We should all be equals here and treat people as we would like to be treated ourselves.
I'm one of those females who knows what she likes and that's well dressed men,I love guys in suits but would I demand a guy wear one for a meet absolutely not nor would I expect it it's a preference just like everyone else's preference.
The must do this and must do that profiles if I was a guy I'd avoid too "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's like any relationship people have an idea what they are looking for couples come on here for all sorts of reasons mainly at the start I think that's to find the unicorn single bi female who loves threesomes. Then other couples. Last is probably single guys but plenty at beginning happy to chat or meet but as previously stated the shear number of annoying fancy a fuck messages or cock pics just have them reaching for block button I seen someone on here who had two hundred messages one day you would need to employ the single bi femto help answer them all. |
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over a year ago
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Going from what I've heard and read from females on here I think the reason some woman prefer attached men is because they hope for more discretion which is understandable .Im single and have found its all to do with the approach you make.Far higher chance of chatting and meeting with a female or cpl on here if at least you can string a sentence together and don't use that hideous text speak!Ladies like to know and feel they can trust you and shoving dick pics in there face with "what are you doing in a hour" clearly isn't the way to go about it.  |
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"Going from what I've heard and read from females on here I think the reason some woman prefer attached men is because they hope for more discretion which is understandable .Im single and have found its all to do with the approach you make.Far higher chance of chatting and meeting with a female or cpl on here if at least you can string a sentence together and don't use that hideous text speak!Ladies like to know and feel they can trust you and shoving dick pics in there face with "what are you doing in a hour" clearly isn't the way to go about it. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All I can say it's like a rollercoater coaster in her you have your ups and downs in here.some wet spells and dry spells.just have to persivere with it .sometimes it's a hit or a miss .don't get me wrong there are very lovly woman in here I would love to meet x |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
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"It might be a ego trip for some of these women they ask for a picture and say sorry not my type but you never get a picture from them all they are doing is judging people by a picture "
How else are you meant to decide? And of course I won't send my picture if I'm not interested. Why would I? |
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over a year ago
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Very fussy and I've no intention of being otherwise. I'm sure many women are the same on here. Free time is limited so they want it to be the best it can be . So many emails come in its far easier to look for someone than wait to be approached.
It's not just some women who look for certain things. Men do too. I've had plenty nasty emails that point out I'm not someones type and I didn't even ask their opinion!
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"Very fussy and I've no intention of being otherwise. I'm sure many women are the same on here. Free time is limited so they want it to be the best it can be . So many emails come in its far easier to look for someone than wait to be approached.
It's not just some women who look for certain things. Men do too. I've had plenty nasty emails that point out I'm not someones type and I didn't even ask their opinion!
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Thanks Pink. I couldn't have said it better myself |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
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"Very fussy and I've no intention of being otherwise. I'm sure many women are the same on here. Free time is limited so they want it to be the best it can be . So many emails come in its far easier to look for someone than wait to be approached.
It's not just some women who look for certain things. Men do too. I've had plenty nasty emails that point out I'm not someones type and I didn't even ask their opinion!
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Snap.
Although we really ought to know our place better and meet anyone who waves a semi erect penis in our direction... We're here to service their needs remember, not to have standards or a mind of our own.
And I get the nasty ones too. Turned down a guy to be told he wouldn't fuck a fat, ugly bitch like me anyway. Gotta love a polite fab conversation! |
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"Very fussy and I've no intention of being otherwise. I'm sure many women are the same on here. Free time is limited so they want it to be the best it can be . So many emails come in its far easier to look for someone than wait to be approached.
It's not just some women who look for certain things. Men do too. I've had plenty nasty emails that point out I'm not someones type and I didn't even ask their opinion!
Snap.
Although we really ought to know our place better and meet anyone who waves a semi erect penis in our direction... We're here to service their needs remember, not to have standards or a mind of our own.
And I get the nasty ones too. Turned down a guy to be told he wouldn't fuck a fat, ugly bitch like me anyway. Gotta love a polite fab conversation! "
Been told this many times, I now tell them to fuck off & go find someone who actually gives a flying fuck! Treat people the way you want to be treated & respect when anyone says thanks but no thanks |
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With regard to trackies and baseball caps, if someone turned up to a social with me dressed that way I would assume they couldn't be bothered. Unless they're on their way to the gym, it's not hard to throw on a pair of jeans and a tshirt.
I don't expect a suit, but I do expect effort. I dress to impress, even if it's casual, so why shouldn't they? No effort in appearance would make me think they'd make no effort with sex either. I won't apologise for that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree with op you are who you are and if you're happy why change, but it sounds like things aren't working for you on fab, so, if something isn't working fix it, best advice I can give is go to a social event, if you're a genuine decent guy, people will see that and things might pick up, on the other hand if you're a total nugget, they'll see that too  |
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"I like single men. But not ALL single men
This and I don't ask anyone to jump through hoops either
Well, to be fair we do need to check their fitness and stamina... "
Not at my age I need my sleep |
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"I like single men. But not ALL single men
This and I don't ask anyone to jump through hoops either
Well, to be fair we do need to check their fitness and stamina...
Not at my age I need my sleep "
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Different strokes for different folks,not all the women on here are here to meet single men in much the same way that not all the single men on here are here to meet single women,it is after all a swinging site so people's tastes vary somewhat |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be honest, its supply and demand. Few single ladies on here and a million single guys. Thus the ladies can chose to be picky, as they hold all the aces / options. Single guys are ten a penny.
However, this power imbalance does go to some peoples heads and they seems to be very picky. Without being cheeky about it, they look for guys that wouldn't look twice at them off this site. For example an older larger lady making bold statements like will only meet fit young men with muscle and six pack etc.
We personally don't have a problem with it. But can see how single guys would get annoyed and upset, as it does seem to go to some single ladies head.
On the reverse, getting hundreds of messages per say basically saying the same thing. Well gets dull and boring, seen one cock, seen them all.
As a result we have decided to use tinder for single as a much better choice on there and this site for couples moving forward.
Just for reference, couple of ten years. Been on this site over a year the first time as a couple. Wanted to try solo for a few months, so set up single profile each, wasn't for us. So back on as a couple. So we have experience from couples and single point of view.
Guys n girls for singles the best action is defo on Tinder xxxx |
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Been on this site a long time seen many come and go especially single guys when they discover this is not Dial a Fuck and single women because they feel they are being treated like a Dial a Fuck service.
As mentioned before guys if that is your main reason for coming on here then maybe this site is not for you as there are plenty of others that are Dial a Fuck.
Trackies......yes as it says on the label track suits are for athletes to wear at trackside to keep warm between events. In this age of elasticated waist bands guys make an effort.
I personally am a fussy bugger and look for quality over quantity and yes there are women on this site well worth the hard work and patience however, there are many who go out at midnight and bark at the moon and it's them that appear to be the more demanding.
Look at yourself in the mirror and ask "If I walked into a pub right now, what chance do I have of getting laid" the same principle applies in here.
Make the effort guys and you will reap the rewards, however ladies the more demands you make the same is true,'the less likely you are of meeting a decent guy on here and you will be inundated with shit messages from all and sundry looking for a quick shag
My opinion for what it's worth |
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Well said
"Been on this site a long time seen many come and go especially single guys when they discover this is not Dial a Fuck and single women because they feel they are being treated like a Dial a Fuck service.
As mentioned before guys if that is your main reason for coming on here then maybe this site is not for you as there are plenty of others that are Dial a Fuck.
Trackies......yes as it says on the label track suits are for athletes to wear at trackside to keep warm between events. In this age of elasticated waist bands guys make an effort.
I personally am a fussy bugger and look for quality over quantity and yes there are women on this site well worth the hard work and patience however, there are many who go out at midnight and bark at the moon and it's them that appear to be the more demanding.
Look at yourself in the mirror and ask "If I walked into a pub right now, what chance do I have of getting laid" the same principle applies in here.
Make the effort guys and you will reap the rewards, however ladies the more demands you make the same is true,'the less likely you are of meeting a decent guy on here and you will be inundated with shit messages from all and sundry looking for a quick shag
My opinion for what it's worth "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just a lot of single women av read profile and basically said not interested in women!! For the hat then that's way a am an fae glesga that's what we all do trakies & a hat!! Won't change it if ppl dnt like that then that's there problem! Just was curious to see the comments that all thanks for the time ppl "
Im from Glasgow. Women in gere prefer a man with a bit of class, some style and good spelling. (the latter i often mess up)
I would say many women prefer a single guy that is well dressed looks good and smells great. If they wanted baseball caps and trakkies.. their are plenty guys like that kicking about.
Get a smart short on pair of trousers newly polished shoes, update your pics and... Bobs your uncle..
That is my advice anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Of course some women like single guys, some women are looking for other women, some women are looking for couples.
Its the whole point of fab- it gives you the opportunity to expand your horizons.
To the OP if you don't realise that the women aren't going to be falling at your feet you are possibly in the wrong place.
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"Do you think it may have something to do with the hundreds of "I'm free now, wanna fuck?" messages they get snowed under? Or the unimaginative/barely there single guy profiles? Or the constant barrage of cock pics, as if they've never seen one before?
Hmm, I have no idea why some won't meet single guys. It's a puzzler. "
Yeah but saying that I've not sent something so crude in years and still I get no responses quite often...
Doesn't matter though I have enough shit in my life to keep me busy and as long as I don't go too long without sex the motivation to keep healthy, clean well dressed and smelling nice stays in place. |
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"Do you think it may have something to do with the hundreds of "I'm free now, wanna fuck?" messages they get snowed under? Or the unimaginative/barely there single guy profiles? Or the constant barrage of cock pics, as if they've never seen one before?
Hmm, I have no idea why some won't meet single guys. It's a puzzler.
Yeah but saying that I've not sent something so crude in years and still I get no responses quite often..."
No one is owed a response. The FAQs state quite clearly that you should take no response as a not interested.
I was chatting with a girl recently, she opened fab and at the top it showed 142 unread messages. That number changed every time she changed page.
So out of those 142, how many are nice, polite, thought out messages and how many are "wanna fuck?", do we think? What are the chances of your message getting spotted in amongst all that?
Genuine question.
It baffles me that men just don't understand how many messages single women get and the crap they have to through. |
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"Do you think it may have something to do with the hundreds of "I'm free now, wanna fuck?" messages they get snowed under? Or the unimaginative/barely there single guy profiles? Or the constant barrage of cock pics, as if they've never seen one before?
Hmm, I have no idea why some won't meet single guys. It's a puzzler.
Yeah but saying that I've not sent something so crude in years and still I get no responses quite often...
No one is owed a response. The FAQs state quite clearly that you should take no response as a not interested.
I was chatting with a girl recently, she opened fab and at the top it showed 142 unread messages. That number changed every time she changed page.
So out of those 142, how many are nice, polite, thought out messages and how many are "wanna fuck?", do we think? What are the chances of your message getting spotted in amongst all that?
Genuine question.
It baffles me that men just don't understand how many messages single women get and the crap they have to through."
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
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"Women dont like meeting single guys ????...woohoo thankgod im married
Yeah and you're also married and playing with permission!!!
I know ...how good is that
See I'm a great wife! !  x"
Yes yes you are  xx |
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"Women dont like meeting single guys ????...woohoo thankgod im married
Yeah and you're also married and playing with permission!!!
I know ...how good is that
See I'm a great wife! ! x"
Obviously the best |
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
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"Women dont like meeting single guys ????...woohoo thankgod im married
Yeah and you're also married and playing with permission!!!
I know ...how good is that
See I'm a great wife! ! x
Obviously the best "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Of course women like single guys but its how single guys approach women? Baseball caps & cock pics really must get a the girls going."
On my first meet I always like to wear Red Braces, a yellow Cravat and of course Reebook trainers, works every time, lol
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What if all men on fab "not just single men" started thinking the same as most women on fab?
In my opinion guys have nowhere near the same standards, there will be guys not into bbw's but they'll more than likely get an offer from one at some point or another & he'll think "fuck it why not" which can be seen as desperate or nice depending on your view of things.
If every guy came on here with the attitude of will only meet fit, in shape, gorgeous women with big tits that don't face south when the bra comes off & a tight pussy, must be dressed in the way WE want you to be dressed, speak how we tell you to speak, not only would no one ever get meets on here but you women would see us as disgusting pigs who don't deserve a meet.
As for the hundreds of mails a day, I think that goes to women's heads as well, I think alot of guys just randomly mail any woman without even looking at the profile, must be a mind set of the more I mail the bigger chance I'll get. I very rarrely mail any woman on here becuase when I do it either gets read & deleted, or just deleted or on many occasions I get abbuse from the women, one woman even said how dare someone like you mail someone who looks like me?
I've seen women on the forums say one thing & pretending to be all nice & a decent person & tell people on the forums that they would never be abusive they just let guys down gently, but I've mailed them & got a very VERY different reply.
Can't remember what I was leading up to or what my point was so I'll end it here |
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"What if all men on fab "not just single men" started thinking the same as most women on fab?
In my opinion guys have nowhere near the same standards, there will be guys not into bbw's but they'll more than likely get an offer from one at some point or another & he'll think "fuck it why not" which can be seen as desperate or nice depending on your view of things.
If every guy came on here with the attitude of will only meet fit, in shape, gorgeous women with big tits that don't face south when the bra comes off & a tight pussy, must be dressed in the way WE want you to be dressed, speak how we tell you to speak, not only would no one ever get meets on here but you women would see us as disgusting pigs who don't deserve a meet.
As for the hundreds of mails a day, I think that goes to women's heads as well, I think alot of guys just randomly mail any woman without even looking at the profile, must be a mind set of the more I mail the bigger chance I'll get. I very rarrely mail any woman on here becuase when I do it either gets read & deleted, or just deleted or on many occasions I get abbuse from the women, one woman even said how dare someone like you mail someone who looks like me?
I've seen women on the forums say one thing & pretending to be all nice & a decent person & tell people on the forums that they would never be abusive they just let guys down gently, but I've mailed them & got a very VERY different reply.
Can't remember what I was leading up to or what my point was so I'll end it here "
Wow bitter much |
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"What if all men on fab "not just single men" started thinking the same as most women on fab?
In my opinion guys have nowhere near the same standards, there will be guys not into bbw's but they'll more than likely get an offer from one at some point or another & he'll think "fuck it why not" which can be seen as desperate or nice depending on your view of things.
If every guy came on here with the attitude of will only meet fit, in shape, gorgeous women with big tits that don't face south when the bra comes off & a tight pussy, must be dressed in the way WE want you to be dressed, speak how we tell you to speak, not only would no one ever get meets on here but you women would see us as disgusting pigs who don't deserve a meet.
As for the hundreds of mails a day, I think that goes to women's heads as well, I think alot of guys just randomly mail any woman without even looking at the profile, must be a mind set of the more I mail the bigger chance I'll get. I very rarrely mail any woman on here becuase when I do it either gets read & deleted, or just deleted or on many occasions I get abbuse from the women, one woman even said how dare someone like you mail someone who looks like me?
I've seen women on the forums say one thing & pretending to be all nice & a decent person & tell people on the forums that they would never be abusive they just let guys down gently, but I've mailed them & got a very VERY different reply.
Can't remember what I was leading up to or what my point was so I'll end it here
Wow bitter much "
not bitter at all lol just saying, but if bitter was your 1st opinion what do you think guys think when they read women's profiles like that? |
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
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Ok, I haven't read the rest of the thread.....got bored.
But from my experience, single ladies AND couples do meet single men.
It's all about attitude though and selling yourself in the right manner.
And don't whinge - it's not attractive to either sex and puts another cross against your name. With so many guys to choose from, they can afford to be picky.
Other than that OP, Good luck |
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
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"What if all men on fab "not just single men" started thinking the same as most women on fab?
In my opinion guys have nowhere near the same standards, there will be guys not into bbw's but they'll more than likely get an offer from one at some point or another & he'll think "fuck it why not" which can be seen as desperate or nice depending on your view of things.
If every guy came on here with the attitude of will only meet fit, in shape, gorgeous women with big tits that don't face south when the bra comes off & a tight pussy, must be dressed in the way WE want you to be dressed, speak how we tell you to speak, not only would no one ever get meets on here but you women would see us as disgusting pigs who don't deserve a meet.
As for the hundreds of mails a day, I think that goes to women's heads as well, I think alot of guys just randomly mail any woman without even looking at the profile, must be a mind set of the more I mail the bigger chance I'll get. I very rarrely mail any woman on here becuase when I do it either gets read & deleted, or just deleted or on many occasions I get abbuse from the women, one woman even said how dare someone like you mail someone who looks like me?
I've seen women on the forums say one thing & pretending to be all nice & a decent person & tell people on the forums that they would never be abusive they just let guys down gently, but I've mailed them & got a very VERY different reply.
Can't remember what I was leading up to or what my point was so I'll end it here "
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"Ok, I haven't read the rest of the thread.....got bored.
But from my experience, single ladies AND couples do meet single men.
It's all about attitude though and selling yourself in the right manner.
And don't whinge - it's not attractive to either sex and puts another cross against your name. With so many guys to choose from, they can afford to be picky.
Other than that OP, Good luck "
totally agree Andy only people I would never even consider meeting are negative people, ones who moan about not getting meets or who rant on their updates and slag people off.
Im here for fun therefor only want to meet fun positive people |
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"Well saidBeen on this site a long time seen many come and go especially single guys when they discover this is not Dial a Fuck and single women because they feel they are being treated like a Dial a Fuck service.
As mentioned before guys if that is your main reason for coming on here then maybe this site is not for you as there are plenty of others that are Dial a Fuck.
Trackies......yes as it says on the label track suits are for athletes to wear at trackside to keep warm between events. In this age of elasticated waist bands guys make an effort.
I personally am a fussy bugger and look for quality over quantity and yes there are women on this site well worth the hard work and patience however, there are many who go out at midnight and bark at the moon and it's them that appear to be the more demanding.
Look at yourself in the mirror and ask "If I walked into a pub right now, what chance do I have of getting laid" the same principle applies in here.
Make the effort guys and you will reap the rewards, however ladies the more demands you make the same is true,'the less likely you are of meeting a decent guy on here and you will be inundated with shit messages from all and sundry looking for a quick shag
My opinion for what it's worth "
Well said,we wouldn't meet anyone that turned up in a tracksuit. |
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
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"Well saidBeen on this site a long time seen many come and go especially single guys when they discover this is not Dial a Fuck and single women because they feel they are being treated like a Dial a Fuck service.
As mentioned before guys if that is your main reason for coming on here then maybe this site is not for you as there are plenty of others that are Dial a Fuck.
Trackies......yes as it says on the label track suits are for athletes to wear at trackside to keep warm between events. In this age of elasticated waist bands guys make an effort.
I personally am a fussy bugger and look for quality over quantity and yes there are women on this site well worth the hard work and patience however, there are many who go out at midnight and bark at the moon and it's them that appear to be the more demanding.
Look at yourself in the mirror and ask "If I walked into a pub right now, what chance do I have of getting laid" the same principle applies in here.
Make the effort guys and you will reap the rewards, however ladies the more demands you make the same is true,'the less likely you are of meeting a decent guy on here and you will be inundated with shit messages from all and sundry looking for a quick shag
My opinion for what it's worth Well said,we wouldn't meet anyone that turned up in a tracksuit."
What about pirate outfit and parrot? |
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"Well saidBeen on this site a long time seen many come and go especially single guys when they discover this is not Dial a Fuck and single women because they feel they are being treated like a Dial a Fuck service.
As mentioned before guys if that is your main reason for coming on here then maybe this site is not for you as there are plenty of others that are Dial a Fuck.
Trackies......yes as it says on the label track suits are for athletes to wear at trackside to keep warm between events. In this age of elasticated waist bands guys make an effort.
I personally am a fussy bugger and look for quality over quantity and yes there are women on this site well worth the hard work and patience however, there are many who go out at midnight and bark at the moon and it's them that appear to be the more demanding.
Look at yourself in the mirror and ask "If I walked into a pub right now, what chance do I have of getting laid" the same principle applies in here.
Make the effort guys and you will reap the rewards, however ladies the more demands you make the same is true,'the less likely you are of meeting a decent guy on here and you will be inundated with shit messages from all and sundry looking for a quick shag
My opinion for what it's worth Well said,we wouldn't meet anyone that turned up in a tracksuit.
What about pirate outfit and parrot? "
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"Well saidBeen on this site a long time seen many come and go especially single guys when they discover this is not Dial a Fuck and single women because they feel they are being treated like a Dial a Fuck service.
As mentioned before guys if that is your main reason for coming on here then maybe this site is not for you as there are plenty of others that are Dial a Fuck.
Trackies......yes as it says on the label track suits are for athletes to wear at trackside to keep warm between events. In this age of elasticated waist bands guys make an effort.
I personally am a fussy bugger and look for quality over quantity and yes there are women on this site well worth the hard work and patience however, there are many who go out at midnight and bark at the moon and it's them that appear to be the more demanding.
Look at yourself in the mirror and ask "If I walked into a pub right now, what chance do I have of getting laid" the same principle applies in here.
Make the effort guys and you will reap the rewards, however ladies the more demands you make the same is true,'the less likely you are of meeting a decent guy on here and you will be inundated with shit messages from all and sundry looking for a quick shag
My opinion for what it's worth Well said,we wouldn't meet anyone that turned up in a tracksuit.
What about pirate outfit and parrot? "
Eh no lol |
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
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"Well saidBeen on this site a long time seen many come and go especially single guys when they discover this is not Dial a Fuck and single women because they feel they are being treated like a Dial a Fuck service.
As mentioned before guys if that is your main reason for coming on here then maybe this site is not for you as there are plenty of others that are Dial a Fuck.
Trackies......yes as it says on the label track suits are for athletes to wear at trackside to keep warm between events. In this age of elasticated waist bands guys make an effort.
I personally am a fussy bugger and look for quality over quantity and yes there are women on this site well worth the hard work and patience however, there are many who go out at midnight and bark at the moon and it's them that appear to be the more demanding.
Look at yourself in the mirror and ask "If I walked into a pub right now, what chance do I have of getting laid" the same principle applies in here.
Make the effort guys and you will reap the rewards, however ladies the more demands you make the same is true,'the less likely you are of meeting a decent guy on here and you will be inundated with shit messages from all and sundry looking for a quick shag
My opinion for what it's worth Well said,we wouldn't meet anyone that turned up in a tracksuit.
What about pirate outfit and parrot? "
You were ok with the parrot but took it too far with the pirate outfit lmao |
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
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"Well saidBeen on this site a long time seen many come and go especially single guys when they discover this is not Dial a Fuck and single women because they feel they are being treated like a Dial a Fuck service.
As mentioned before guys if that is your main reason for coming on here then maybe this site is not for you as there are plenty of others that are Dial a Fuck.
Trackies......yes as it says on the label track suits are for athletes to wear at trackside to keep warm between events. In this age of elasticated waist bands guys make an effort.
I personally am a fussy bugger and look for quality over quantity and yes there are women on this site well worth the hard work and patience however, there are many who go out at midnight and bark at the moon and it's them that appear to be the more demanding.
Look at yourself in the mirror and ask "If I walked into a pub right now, what chance do I have of getting laid" the same principle applies in here.
Make the effort guys and you will reap the rewards, however ladies the more demands you make the same is true,'the less likely you are of meeting a decent guy on here and you will be inundated with shit messages from all and sundry looking for a quick shag
My opinion for what it's worth Well said,we wouldn't meet anyone that turned up in a tracksuit.
What about pirate outfit and parrot? Eh no lol"
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"Just a lot of single women av read profile and basically said not interested in women!! For the hat then that's way a am an fae glesga that's what we all do trakies & a hat!! Won't change it if ppl dnt like that then that's there problem! Just was curious to see the comments that all thanks for the time ppl
Im from Glasgow. Women in gere prefer a man with a bit of class, some style and good spelling. (the latter i often mess up)
I would say many women prefer a single guy that is well dressed looks good and smells great. If they wanted baseball caps and trakkies.. their are plenty guys like that kicking about.
Get a smart short on pair of trousers newly polished shoes, update your pics and... Bobs your uncle..
That is my advice anyway. "
why do folk try to change everyone to what they percieve as "smart" the style just now for guys is a long way from a pair of trousers polished shoes unless we took a time travelling trip some trackies are way more stylish than your finest saville row suits my advice dress for you if they dont like it so what |
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
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" why do folk try to change everyone to what they percieve as "smart" the style just now for guys is a long way from a pair of trousers polished shoes unless we took a time travelling trip some trackies are way more stylish than your finest saville row suits my advice dress for you if they dont like it so what"
although i dont agree that trackies are in anyway smart  everyone should wear what they are comfortable in ..some guys just dont suit wearing suits lol they look as if they have court that day lol |
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"What if all men on fab "not just single men" started thinking the same as most women on fab?
In my opinion guys have nowhere near the same standards, there will be guys not into bbw's but they'll more than likely get an offer from one at some point or another & he'll think "fuck it why not" which can be seen as desperate or nice depending on your view of things.
If every guy came on here with the attitude of will only meet fit, in shape, gorgeous women with big tits that don't face south when the bra comes off & a tight pussy, must be dressed in the way WE want you to be dressed, speak how we tell you to speak, not only would no one ever get meets on here but you women would see us as disgusting pigs who don't deserve a meet.
As for the hundreds of mails a day, I think that goes to women's heads as well, I think alot of guys just randomly mail any woman without even looking at the profile, must be a mind set of the more I mail the bigger chance I'll get. I very rarrely mail any woman on here becuase when I do it either gets read & deleted, or just deleted or on many occasions I get abbuse from the women, one woman even said how dare someone like you mail someone who looks like me?
I've seen women on the forums say one thing & pretending to be all nice & a decent person & tell people on the forums that they would never be abusive they just let guys down gently, but I've mailed them & got a very VERY different reply.
Can't remember what I was leading up to or what my point was so I'll end it here
Wow bitter much not bitter at all lol just saying, but if bitter was your 1st opinion what do you think guys think when they read women's profiles like that?"
Sorry it sounds bitter... Not all us normal women are looking for Adonis ..... Tarring with the same brush comes to mind |
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" why do folk try to change everyone to what they percieve as "smart" the style just now for guys is a long way from a pair of trousers polished shoes unless we took a time travelling trip some trackies are way more stylish than your finest saville row suits my advice dress for you if they dont like it so what
although i dont agree that trackies are in anyway smart everyone should wear what they are comfortable in ..some guys just dont suit wearing suits lol they look as if they have court that day lol "
I know someone that does |
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" why do folk try to change everyone to what they percieve as "smart" the style just now for guys is a long way from a pair of trousers polished shoes unless we took a time travelling trip some trackies are way more stylish than your finest saville row suits my advice dress for you if they dont like it so what
although i dont agree that trackies are in anyway smart everyone should wear what they are comfortable in ..some guys just dont suit wearing suits lol they look as if they have court that day lol "
I dont think so either but im not concurrent with what is the in fashion its the amount of folk convinced its suits when the reality of seeing how folk do dress points to a whole different dress sense.my style in clothing is totally different to any percieved norm but I like it and thats enough I wouldnt put folk down for what they like to wear (although I have been known to take the p**s on occasion) and im quite sure the trackie clad folk think folk in a suit are nothing more than folk stuck in the forties. |
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"Do you think it may have something to do with the hundreds of "I'm free now, wanna fuck?" messages they get snowed under? Or the unimaginative/barely there single guy profiles? Or the constant barrage of cock pics, as if they've never seen one before?
Hmm, I have no idea why some won't meet single guys. It's a puzzler.
Yeah but saying that I've not sent something so crude in years and still I get no responses quite often...
No one is owed a response. The FAQs state quite clearly that you should take no response as a not interested.
I was chatting with a girl recently, she opened fab and at the top it showed 142 unread messages. That number changed every time she changed page.
So out of those 142, how many are nice, polite, thought out messages and how many are "wanna fuck?", do we think? What are the chances of your message getting spotted in amongst all that?
Genuine question.
It baffles me that men just don't understand how many messages single women get and the crap they have to through.
Hmm thanks for cutting half my post off and making my post all about what you wanted to talk about "
The rest of your post was about how you're busy but as long as you get regular sex you're fine. Why is that relevant to the discussion? |
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I think it's because if a woman wants a single guy then there not that hard to find. Go to any pub or club you'll find loads.
When on here most of us are looking for more than you'll get down your local.
If so many guys weren't so desperate you'd probably find more girls would start looking for single guys more often xxx |
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By *ndykayMan
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"I think it's because if a woman wants a single guy then there not that hard to find. Go to any pub or club you'll find loads.
When on here most of us are looking for more than you'll get down your local.
If so many guys weren't so desperate you'd probably find more girls would start looking for single guys more often xxx"
And there are plenty to choose from. Guys forget that ladies talk. They soon know the ones to avoid. And occasionally they hear about the one that is intriguing. |
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"And there are plenty to choose from. Guys forget that ladies talk. They soon know the ones to avoid. And occasionally they hear about the one that is intriguing. "
Yep, we all know about the guy who had to announce he had the clap!
And there's an absolutely lovely gent on here that I do recommend to some ladies, he ticks all the boxes |
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