Still quite new to all this but I am thinking of going along to CJ's at one point just to see what it's like.
I would just like to know is if I was to go would it be ok just to go socially and not to play or would you be kinda expected to join in
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Zero pressure, no fun downstairs so you could go and happily enjoy yourself without feeling that you are even in a swinging club tbh
Even upstairs in the rooms you'll be completely fine to just watch and not need to join in on the action... Just don't get trapped in a corner lol
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"Still quite new to all this but I am thinking of going along to CJ's at one point just to see what it's like.
I would just like to know is if I was to go would it be ok just to go socially and not to play or would you be kinda expected to join in
Xx"
I think there is a couple and single ladies only night next weekend... Probably better to go to that than a regular one open to lots of single guys?? Never been myself tho but hey what I've heard from friends. |
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There's a few people who went to old place and never played. Just used it as a place to socialise and meet people. The new place is set up even better for this with a bigger social area downstairs. But if you met someone and were a bit shy being first time or just not keen being in open room there's lockable rooms you can use upstairs |
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"Still quite new to all this but I am thinking of going along to CJ's at one point just to see what it's like.
I would just like to know is if I was to go would it be ok just to go socially and not to play or would you be kinda expected to join in
Xx"
I fancy going along too. Just a bit worried about going myself. Think i'd be happier with a friend |
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I would like to go as well just to see what it is like, I think I would prefer to go socially at first for a few times just to get a feel for the place and see what its like, wasn't impressed with the stories from opening night with single guys taking advantage of power cut and ppl with mobiles,has put me off abit but with mostly good comments about the new place am thinking would like to go just socially with no pressure to see what its like, maybe try the couples and ladies only nights at first and enjoy socially with no pressure as said by bubblegum,
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I'm sure I will enjoy it once I get speaking to some people. I'm always shy at first.
Think I'll go to a couples and fems night fir first time but I doubt I'll make the next one unless I am able to get a babysitter.
When I know when I am going ill post and see what other newbies are going. Why not all you first times get together and go. Then come on here tell me all about it xx |
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"Just found there's another couple and fems night 12th of Dec so ill try and make that one xx"
were going to that one say hello and we will see if we can introduce you to a few people that night
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"Just found there's another couple and fems night 12th of Dec so ill try and make that one xxwere going to that one say hello and we will see if we can introduce you to a few people that night"
That would be great thank you.
Although I'm very much getting more sucked into the sex side of swinging I am really intrested in the social side as well. I was talking to my bf last night and he said he wouldn't drink so he can drive and we don't need a hotel and I'm sure I should be able to get a babysitter so fingers crossed I'll be meet you all soon xxx |
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"Still quite new to all this but I am thinking of going along to CJ's at one point just to see what it's like.
I would just like to know is if I was to go would it be ok just to go socially and not to play or would you be kinda expected to join in
Xx
I fancy going along too. Just a bit worried about going myself. Think i'd be happier with a friend"
I would love to go with u |
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Struggling for a babysitter but if I get one ill be on seeing who's all going on the 12th.
If I don't get a babysitter ill be going another date in the next few weeks ud just prefer it if it was a couples and fems night xx |
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We are in the same position as you as all new to us the club scene was looking to go 21st as couple and female night have been told by friends on here it no pressure just relax and enjoy the night just do what you want do not have to join in. |
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... No pressure to play just company ....maybe 
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