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A question for the girlies, women,fems
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"Do you ever chase guys on here.
Tell them you want to meet and what you want to do before they ask you? "
wouldn't say chase but if I'm attracted to someone I'm not shy in coming forward and making my feelings known to guys that I'd like to meet 
Nothing wrong with being assertive and confident enough to ask for what you want in life
..even if the final outcome is no lol  |
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By *ab fem OP Woman
over a year ago
Ayrshire |
"Do you ever chase guys on here.
Tell them you want to meet and what you want to do before they ask you?
occasionally, after 2 now and have arrange meets with both"
You had a makeover. Your looking hot  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As already said, I wouldn't say "chased" ... but I will mail people if I'm interested...
Don't see the point in waiting to see if they contact you. Worst they can do is say no (or delete lol) ...  "
Yip nowadays, don't wait, just tell how you feel, if he/she don't like, or not interested, no matter it's their loss
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't waste my time chasing guys. Not saying i wouldn't message or wink or fab a photo to let them know i was interested, but if they want me, they can come and get me. |
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"As already said, I wouldn't say "chased" ... but I will mail people if I'm interested...
Don't see the point in waiting to see if they contact you. Worst they can do is say no (or delete lol) ... "
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One Thing for sure, I hardly message looking for a meet. I might message something that they have commented on in their profile or just introducing myself or even if they are stunning but mostly I know girls and couples are inundated by a lot of people messaging them, so I don't usually bother
oh, I know, Violin Time,
LOL
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By (user no longer on site)
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"One Thing for sure, I hardly message looking for a meet. I might message something that they have commented on in their profile or just introducing myself or even if they are stunning but mostly I know girls and couples are inundated by a lot of people messaging them, so I don't usually bother
oh, I know, Violin Time,
LOL
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sorry forgot to say I think a Lot of genuine guys are like that on here
If a Couple state they are not looking for guys even though they have guys on their profile then I never message
it's respect
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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago
Livingston |
"Do you ever chase guys on here.
Tell them you want to meet and what you want to do before they ask you?
occasionally, after 2 now and have arrange meets with both
You had a makeover. Your looking hot "
one of my good days lol xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you ever chase guys on here.
Tell them you want to meet and what you want to do before they ask you?
occasionally, after 2 now and have arrange meets with both"
LOL Wendy
Just Hit them with one of your Videos, If they stay, they will love you forever
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By *ab fem OP Woman
over a year ago
Ayrshire |
How did you two guys sneak in here. I'm sure I set the filters to women only 
Ok chased was the wrong word.
I don't think you should hang around hoping that the type of guy you like will message you.
I'm in the go for it camp |
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I've seen people say before they don't take the initiative and ask for meets for fear if rejection that's pretty sad because like in everyday life were not all going to be attracted to everyone we come into contact with |
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By *ab fem OP Woman
over a year ago
Ayrshire |
"I've seen people say before they don't take the initiative and ask for meets for fear if rejection that's pretty sad because like in everyday life were not all going to be attracted to everyone we come into contact with "
I try not come into contact with people I'm not attracted too |
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
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"How did you two guys sneak in here. I'm sure I set the filters to women only
Ok chased was the wrong word.
I don't think you should hang around hoping that the type of guy you like will message you.
I'm in the go for it camp "
Im good  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"One Thing for sure, I hardly message looking for a meet. I might message something that they have commented on in their profile or just introducing myself or even if they are stunning but mostly I know girls and couples are inundated by a lot of people messaging them, so I don't usually bother
oh, I know, Violin Time,
LOL
sorry forgot to say I think a Lot of genuine guys are like that on here
If a Couple state they are not looking for guys even though they have guys on their profile then I never message
it's respect
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Yep a don't really message people on here anymore  Fabs a rollacoaster most times  |
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When I was single on here I did all the approaching. Saves reading loads of messages from people who you might not be into. Just messaged them to see if they were interested and then met up. It's definitely a lot easier for girls who send messages to get meets than guys. We have a buffet we can choose what we want from. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"One Thing for sure, I hardly message looking for a meet. I might message something that they have commented on in their profile or just introducing myself or even if they are stunning but mostly I know girls and couples are inundated by a lot of people messaging them, so I don't usually bother
oh, I know, Violin Time,
LOL
sorry forgot to say I think a Lot of genuine guys are like that on here
If a Couple state they are not looking for guys even though they have guys on their profile then I never message
it's respect
Yep a don't really message people on here anymore Fabs a rollacoaster most times "
But roller coasters are fun and exciting |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'll wink at someone I'm interested and then they usually message. Never messaged anyone first and never chased, I've no patience for it "
Unblock me please lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'll wink at someone I'm interested and then they usually message. Never messaged anyone first and never chased, I've no patience for it
Unblock me please lol x"
Oh I'm sure there's a reason |
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over a year ago
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"I'll wink at someone I'm interested and then they usually message. Never messaged anyone first and never chased, I've no patience for it
Unblock me please lol x
Oh I'm sure there's a reason "
He is too old for you lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'll wink at someone I'm interested and then they usually message. Never messaged anyone first and never chased, I've no patience for it
Unblock me please lol x
Oh I'm sure there's a reason "
Whatever could that be?? Might go for a round on the golf course later... Hehehe |
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"I'll wink at someone I'm interested and then they usually message. Never messaged anyone first and never chased, I've no patience for it
Unblock me please lol x
Oh I'm sure there's a reason "
there always is  |
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I have tried but I it's hard to find what your looking for when it comes to single men.
Most of them only have cock photos an nothing on there description.
I normaly end up getting bored and giving up xx |
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"I've seen people say before they don't take the initiative and ask for meets for fear if rejection that's pretty sad because like in everyday life were not all going to be attracted to everyone we come into contact with "
I used to be like that but after a random women messaging spree I've had some great responses.
I've had really bad luck with reading and responding to specific profiles to the point i now just skim the bullet points xx |
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