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over a year ago
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Yup. One in particular.
Lied about his age, his marital status etc etc.
Hurts as I really fell for him (my own stupid fault).
Won't be getting that close again.
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over a year ago
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"Yup. One in particular.
Lied about his age, his marital status etc etc.
Hurts as I really fell for him (my own stupid fault).
Won't be getting that close again.
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Yes same here. I got close and gave far too much help. I kept visiting as she was nearby. Around 2 months ago I started to be rejected when I asked for play. got sorry but i'm on meds - no libido or I just got no sex drive atm. She knew if she said to me I'm happier seeing these other folk 2 months ago I'd leave and she'd loose all the things I did for her. Well she got the f off and never contact me again message this morning. I HATE manipulating empty soulless sad pathalogical lying scum SCUM they are..... Where he fuck is my vallium!!! |
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"And, breathe.
It hurts, I know. But just remind yourself that you deserve better. "
The hurt is currently around how I was conned and manipulated. It feels so empowering to have sent the "Never darken my door again" text. I will find better, Thanks for your kind words, |
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"This is one of the reasons many won't meet with fuck buddies, seen a lot go wrong and it's something we take a wide berth with.
Nothing as do fickle as folk ."
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over a year ago
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"Yup. One in particular.
Lied about his age, his marital status etc etc.
Hurts as I really fell for him (my own stupid fault).
Won't be getting that close again.
Yes same here. I got close and gave far too much help. I kept visiting as she was nearby. Around 2 months ago I started to be rejected when I asked for play. got sorry but i'm on meds - no libido or I just got no sex drive atm. She knew if she said to me I'm happier seeing these other folk 2 months ago I'd leave and she'd loose all the things I did for her. Well she got the f off and never contact me again message this morning. I HATE manipulating empty soulless sad pathalogical lying scum SCUM they are..... Where he fuck is my vallium!!!"
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"One thing Fab has taught me, is how people can change dramatically over a short period of time. Become a totally different person.
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Maybe it's that sometimes the people you think you know are a "different person" and then revert to true type. |
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"One thing Fab has taught me, is how people can change dramatically over a short period of time. Become a totally different person.
Maybe it's that sometimes the people you think you know are a "different person" and then revert to true type. "
True colours will always come out.  |
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"One thing Fab has taught me, is how people can change dramatically over a short period of time. Become a totally different person.
Maybe it's that sometimes the people you think you know are a "different person" and then revert to true type. "
We all to a degree put a public personality on which is different to what we share like with close ones or family. Most folk of good character dont vary that much but its the confidence tricksters who really act or change personality like a chameleon for each different person that are the ones to watch. Its called mirroring in pscycology. Pscycopaths/sociopaths/histronic types are the most skilled at this. |
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"One thing Fab has taught me, is how people can change dramatically over a short period of time. Become a totally different person.
Maybe it's that sometimes the people you think you know are a "different person" and then revert to true type.
We all to a degree put a public personality on which is different to what we share like with close ones or family. Most folk of good character dont vary that much but its the confidence tricksters who really act or change personality like a chameleon for each different person that are the ones to watch. Its called mirroring in pscycology. Pscycopaths/sociopaths/histronic types are the most skilled at this. "
I have spoke before on here about sociopaths and they do exists on fab for sure |
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"One thing Fab has taught me, is how people can change dramatically over a short period of time. Become a totally different person.
Maybe it's that sometimes the people you think you know are a "different person" and then revert to true type.
We all to a degree put a public personality on which is different to what we share like with close ones or family. Most folk of good character dont vary that much but its the confidence tricksters who really act or change personality like a chameleon for each different person that are the ones to watch. Its called mirroring in pscycology. Pscycopaths/sociopaths/histronic types are the most skilled at this. I have spoke before on here about sociopaths and they do exists on fab for sure "
I was in a relationship (long distance) for 2 years with a sociopathic woman.It took me years to recover. If you want to protect yourself and be able to spot them read "Without a Concience - The disturbing world of the pscycopaths among us by Robert Hare. |
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"One thing Fab has taught me, is how people can change dramatically over a short period of time. Become a totally different person.
Maybe it's that sometimes the people you think you know are a "different person" and then revert to true type.
We all to a degree put a public personality on which is different to what we share like with close ones or family. Most folk of good character dont vary that much but its the confidence tricksters who really act or change personality like a chameleon for each different person that are the ones to watch. Its called mirroring in pscycology. Pscycopaths/sociopaths/histronic types are the most skilled at this. I have spoke before on here about sociopaths and they do exists on fab for sure
I was in a relationship (long distance) for 2 years with a sociopathic woman.It took me years to recover. If you want to protect yourself and be able to spot them read "Without a Concience - The disturbing world of the pscycopaths among us by Robert Hare."
oh Im fully aware of what they are capable of very dangerous people |
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"One thing Fab has taught me, is how people can change dramatically over a short period of time. Become a totally different person.
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Has Life in general not taught you that ....Surely ?
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"Yup. One in particular.
Lied about his age, his marital status etc etc.
Hurts as I really fell for him (my own stupid fault).
Won't be getting that close again.
Had exact happen to me knew I was stupid but sometimes these things happen and u fall to deep we r only human I suppose. Onwards and upwards they say xx
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Yes lots of liars on here but the wife doesn't mind those guys who lie through their back teeth to get inside her knickers. As long as gets fucked she's happy. |
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"One thing Fab has taught me, is how people can change dramatically over a short period of time. Become a totally different person.
Maybe it's that sometimes the people you think you know are a "different person" and then revert to true type.
True colours will always come out. "
True colours are already beginning to shine through with a friend. Way too many coincidences. Been made to feel as if I'm totally stupid which encourages them to lie more & become distant cuz they know I'm aware of the crap that comes from their mouth. |
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It's obviously going to happen when you get so many guys & women on here pretending to be someone they're not just to get people to like them so they get meets.
It's a big problem with fab & always will be, people need to be more like me & not give a rat's arse what people on this think about them & stop pretending to be things they're not just to impress people who are probably the biggest fake on here.
As for the getting hurt, why is anyone getting hurt? Fwb, fuck buds, NSA, aren't all these so people don't get hurt? If your daft enough to get attached to someone when it's just meant to be fun then maybe need to rethink being on a site like this?  |
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