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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I didn't see a thread like this but there was one with the same name on a forum I used to be a part of, so figured it might go down well here also. Feel free to comment and/or share similar stories of EmoRage!
So I met a girl on POF and she seemed really into meeting me, so instead of becoming ePenPals I elected to meet for a social quickly. We had a Skype first and had a lot of laughs so it seemed the logical choice. Anyway that was Wednesday. We went for an actual date on Friday and had a nice meal, went for ice cream at an awesome place after then I gave her the choice of being dropped off at hers or coming to mine. She excitedly chose coming to mine but insisted there would be "no funny business" anyway back to mine we went, had a bit of wine and put on (and consequently ignored) a film. More insistence that we would not be having any form of sex by her thought, which I was honestly fine with. Anyway, few more hours pass and we inevitable end up in bed together and have some pretty good sex, then morning rolls around and she's all off with me. I brush it off as she's just not entirely happy she's gone all the way on the first date and think no more of it. Fast forward and she's being really disrespectful via text etc, calling me a faggot and saying I'm shit in bed, then she gets d*unk and tells me she loves me and wants to (and I quote) suck my cock till I scream! Anyway, I ignore most of that and just say I'll see her the next day when she's not d*unk. Next day comes and she texts calling me a faggot again so I just bin the number and block her. Next thing I get a text from her friend saying I'm horrible and she's crying, and I can't treat her like that: she deserves to know what she's done wrong!!
Did I miss the point, or am I dealing with some other issues not of my doing!? Was I right to try to salvage self respect and remove her from my life, or was hat incredibly harsh? |
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"could have been worse.....at least you ended it before she went supernova melt down crazy and tried attacking you with a sharp object  "
she did it was called her tongue lol
But seriously there are lots like that even on here so be careful when meeting that goes for guys and fems... Some headcases about  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"She's a nut job. Block, forget and move on.
It's women like her that give the rest of us single girls a bad name."
If your looking for nutters then there's plenty on POF !!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lady's.......this is my opinion and I'd say yeah the same goes for guys too.
Do lady's not like a guy that makes a point of not trying it on the first date? X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah things happen in the heat of moment ect and if your just after a bit of fun then yeah kl
I thought we were on about this guy looking for a life partner (outside of the fab swingers bubble)
If a person puts out in the first date. How many first dates have they had ect? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If your looking for a proper relationship a lady that "puts out" on the first date isn't a keeper and. And pof is just like fab these days x"
Must be why im single then ... Im clearly not a keeper   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yeah things happen in the heat of moment ect and if your just after a bit of fun then yeah kl
I thought we were on about this guy looking for a life partner (outside of the fab swingers bubble)
If a person puts out in the first date. How many first dates have they had ect? "
Just because you have sex on one first date does not mean you have sex on them all  or that you go on lots of dates
And maybe the op would like a life partner who would also enjoy the swinging lifestyle and they dont need to be mutually exclusive ... Stop being so presumptious
Its not black and white, swinging or love there can be a crossover... Or are you in the group that think girls who date are good girls and girls who can handle something casual must he bad news for anything more than that? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lady's.......this is my opinion and I'd say yeah the same goes for guys too.
Do lady's not like a guy that makes a point of not trying it on the first date? X"
Omg remind me to tell you about my first 'date' with Tall (in a hotel room - no actual date) ... Here we are 6.5 years later  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Get out of there as fast as your legs will allow mate.
And don't bother trying it on with her pal either as therein lies more danger.
Move on. Block. And good luck! |
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"could have been worse.....at least you ended it before she went supernova melt down crazy and tried attacking you with a sharp object she did it was called her tongue lol
But seriously there are lots like that even on here so be careful when meeting that goes for guys and fems... Some headcases about "
it was better for her to say something though instead of do something worse like give the op a kick/punch in the nuts or something worse as some women do stuff like that when they go psycho...
worst case scenario she might stalk the OP now and he has an admirer/hater for life who is constantly following him and his life around.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yeah things happen in the heat of moment ect and if your just after a bit of fun then yeah kl
I thought we were on about this guy looking for a life partner (outside of the fab swingers bubble)
If a person puts out in the first date. How many first dates have they had ect?
Just because you have sex on one first date does not mean you have sex on them all or that you go on lots of dates
And maybe the op would like a life partner who would also enjoy the swinging lifestyle and they dont need to be mutually exclusive ... Stop being so presumptious
Its not black and white, swinging or love there can be a crossover... Or are you in the group that think girls who date are good girls and girls who can handle something casual must he bad news for anything more than that? "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lady's.......this is my opinion and I'd say yeah the same goes for guys too.
Do lady's not like a guy that makes a point of not trying it on the first date? X
Omg remind me to tell you about my first 'date' with Tall (in a hotel room - no actual date) ... Here we are 6.5 years later "
Was that a date or an arranged fun? Haha. You guys are like great together plus he's above 6ft haha x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I met a woman from here last year who I spoke to almost every night on KIK, we had a lot of meets through her asking me to meet her, then 1 day out the blue she texts me with abuse saying I just don't do it for her & blah blah blah anyway I told her fine then don't mail me again & get over it, the next night she was mailing me as if we were best mates??
For the past few months I've been getting abuse 1 night from her then being my best mate then wanting to have sex, the other night I just found out I can block her on KIK so I have finally rid myself from her I just hope she doesn't rejoin here coz she is a psycho |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I met a woman from here last year who I spoke to almost every night on KIK, we had a lot of meets through her asking me to meet her, then 1 day out the blue she texts me with abuse saying I just don't do it for her & blah blah blah anyway I told her fine then don't mail me again & get over it, the next night she was mailing me as if we were best mates??
For the past few months I've been getting abuse 1 night from her then being my best mate then wanting to have sex, the other night I just found out I can block her on KIK so I have finally rid myself from her I just hope she doesn't rejoin here coz she is a psycho"
Maybe the same person lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I met a woman from here last year who I spoke to almost every night on KIK, we had a lot of meets through her asking me to meet her, then 1 day out the blue she texts me with abuse saying I just don't do it for her & blah blah blah anyway I told her fine then don't mail me again & get over it, the next night she was mailing me as if we were best mates??
For the past few months I've been getting abuse 1 night from her then being my best mate then wanting to have sex, the other night I just found out I can block her on KIK so I have finally rid myself from her I just hope she doesn't rejoin here coz she is a psycho
Maybe the same person lol x"
doubt it but maybe |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lady's.......this is my opinion and I'd say yeah the same goes for guys too.
Do lady's not like a guy that makes a point of not trying it on the first date? X
Omg remind me to tell you about my first 'date' with Tall (in a hotel room - no actual date) ... Here we are 6.5 years later
Was that a date or an arranged fun? Haha. You guys are like great together plus he's above 6ft haha x"
It was our first liaison on a personal level. No date, no drinks - straight to the bedroom |
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By (user no longer on site)
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But really where is the art of getting to know someone who may be a potential life partner without taking them to bed and finding out the next day they're a fruit cake?
I've always dated a good few times before even getting intimate with anyone, be it an online dating thing (just once I've done that, never again lol) or someone I've met elsewhere.
Swinging fits for me because I won't commit to another knobhead for as long as I live |
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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago
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She sounds like a keeper block her completely on your phone and her friend. She's hard work. I wouldn't reply to any messages it will only cause more problems.
I believe in waiting to have sex if your dating. I don't see anything wrong with people having one night stands, I've never been interested in them personally. I would prefer to wait so I get to know them first. Poor Mr had to wait three months but it was worth it in the end.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sounds like Antisocial Personality Disorder. Emotional vampires. They will entrap you with sex then slowly destroy you. Then turn around and call you crazy and if possible tell all your mates what a wife beater you are. I just dumped one just similar this morning. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Tell her friend you aren't there for her to vent her rage at. 
Then ask the friend out haha"
Extreme rage is part of the diagnostic criteria for a personality disordered person - Used to be called sociopaths/pscycopaths. Run away very fast and never lookk back. If one is of a particular personality like people pleaser or low self esteem they can become very addictive. Folk like this are addicted to creating dramas. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I didn't see a thread like this but there was one with the same name on a forum I used to be a part of, so figured it might go down well here also. Feel free to comment and/or share similar stories of EmoRage!
So I met a girl on POF and she seemed really into meeting me, so instead of becoming ePenPals I elected to meet for a social quickly. We had a Skype first and had a lot of laughs so it seemed the logical choice. Anyway that was Wednesday. We went for an actual date on Friday and had a nice meal, went for ice cream at an awesome place after then I gave her the choice of being dropped off at hers or coming to mine. She excitedly chose coming to mine but insisted there would be "no funny business" anyway back to mine we went, had a bit of wine and put on (and consequently ignored) a film. More insistence that we would not be having any form of sex by her thought, which I was honestly fine with. Anyway, few more hours pass and we inevitable end up in bed together and have some pretty good sex, then morning rolls around and she's all off with me. I brush it off as she's just not entirely happy she's gone all the way on the first date and think no more of it. Fast forward and she's being really disrespectful via text etc, calling me a faggot and saying I'm shit in bed, then she gets d*unk and tells me she loves me and wants to (and I quote) suck my cock till I scream! Anyway, I ignore most of that and just say I'll see her the next day when she's not d*unk. Next day comes and she texts calling me a faggot again so I just bin the number and block her. Next thing I get a text from her friend saying I'm horrible and she's crying, and I can't treat her like that: she deserves to know what she's done wrong!!
Did I miss the point, or am I dealing with some other issues not of my doing!? Was I right to try to salvage self respect and remove her from my life, or was hat incredibly harsh? "
PMSL Marry This Girls, She Is A Keeper.
Although You Never Heard This From Me
lol, Brilliant
I've had two stalkers and I won't really be going into the situations on here.
Carry On, Wonder If I'll get an invite to the wedding
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Yeah things happen in the heat of moment ect and if your just after a bit of fun then yeah kl
I thought we were on about this guy looking for a life partner (outside of the fab swingers bubble)
If a person puts out in the first date. How many first dates have they had ect?
Just because you have sex on one first date does not mean you have sex on them all or that you go on lots of dates
And maybe the op would like a life partner who would also enjoy the swinging lifestyle and they dont need to be mutually exclusive ... Stop being so presumptious
Its not black and white, swinging or love there can be a crossover... Or are you in the group that think girls who date are good girls and girls who can handle something casual must he bad news for anything more than that? "
In fairness the second I was in a relationship I'd probably deactivate on here. Unless she was of the mindset that we could be on as a couple.... But other than that I would respect exclusivity. I would like to think that this is a fairly common _iewpoint from singles on Fab. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I met a woman from here last year who I spoke to almost every night on KIK, we had a lot of meets through her asking me to meet her, then 1 day out the blue she texts me with abuse saying I just don't do it for her & blah blah blah anyway I told her fine then don't mail me again & get over it, the next night she was mailing me as if we were best mates??
For the past few months I've been getting abuse 1 night from her then being my best mate then wanting to have sex, the other night I just found out I can block her on KIK so I have finally rid myself from her I just hope she doesn't rejoin here coz she is a psycho"
Nightmare man! Though it does make me feel better knowing this isn't a completely uncommon occurrence! I'm pretty sure I didn't do anything to deserve the abuse but you always wonder when it happens if maybe you have, in fact, been a magnificent wallopper and not realised! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"But really where is the art of getting to know someone who may be a potential life partner without taking them to bed and finding out the next day they're a fruit cake?
I've always dated a good few times before even getting intimate with anyone, be it an online dating thing (just once I've done that, never again lol) or someone I've met elsewhere.
Swinging fits for me because I won't commit to another knobhead for as long as I live "
To be honest: ending up in the bedroom wasn't part of some elaborate plan, it just kinda happened. The first night we were together for a kind of mini date we chatted for about for hours, so I guess this could have been counted as second date. And we didn't actually go to bed until around 3am, after me picking her up at 7 and going for dinner etc.
I do wonder if jumping into bed was the mistake and she's got all annoyed that she's done it, and consequently wanted to make me out to be the douche-nozzle instead. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Tell her friend you aren't there for her to vent her rage at.
Then ask the friend out haha
Extreme rage is part of the diagnostic criteria for a personality disordered person - Used to be called sociopaths/pscycopaths. Run away very fast and never lookk back. If one is of a particular personality like people pleaser or low self esteem they can become very addictive. Folk like this are addicted to creating dramas. "
Oh dear! Ok well if you've just gone through that then it's advice well received! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I met a woman from here last year who I spoke to almost every night on KIK, we had a lot of meets through her asking me to meet her, then 1 day out the blue she texts me with abuse saying I just don't do it for her & blah blah blah anyway I told her fine then don't mail me again & get over it, the next night she was mailing me as if we were best mates??
For the past few months I've been getting abuse 1 night from her then being my best mate then wanting to have sex, the other night I just found out I can block her on KIK so I have finally rid myself from her I just hope she doesn't rejoin here coz she is a psycho
Nightmare man! Though it does make me feel better knowing this isn't a completely uncommon occurrence! I'm pretty sure I didn't do anything to deserve the abuse but you always wonder when it happens if maybe you have, in fact, been a magnificent wallopper and not realised!"
I deffo wasn't a walloper lol she just turned, |
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By (user no longer on site)
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In fairness the second I was in a relationship I'd probably deactivate on here. Unless she was of the mindset that we could be on as a couple.... But other than that I would respect exclusivity. I would like to think that this is a fairly common _iewpoint from singles on Fab. "
So basically your saying you wouldnt cheat .... Not sure where i was encouraging cheating in my post
Was just pointing out that fab and relationships dont need to be one or the other (if your both into it) and having sex with someone after a first date does not actually make you 'not a keeper' |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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In fairness the second I was in a relationship I'd probably deactivate on here. Unless she was of the mindset that we could be on as a couple.... But other than that I would respect exclusivity. I would like to think that this is a fairly common _iewpoint from singles on Fab.
So basically your saying you wouldnt cheat .... Not sure where i was encouraging cheating in my post
Was just pointing out that fab and relationships dont need to be one or the other (if your both into it) and having sex with someone after a first date does not actually make you 'not a keeper' "
I tend to agree. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Arguing with a Woman ..Is like reading a Software License Agreement...Half way thru it and you end up ignoring it ..and then just Click .." I Agree "
Theres far too many Drama Queens ..So just block her and get her tae feck .
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