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over a year ago
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"Been meeting a guy for a few weeks now and he's just messaged to ask for exclusivity. Doesn't want a relationship just wants me to only meet him.
Has this happened to anyone else"
Cake and Eat it springs to mind . Lol |
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Some people it works for but I'd say that's because it's happened naturally and it's the same for both parties. I think if someone asks for it then it's unlikely to ever work x |
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over a year ago
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He just might be asking all girls the same thing...I guess if you like him OP you will already know your next move...Nike trainers on and run quicker than Usian Bolt  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Been meeting a guy for a few weeks now and he's just messaged to ask for exclusivity. Doesn't want a relationship just wants me to only meet him.
Has this happened to anyone else"
Yes, it's happened, told him to do one  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Been here twice. One couldnt handle seeing other verifications from other people. Called it cheating on him.
Ask just to see him. That isnt the point of being a swinger.
The other left here happy to just meet myself. Stuck to it but Harley see each other now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"He maintains I'm the only one he's meeting and that he's hardly on here. Already told him I have other friends I like to meet both socially and for fun.
Then there is your answer  "
That's a good answer to  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Been here twice. One couldnt handle seeing other verifications from other people. Called it cheating on him.
Ask just to see him. That isnt the point of being a swinger.
The other left here happy to just meet myself. Stuck to it but Harley see each other now."
Bloody heck my mind confuddled that's a good answer to
I think my answer would be.we met on a swinging site.if you want exclusivity then takes it out of a swinging domain and puts it in a monogamous relationship.which 60percent of the time does not work with a swinging lifestyle.so thank you for the compliment but I'm a swinger and we not compatible.....thats just my take on it ha  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Been meeting a guy for a few weeks now and he's just messaged to ask for exclusivity. Doesn't want a relationship just wants me to only meet him.
Has this happened to anyone else"
yep ... and it never went down well when i said no .. especially since im pretty sure it was only going to be exclusive in one direction  |
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
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"Been meeting a guy for a few weeks now and he's just messaged to ask for exclusivity. Doesn't want a relationship just wants me to only meet him.
Has this happened to anyone else
yep ... and it never went down well when i said no .. especially since im pretty sure it was only going to be exclusive in one direction "
Hmmmmm I'm pretty sure you're right there |
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"Been meeting a guy for a few weeks now and he's just messaged to ask for exclusivity. Doesn't want a relationship just wants me to only meet him.
Has this happened to anyone else"
No as it states clearly on my profile what Im looking for.
But on here so many say they aint looking for it when their actions prove otherwise. |
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
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"Like it or lump it there are feelings there its entirely your choice how to proceed. The worst thing you could do is say nothing will only cause angst"
I agree, you need to say either way and quickly. Don't leave him hanging |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Sounds like the controlling type, probably best to avoid a full on relationship with him as it looks like it will only go one way (in our opinion)
To want to have that much say over somebody you are not, or don't want to be, in a relationship with isn't healthy
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Been meeting a guy for a few weeks now and he's just messaged to ask for exclusivity. Doesn't want a relationship just wants me to only meet him.
Has this happened to anyone else
yep ... and it never went down well when i said no .. especially since im pretty sure it was only going to be exclusive in one direction "
The pretty lady has got it spot on
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's not uncommon to meet someone and then decide your only going to play together, but from my experience I would say that then leads to emotions building up,which is fantastic if it is both what you want but not of its going to end in tears.
Has he suggested you meet other cpls/woman/men together? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Been here twice. One couldnt handle seeing other verifications from other people. Called it cheating on him.
Ask just to see him. That isnt the point of being a swinger.
The other left here happy to just meet myself. Stuck to it but Harley see each other now.
Bloody heck my mind confuddled that's a good answer to
I think my answer would be.we met on a swinging site.if you want exclusivity then takes it out of a swinging domain and puts it in a monogamous relationship.which 60percent of the time does not work with a swinging lifestyle.so thank you for the compliment but I'm a swinger and we not compatible.....thats just my take on it ha "
I agree with this... It doesn't work for most, good luck xxx |
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"Been meeting a guy for a few weeks now and he's just messaged to ask for exclusivity. Doesn't want a relationship just wants me to only meet him.
Has this happened to anyone else"
No way ... unless u are both free to have a relationship and both want one ....just say no lass!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Been meeting a guy for a few weeks now and he's just messaged to ask for exclusivity. Doesn't want a relationship just wants me to only meet him.
Has this happened to anyone else"
Seriously
I don't even know what the point in mentioning this. You know yourself what the answer is.
he's wanting his cake and bet he intends to eat tons of it
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"Been meeting a guy for a few weeks now and he's just messaged to ask for exclusivity. Doesn't want a relationship just wants me to only meet him.
Has this happened to anyone else
Seriously
I don't even know what the point in mentioning this. You know yourself what the answer is.
he's wanting his cake and bet he intends to eat tons of it
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Interesting that this is what a lot of the men are saying... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"He just might be asking all girls the same thing...I guess if you like him OP you will already know your next move...Nike trainers on and run quicker than Usian Bolt "
Usain Bolt wears Puma |
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"Been meeting a guy for a few weeks now and he's just messaged to ask for exclusivity. Doesn't want a relationship just wants me to only meet him.
Has this happened to anyone else"
I've had this happen more than a few times and it becomes a bit annoying.
Just gotta be quite blunt and make sure there's no room for any misunderstanding.
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