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By *andA OP Couple
over a year ago
glasgow |
We advertised for a single guy the other night, for the first time ever, and got a fair number of replies (more than we expected).
Anyway, we took the time to reply to them all, most we just used a copy and paste reply we'd types up but for a couple of others who had sent a reasonably long message we typed up an individual reply. We've since had over 2 dozen replies thanking us for taking the time to reply to them and not a single nasty post.
Just thought it would be nice to put that out there as it seems to be more common to see single guys getting it in the neck (sometimes even for daring to look at a profile lol) |
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By *MD47Man
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"We advertised for a single guy the other night, for the first time ever, and got a fair number of replies (more than we expected).
Anyway, we took the time to reply to them all, most we just used a copy and paste reply we'd types up but for a couple of others who had sent a reasonably long message we typed up an individual reply. We've since had over 2 dozen replies thanking us for taking the time to reply to them and not a single nasty post.
Just thought it would be nice to put that out there as it seems to be more common to see single guys getting it in the neck (sometimes even for daring to look at a profile lol)"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That is very reassuring to hear after a few recent messages on here. Not all single males are brainless knobs but the few that are make it difficult for the others "
I think the few that are make it easier for the good guys to stand out
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"We advertised for a single guy the other night, for the first time ever, and got a fair number of replies (more than we expected).
Anyway, we took the time to reply to them all, most we just used a copy and paste reply we'd types up but for a couple of others who had sent a reasonably long message we typed up an individual reply. We've since had over 2 dozen replies thanking us for taking the time to reply to them and not a single nasty post.
Just thought it would be nice to put that out there as it seems to be more common to see single guys getting it in the neck (sometimes even for daring to look at a profile lol)"
Good post, and worthy of mention. Fair play to you guys for taking the trouble to post a positive thread about single guys. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are indeed some lovely people here, male AND female and they are much more worthy of a mention than the disrespectful, rude ones who only let themselves down.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That is very reassuring to hear after a few recent messages on here. Not all single males are brainless knobs but the few that are make it difficult for the others
I think the few that are make it easier for the good guys to stand out
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A couple of lasses I've been chatting to that get abusive/rude messages(not from me  )agree with this.
I ain't no Dostoyevsky but can string a sentence together.....n take a kb with dignity!lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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More thanks for taking the time to post about your positive attitude towards this. It's really nice to know that the respect we surely all want can be a healthy two-way thing, without prior prejudices |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Speaking as a single male of 50 when i send a msg to a cpl always be polite and with a bit of luck you may be lucky to meet ...even for a coffee
Great thread btw
Willie |
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"That is very reassuring to hear after a few recent messages on here. Not all single males are brainless knobs but the few that are make it difficult for the others
I think the few that are make it easier for the good guys to stand out
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That's putting a very positive spin on it, well done |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"We advertised for a single guy the other night, for the first time ever, and got a fair number of replies (more than we expected).
Anyway, we took the time to reply to them all, most we just used a copy and paste reply we'd types up but for a couple of others who had sent a reasonably long message we typed up an individual reply. We've since had over 2 dozen replies thanking us for taking the time to reply to them and not a single nasty post.
Just thought it would be nice to put that out there as it seems to be more common to see single guys getting it in the neck (sometimes even for daring to look at a profile lol)"
It is no coincidence that you did not get negative replies as you portray positivity. The ranty, ranty people will attract negativity and they never seem to connect the 2.
There is a relationship between how you conduct yourself and how others interact with you. There will be the exception but on the whole, I stand by that.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We advertised for a single guy the other night, for the first time ever, and got a fair number of replies (more than we expected).
Anyway, we took the time to reply to them all, most we just used a copy and paste reply we'd types up but for a couple of others who had sent a reasonably long message we typed up an individual reply. We've since had over 2 dozen replies thanking us for taking the time to reply to them and not a single nasty post.
Just thought it would be nice to put that out there as it seems to be more common to see single guys getting it in the neck (sometimes even for daring to look at a profile lol)"
well said but to be fair some of us single guys are chunts  |
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"We advertised for a single guy the other night, for the first time ever, and got a fair number of replies (more than we expected).
Anyway, we took the time to reply to them all, most we just used a copy and paste reply we'd types up but for a couple of others who had sent a reasonably long message we typed up an individual reply. We've since had over 2 dozen replies thanking us for taking the time to reply to them and not a single nasty post.
Just thought it would be nice to put that out there as it seems to be more common to see single guys getting it in the neck (sometimes even for daring to look at a profile lol)
It is no coincidence that you did not get negative replies as you portray positivity. The ranty, ranty people will attract negativity and they never seem to connect the 2.
There is a relationship between how you conduct yourself and how others interact with you. There will be the exception but on the whole, I stand by that.
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spot on _iew |
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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago
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In a way I find threads about how single guys can be nice quite condescending to them.
Of course single guys can be nice. Just the same way single women and couples can be nice too.
Yes there is the odd arse but that's the same with couples and fems.
We're all grown up and by our age should know you get good people and not so nice people in the world whether it's a man or a woman |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Read This Post and wow, its great to see so many Girls/Couples being nice about Guys.
(There are timewasters,assholes and egits on here but it's something we all have to deal with.)
But reading this post, It gives me confidence to finally pluck up the courage to message people, just to say Hiya
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"Read This Post and wow, its great to see so many Girls/Couples being nice about Guys.
(There are timewasters,assholes and egits on here but it's something we all have to deal with.)
But reading this post, It gives me confidence to finally pluck up the courage to message people, just to say Hiya
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we're waiting lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I guess it's good to get some positive feedback on the whole. I may start messaging again. A few of the replies I got early on we're a bit negative but hey seem to have been from people who are no longer on the site and were new themselves. Perhaps these are the ones to avoid as they don't hang about or take part in the forums etc so they have no skin in the game, so-to-speak. |
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By *omaMan
over a year ago
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Straight delete of my messages or no replies go with the territory on here. . . When I do get a reply from couples or single females I always thank them for their response. Manners cost nothing so it's good to acknowledge that.
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In just a few days of allowing single guys to message I got loads of what I would call nasty ones and it was very clear they never read my subject heading never mind my profile.
I was getting things like " wow you look a right slut" or " want me to cum over your arse". There was a few nice guys but I was getting so many from people that I wasn't looking for I've had to block them and I'll now go find who I'm looking for. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In just a few days of allowing single guys to message I got loads of what I would call nasty ones and it was very clear they never read my subject heading never mind my profile.
I was getting things like " wow you look a right slut" or " want me to cum over your arse". There was a few nice guys but I was getting so many from people that I wasn't looking for I've had to block them and I'll now go find who I'm looking for. Xx"
Thats a good option
Good luck x
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In just a few days of allowing single guys to message I got loads of what I would call nasty ones and it was very clear they never read my subject heading never mind my profile.
I was getting things like " wow you look a right slut" or " want me to cum over your arse". There was a few nice guys but I was getting so many from people that I wasn't looking for I've had to block them and I'll now go find who I'm looking for. Xx"
Yeah that runs it for the rest of us! I think also setting the filters to "doesn't want to hear from newbies" might help with that somewhat. Should remove the casual users who join for kicks then delete a few days later. People who have been on longer than a week SHOULD have an online personality/reputation that they might be more willing to protect by behaving. |
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"In just a few days of allowing single guys to message I got loads of what I would call nasty ones and it was very clear they never read my subject heading never mind my profile.
I was getting things like " wow you look a right slut" or " want me to cum over your arse". There was a few nice guys but I was getting so many from people that I wasn't looking for I've had to block them and I'll now go find who I'm looking for. Xx
Yeah that runs it for the rest of us! I think also setting the filters to "doesn't want to hear from newbies" might help with that somewhat. Should remove the casual users who join for kicks then delete a few days later. People who have been on longer than a week SHOULD have an online personality/reputation that they might be more willing to protect by behaving."
I might try the removing newbies and see where that goes. Thanks for the suggestion xx |
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