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The wonderful world of fab
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Has it been all you expected it to be?
Exceeded what you expected?
Or has it been a big let down?
For me I've had an incredible journey on here making many amazing friends and a few enemies along the way too lol.
But my overall time on here has been brilliant fun and long may that continue for as long as I stay here.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I first joined it was amazing. There was a real sense of community and I made lots of friends.
The dynamics have changed. More trolls and a different attitude has caused a shift.
I am not nearly as involved as I once was. Such a pity |
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"When I first joined it was amazing. There was a real sense of community and I made lots of friends "
I agree about the community aspect and to a certain degree it's still there amongst some members  |
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
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"When I first joined it was amazing. There was a real sense of community and I made lots of friends I agree about the community aspect and to a certain degree it's still there amongst some members "
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When we were more involved at beginning we had some great times ...made a few mistakes and learned a lot about ourselves. These days we dip in and out as life is busy, I don't think the scenes changed as such more evolved as the interenet gets bigger.
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"When we were more involved at beginning we had some great times ...made a few mistakes and learned a lot about ourselves. These days we dip in and out as life is busy, I don't think the scenes changed as such more evolved as the interenet gets bigger.
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totally agree the sites the exact same as it's always been it's the people on it that's brought about many of the changes in the swinging scene. |
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"When we were more involved at beginning we had some great times ...made a few mistakes and learned a lot about ourselves. These days we dip in and out as life is busy, I don't think the scenes changed as such more evolved as the interenet gets bigger.
totally agree the sites the exact same as it's always been it's the people on it that's brought about many of the changes in the swinging scene. "
People come and go which change the dynamics of some groups .
The site has more people than it did a few years back.
But I do think people focus too much on their own groups, the forum regulars, the social regulars etc etc the site is so much more bigger than these groups, |
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"When we were more involved at beginning we had some great times ...made a few mistakes and learned a lot about ourselves. These days we dip in and out as life is busy, I don't think the scenes changed as such more evolved as the interenet gets bigger.
totally agree the sites the exact same as it's always been it's the people on it that's brought about many of the changes in the swinging scene.
People come and go which change the dynamics of some groups .
The site has more people than it did a few years back.
But I do think people focus too much on their own groups, the forum regulars, the social regulars etc etc the site is so much more bigger than these groups,"
yeah totally agree with you.. Most of my activities on here do not involve forum or chat regulars... Well except socials that is  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In the early years fab provided many moments of fun, laughs and sexual experiences.
As was mentioned above the dynamics have changed and sadly not for the better but in general it has been fantastic and very educational! |
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For me, another way I looked at this question was;
If Fab was no more, would I miss it?
And having spent most of this year off the site, the answer is yes.
Like most things in life, this is a great place if you have the right attitude toward it, patience and are willing to put in the effort.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I came across fab out the blue. It's not perfect but that's due to geography rather than site function in my opinion. We should just get all the swingers to move to one city then it would be awesome  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Since joining I have had highs and lows but mostly a positive experience. I keep coming back so +ve outweigh -ve. It's all about expectations and you get what you add and contribute so I am happy to be part of this site and what it offers. |
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"I came across fab out the blue. It's not perfect but that's due to geography rather than site function in my opinion. We should just get all the swingers to move to one city then it would be awesome "
Which is why I've started arranging drinks nights, trying to get to know people in and around the area. We'll never be on a par size wise with Glasgow or Edinburgh, but there's a decent enough community here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's had it's moments for sure. Been some very memorable nights out/meets/after parties.... We've got some great friends who started off as fab friends but now are more.
Keep it fun and it pays rewards. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have mixed feelings. Not had a meet but I expected that being a young single male. I've been sent to strangers doors a couple times who questioned why I was there. But the people in the forums are a good laugh but i'm sticking it out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People come and go, I have met some cool folk on here, but if we had a county type room,would be a lot better.
But there are a few who don't like to have the newbie in there gang, and rather than help or mentor into the kinda members that would help keep the status quo, they jump all over them, cause a divide and thus ironically break up any chance of the "old fab" or the "good ol days" coming back. Kinda poetic really |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In my time here so far,I've met and spoken to some lovely people....had a great laugh for the most part and even had one or two awesome meets...and one or two that went nowhere lol.
Had my innocent wee eyes opened a couple of times as well......it's been fun n interesting for me! |
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By *awk3y3Man
over a year ago
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Fab is what you make it, people use it differently and will get different experiences....
For me personally keep it fun, don't take it too seriously and it's an addition to my real life not part of it....
Xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When I first joined it was amazing. There was a real sense of community and I made lots of friends.
The dynamics have changed. More trolls and a different attitude has caused a shift.
I am not nearly as involved as I once was. Such a pity "
This sums up my experience here too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's been a whirlwind year got known by a couple of people really good people had some fun times made some huge mistakes had my boundaries pushed my ideas challenged and occasionally got very annoyed at some people but it's been an amazing journey |
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"It's been a whirlwind year got known by a couple of people really good people had some fun times made some huge mistakes had my boundaries pushed my ideas challenged and occasionally got very annoyed at some people but it's been an amazing journey"
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