My comment may come across as strange considering the type of site we are on but I find hotels for a quick play a bit seedy especially if it's the 1st time. Weekends away now that's a different story ?? |
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Think i agree a hotel for a quick meet is a bit much..After a few mwets and a night out and play well yes... Just need to get guys with there own place ha |
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"One guys been there for over a year. Not convinced he's separated tbh "
Playing the old separated card eh! lol
Yeah hotels haven't been my thing either but different after a few drinks and getting to know someone rather than just turn up for a wham bam thank you mam!
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"My comment may come across as strange considering the type of site we are on but I find hotels for a quick play a bit seedy especially if it's the 1st time. Weekends away now that's a different story ??" if it's a nice nice hotel room why is it seedy? At the end of the day it's a bed with the same outcome anyway and mutual ground for both parties too.
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As a single woman this is very off putting for me . I understand some situations mean it has to be a temporary measure. Relationship breakdowns etc. However long term without an escape plan is just wrong. Especially over 35. I think the same applies to women too. |
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It's probably not ideal for anyone,but if someone is thinking that's what they have to do to give themselves a good standard of living then fair play to them, and in some ways shows a bit of character, I'm sure they would rather have it any other way.
So as for not meeting someone for living at their parents, get over yourself a bit and look at the person not the situation. Think about yourself in that situation, your life doesn't have to stand still because it's not suiting other people.
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My preference is to meet guys who can accommodate. I won't host until I've had a few meets with a guy and fully comfortable with him. I don't discriminate against those living with parent as I won't meet guys who have flat mates, live with siblings or are separated but still living in the martial home.
I appreciate everyone has different reasons and can accept that however I would like to think others can accept I have my own reasons for not wanting to meet someone who can't accommodate
Sorry if I've offended you with this post. |
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It's not always a bad thing staying with parents I did the same when I separated (before I met Mrs S), I must have stayed with my dad for about a year. During the break up/separation, I wasn't made of money as my hand was in my pocket still paying for the mortgage and keeping kids in good clothes etc, this left me no spare money that I could use to save up for my own place or pay rent for a place that I would have wanted to bring someone home too. These days when there is no good cheap quality affordable housing, most places I wouldn't let a dog sleep in being considered as affordable then it's the best most will be able to do is stay with friends/parents in the spare room.
Make the most of it and enjoy what hotels are being offered as a option.
As some of us realise we are one or two pay checks away from being homeless ourselves these days.
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"My comment may come across as strange considering the type of site we are on but I find hotels for a quick play a bit seedy especially if it's the 1st time. Weekends away now that's a different story ??"
I agree with the Hotel for a quick play ...Ive never been a fan of this either .
However....Weekends away .....NAW
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"Is the economy really that bad. More and more "single" or "separated" guys back home living with mom and dad.
Ruining my fun lol"
I can accommodate......just saying |
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"It's not always a bad thing staying with parents I did the same when I separated (before I met Mrs S), I must have stayed with my dad for about a year. During the break up/separation, I wasn't made of money as my hand was in my pocket still paying for the mortgage and keeping kids in good clothes etc, this left me no spare money that I could use to save up for my own place or pay rent for a place that I would have wanted to bring someone home too. These days when there is no good cheap quality affordable housing, most places I wouldn't let a dog sleep in being considered as affordable then it's the best most will be able to do is stay with friends/parents in the spare room.
Make the most of it and enjoy what hotels are being offered as a option.
As some of us realise we are one or two pay checks away from being homeless ourselves these days.
Mr S "
Well put young man
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I stayed with my dad for a few years(and was doing ok for meets..sometime sneaky homers, he didnt mind single girls, but I knew bringing couples in wouldnt be a great idea)..weirdly I thought when I moved out into my own space I'd get more action... |
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