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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Now I know this is a no strings sex site before anyone tells me off !
However do you ever crave old fashioned romance? To be swept off your feet?
If you're a couple what things do you do to keep that magic alive?
Do you think for a swinging couple it's even more important? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Am not really into romance it makes me cringe a little football and a chippy am happy haha but a get what your saying a miss the company sometimes the just being daft with someone cuddles etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes sometimes I do. When I'm ill or just feeling abut down. Its nice to have someone there to give you those hugs. Run that bath. Play with your hair. Stroke your face. Wee things really. |
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"I find the whole sex without a connection thing difficult to deal with or am I just strange"
not at all I think there has to be something that would make you want to meet again no point if the feelings not there.
However some love the sex with strangers thing a big turn on too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think as a couple you've got to make at least little bits of effort all the time as opposed to a lot of effort very few times to keep that spark, we are quite a soppy couple most of the time, very touchy feely, so it seems to be working for us 
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"I think as a couple you've got to make at least little bits of effort all the time as opposed to a lot of effort very few times to keep that spark, we are quite a soppy couple most of the time, very touchy feely, so it seems to be working for us
Mr"
We are too, always need to be sitting next to each other or snuggled up together when we're alone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love romance. Love a guy to be an old fashioned type holding doors pulling chairs out basically treating me the way they do in the old style movies "
That's just well mannered, expected to be done in female company regardless of the situation of the meet |
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"I find the whole sex without a connection thing difficult to deal with or am I just strange"
Nope..i dont think you are strange. Its the same for me..i need an emotional connection to really enjoy sex |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I love romance. It's possibly a good thing I'm single sometimes as I think I could maybe be a bit much for someone. I'd love to have someone who does the little things. A post it note or a card would mean so much more to me than hearts and flowers.
I think I'm probably quite touchy feely too with the right person. I like holding hands and walks on the beach etc.
I'm very cliché I guess.
Too many fairy stories and romantic comedy's  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think as a couple you've got to make at least little bits of effort all the time as opposed to a lot of effort very few times to keep that spark, we are quite a soppy couple most of the time, very touchy feely, so it seems to be working for us
Mr"
That's lovely |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes sometimes I do. When I'm ill or just feeling abut down. Its nice to have someone there to give you those hugs. Run that bath. Play with your hair. Stroke your face. Wee things really."
I'm with you on that. The independent strong woman thing is rubbish when there comes a time you just need to be looked after a little bit for once |
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"I think as a couple you've got to make at least little bits of effort all the time as opposed to a lot of effort very few times to keep that spark, we are quite a soppy couple most of the time, very touchy feely, so it seems to be working for us
Mr"
I'd say we're like this... John is a wee romantic although he'd have you believe otherwise, always doing nice wee things, flowers, having a bath ready when I get in from work. Wee cutie really K x |
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"I think as a couple you've got to make at least little bits of effort all the time as opposed to a lot of effort very few times to keep that spark, we are quite a soppy couple most of the time, very touchy feely, so it seems to be working for us
Mr
I'd say we're like this... John is a wee romantic although he'd have you believe otherwise, always doing nice wee things, flowers, having a bath ready when I get in from work. Wee cutie really K x"
Diamonds, watches, dresses, shoes, car, jewllery, new iron! The list goes on hehe
John  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think as a couple you've got to make at least little bits of effort all the time as opposed to a lot of effort very few times to keep that spark, we are quite a soppy couple most of the time, very touchy feely, so it seems to be working for us
Mr
I'd say we're like this... John is a wee romantic although he'd have you believe otherwise, always doing nice wee things, flowers, having a bath ready when I get in from work. Wee cutie really K x
Diamonds, watches, dresses, shoes, car, jewllery, new iron! The list goes on hehe
John "
Do you have any friends??? |
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
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"I think as a couple you've got to make at least little bits of effort all the time as opposed to a lot of effort very few times to keep that spark, we are quite a soppy couple most of the time, very touchy feely, so it seems to be working for us
Mr
I'd say we're like this... John is a wee romantic although he'd have you believe otherwise, always doing nice wee things, flowers, having a bath ready when I get in from work. Wee cutie really K x
Diamonds, watches, dresses, shoes, car, jewllery, new iron! The list goes on hehe
John
Do you have any friends???"
Psssst.....don't you mean good looking brothers??  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Without romance, love gets dry. Without respect, love gets lost. Without caring, love gets boring. Without honesty, love gets unhappy, and without trust, love gets unstable. In times of pain and suffering, love does not die, it hides.
~unkown quote
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"Without romance, love gets dry. Without respect, love gets lost. Without caring, love gets boring. Without honesty, love gets unhappy, and without trust, love gets unstable. In times of pain and suffering, love does not die, it hides.
~unkown quote
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That's so nice and so true K x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think as a couple you've got to make at least little bits of effort all the time as opposed to a lot of effort very few times to keep that spark, we are quite a soppy couple most of the time, very touchy feely, so it seems to be working for us
Mr
I'd say we're like this... John is a wee romantic although he'd have you believe otherwise, always doing nice wee things, flowers, having a bath ready when I get in from work. Wee cutie really K x
Diamonds, watches, dresses, shoes, car, jewllery, new iron! The list goes on hehe
John
Do you have any friends???
Psssst.....don't you mean good looking brothers?? "
I thought that at first but I worry that perhaps they would share his taste in shirts.... |
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"I think as a couple you've got to make at least little bits of effort all the time as opposed to a lot of effort very few times to keep that spark, we are quite a soppy couple most of the time, very touchy feely, so it seems to be working for us
Mr
I'd say we're like this... John is a wee romantic although he'd have you believe otherwise, always doing nice wee things, flowers, having a bath ready when I get in from work. Wee cutie really K x
Diamonds, watches, dresses, shoes, car, jewllery, new iron! The list goes on hehe
John
Do you have any friends???
Psssst.....don't you mean good looking brothers??
I thought that at first but I worry that perhaps they would share his taste in shirts...."
Don't worry! He's an only child... I'm weaning him off the shirts, but these things take time K x |
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
Falkirk |
"I think as a couple you've got to make at least little bits of effort all the time as opposed to a lot of effort very few times to keep that spark, we are quite a soppy couple most of the time, very touchy feely, so it seems to be working for us
Mr
I'd say we're like this... John is a wee romantic although he'd have you believe otherwise, always doing nice wee things, flowers, having a bath ready when I get in from work. Wee cutie really K x
Diamonds, watches, dresses, shoes, car, jewllery, new iron! The list goes on hehe
John
Do you have any friends???
Psssst.....don't you mean good looking brothers??
I thought that at first but I worry that perhaps they would share his taste in shirts....
Don't worry! He's an only child... I'm weaning him off the shirts, but these things take time K x"
Leave his shirts alone!!!!  
(Right, now he's not looking - stuff a couple down the side of the sofa and sneak them out later ) |
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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago
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"Romance? Very passé! 
Your idea of romance is midgy bites on a ladies ass!!!!  "
They were clegs Andy, not midges.
Get your facts right man, or don't listen to what a certain wee wumin tells you. I certainly don't listen to her. |
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
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"Oi my shirts are amazing, they are an extension of my personality.... Oh wait 
And no I don't have any friends or brothers but plenty of me to go around Karen might even help out too
John "
I never realised you were schizophrenic John |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Without romance, love gets dry. Without respect, love gets lost. Without caring, love gets boring. Without honesty, love gets unhappy, and without trust, love gets unstable. In times of pain and suffering, love does not die, it hides.
~unkown quote
That's so nice and so true K x"
I thought so but then midgie bites on a ladies bottom blew it oot the water  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Without romance, love gets dry. Without respect, love gets lost. Without caring, love gets boring. Without honesty, love gets unhappy, and without trust, love gets unstable. In times of pain and suffering, love does not die, it hides.
~unkown quote
That's so nice and so true K x
I thought so but then midgie bites on a ladies bottom blew it oot the water "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Without romance, love gets dry. Without respect, love gets lost. Without caring, love gets boring. Without honesty, love gets unhappy, and without trust, love gets unstable. In times of pain and suffering, love does not die, it hides.
~unkown quote
That's so nice and so true K x
I thought so but then midgie bites on a ladies bottom blew it oot the water
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LOL
New quote
Romance is like a midge bite on a ladies bottom... maybe that's akin to moth to the flame lol
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I like romance... the first time I went to swingcamp I'd made plans with someone and he was super late arriving. I was a bit cross cause it was dark and he still needed to pitch his tent... he collected me from the main camp and we drove round to this little secluded spot where he'd already pitched his tent and surrounded it with tealights. It's one of my most favourite swingy memories. It doesn't have to be all clinical, you can have really lovely little things that make you feel special without it meaning anything more. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I like romance... the first time I went to swingcamp I'd made plans with someone and he was super late arriving. I was a bit cross cause it was dark and he still needed to pitch his tent... he collected me from the main camp and we drove round to this little secluded spot where he'd already pitched his tent and surrounded it with tealights. It's one of my most favourite swingy memories. It doesn't have to be all clinical, you can have really lovely little things that make you feel special without it meaning anything more. "
Aww that's so lovely.
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"I like romance... the first time I went to swingcamp I'd made plans with someone and he was super late arriving. I was a bit cross cause it was dark and he still needed to pitch his tent... he collected me from the main camp and we drove round to this little secluded spot where he'd already pitched his tent and surrounded it with tealights. It's one of my most favourite swingy memories. It doesn't have to be all clinical, you can have really lovely little things that make you feel special without it meaning anything more.
Aww that's so lovely.
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I know... he was so friggin late I was half pissed though! He still rips the piss at me passing out on him! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm a bit of a quote freak so thought I'd add another favourite one
Men always want to be a woman's first love - women like to be a man's last romance.
Oscar Wilde
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm a bit of a quote freak so thought I'd add another favourite one
Men always want to be a woman's first love - women like to be a man's last romance.
Oscar Wilde
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Oscar Wilde was a very wise man |
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Romance comes in so many guises - mental stimulation before physical of course!
Some like or think gifts are the key when really it's all about thinking of others - just the small everyday things or maybe a cheeky text or note left for when they return!
A thoughtful surprise can be the start to a romantic time - keep it fresh and work at it, easier said than done of course!
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romance! I know a certain gentleman who is very good at it too. Kind, little loving gestures can be the most romantic and touching. 
