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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So for a year now we have discussed me (red) meeting solo, I even had my own profile at one time. Can I find someone - no!!
I've met some guys for coffee, felt comfortable and enquired about next stage and got no where. Also been stood up a few times.
Guys seem keen when first asked but go quiet when it comes to actually arranging something.
So I think my screening for single men must be dodgy - ladies give me your tips  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Red is not scarey. But sexy, damn she oozes with it 
Will we all go on a man hunt for you deary? I know 1 willing victim who'd chew his left ball off for it  |
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I see it as the reason it went no further is you were incompatible asking other fems would mean you would have to have diffrent standards you want a select type of meet perhaps the type you want have little intrest in you (so far) stick to your own ways it will come right when the time is right |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Red is not scarey. But sexy, damn she oozes with it
Will we all go on a man hunt for you deary? I know 1 willing victim who'd chew his left ball off for it "
Ooh a man hunt 
Seriously it's getting ridiculous |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I see it as the reason it went no further is you were incompatible asking other fems would mean you would have to have diffrent standards you want a select type of meet perhaps the type you want have little intrest in you (so far) stick to your own ways it will come right when the time is right "
It was more tips on screening, not who they meet / personal tastes |
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You are a lovely, gorgeous, sexy lady, I doubt it's anything you're doing. I think that sometimes people are excited by the idea of meeting and then nerves kick in and they bottle it. I've been stood up by single guys a few times and I'm not even in your league.
Just keep doing what you're doing, the genuine people will stand out. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"When it comes to screening, I talk to people for a while until I'm comfortable, then swap pics and organise a social if I feel we click.
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I've got that far, 3 guys so far - coffee, clicked and then all quiet  |
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
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"So for a year now we have discussed me (red) meeting solo, I even had my own profile at one time. Can I find someone - no!!
I've met some guys for coffee, felt comfortable and enquired about next stage and got no where. Also been stood up a few times.
Guys seem keen when first asked but go quiet when it comes to actually arranging something.
So I think my screening for single men must be dodgy - ladies give me your tips "
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"When it comes to screening, I talk to people for a while until I'm comfortable, then swap pics and organise a social if I feel we click.
I've got that far, 3 guys so far - coffee, clicked and then all quiet "
Without being there I couldn't say if there's anything that I'd notice. No idea why it's not worked out  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So for a year now we have discussed me (red) meeting solo, I even had my own profile at one time. Can I find someone - no!!
I've met some guys for coffee, felt comfortable and enquired about next stage and got no where. Also been stood up a few times.
Guys seem keen when first asked but go quiet when it comes to actually arranging something.
So I think my screening for single men must be dodgy - ladies give me your tips
seriously "
Yes, it's become a running joke in my house.
The worst one was when I was stood up in a bar (full suspenders etc on under my skirt, heels, you get the idea) and barmaid gave me the sympathy look every time I ordered a drink. It was funny in a way but the ego takes a battering after a while |
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
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"So for a year now we have discussed me (red) meeting solo, I even had my own profile at one time. Can I find someone - no!!
I've met some guys for coffee, felt comfortable and enquired about next stage and got no where. Also been stood up a few times.
Guys seem keen when first asked but go quiet when it comes to actually arranging something.
So I think my screening for single men must be dodgy - ladies give me your tips
seriously
Yes, it's become a running joke in my house.
The worst one was when I was stood up in a bar (full suspenders etc on under my skirt, heels, you get the idea) and barmaid gave me the sympathy look every time I ordered a drink. It was funny in a way but the ego takes a battering after a while "
obviously picking the wrong guys...  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So for a year now we have discussed me (red) meeting solo, I even had my own profile at one time. Can I find someone - no!!
I've met some guys for coffee, felt comfortable and enquired about next stage and got no where. Also been stood up a few times.
Guys seem keen when first asked but go quiet when it comes to actually arranging something.
So I think my screening for single men must be dodgy - ladies give me your tips
seriously
Yes, it's become a running joke in my house.
The worst one was when I was stood up in a bar (full suspenders etc on under my skirt, heels, you get the idea) and barmaid gave me the sympathy look every time I ordered a drink. It was funny in a way but the ego takes a battering after a while
obviously picking the wrong guys... "
I know, that's why I'm asking how others choose lol
The compliments have been lovely but not really helpful xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Red is not scarey. But sexy, damn she oozes with it
Will we all go on a man hunt for you deary? I know 1 willing victim who'd chew his left ball off for it "
You know I lost my left ball in a poker game
You can have my right one tho x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just a thought here but why don't you have a social with the option to play after it if all goes well. There nowhere for them to run then haha
Talk the talk walk the walk haha x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When it comes to screening, I talk to people for a while until I'm comfortable, then swap pics and organise a social if I feel we click.
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This is what I do. 
If it's going dead after that initial social meet, you haven't lost out, you've just not met the right person. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Just a thought here but why don't you have a social with the option to play after it if all goes well. There nowhere for them to run then haha
Talk the talk walk the walk haha x"
Horror story no 5 did that - he has later transpired to be a freak. Seriously single filtering is not my speciality |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just a thought here but why don't you have a social with the option to play after it if all goes well. There nowhere for them to run then haha
Talk the talk walk the walk haha x
Horror story no 5 did that - he has later transpired to be a freak. Seriously single filtering is not my speciality "
Send them my way il filter them for ya haha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just a thought here but why don't you have a social with the option to play after it if all goes well. There nowhere for them to run then haha
Talk the talk walk the walk haha x
Horror story no 5 did that - he has later transpired to be a freak. Seriously single filtering is not my speciality
Send them my way il filter them for ya haha "
Deal |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So for a year now we have discussed me (red) meeting solo, I even had my own profile at one time. Can I find someone - no!!
I've met some guys for coffee, felt comfortable and enquired about next stage and got no where. Also been stood up a few times.
Guys seem keen when first asked but go quiet when it comes to actually arranging something.
So I think my screening for single men must be dodgy - ladies give me your tips "
Open up your age limit |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Red if it helps Iv been stood up 4 times now. Others just bottle it cut of contact. For some its the trill of the chase. Then reality kicks in. Some all talk n no action. However there genuine men who
Want to meet. But its hard for them. When men out number women on here so much. Don't give in. Talk to other woman. There is gems on here we just don't like to share them when we find them. |
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
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All i can really say is stick with it.. yeah there are an awful lot of wannabies ...who think its fun to join, perv, lead on and then bottle it incase the wife or gf finds out lol but there are alot of us genuine guys out there for the finding ...good luck and hope someone restores your faith  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Red is not scarey. But sexy, damn she oozes with it
Will we all go on a man hunt for you deary? I know 1 willing victim who'd chew his left ball off for it
You know I lost my left ball in a poker game
You can have my right one tho x"
Damn I forgot that's why I'm still able to talk with a partial mouthful |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"All i can really say is stick with it.. yeah there are an awful lot of wannabies ...who think its fun to join, perv, lead on and then bottle it incase the wife or gf finds out lol but there are alot of us genuine guys out there for the finding ...good luck and hope someone restores your faith "
As a couple we have met fantastic people, so I know they exist 
Just can't filter solo |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been stood up once but that was 3 years ago.
When I plan on having a meet I don't ask or put a meet in the events. I just get chatty for a few days before then just ask them straight out. Go younger and a wee bit shorter if need be |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Red is not scarey. But sexy, damn she oozes with it
Will we all go on a man hunt for you deary? I know 1 willing victim who'd chew his left ball off for it
You know I lost my left ball in a poker game
You can have my right one tho x
Damn I forgot that's why I'm still able to talk with a partial mouthful "
God sake mumbles haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So for a year now we have discussed me (red) meeting solo, I even had my own profile at one time. Can I find someone - no!!
I've met some guys for coffee, felt comfortable and enquired about next stage and got no where. Also been stood up a few times.
Guys seem keen when first asked but go quiet when it comes to actually arranging something.
So I think my screening for single men must be dodgy - ladies give me your tips
Open up your age limit "
This |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've been stood up once but that was 3 years ago.
When I plan on having a meet I don't ask or put a meet in the events. I just get chatty for a few days before then just ask them straight out. Go younger and a wee bit shorter if need be "
I'm now speaking to a 25 year old ... However you know my thoughts on short lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've been stood up once but that was 3 years ago.
When I plan on having a meet I don't ask or put a meet in the events. I just get chatty for a few days before then just ask them straight out. Go younger and a wee bit shorter if need be
I'm now speaking to a 25 year old ... However you know my thoughts on short lol "
Even I go for taller but there is some lovely guys out there just a tad shorter than your fine self |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've been stood up once but that was 3 years ago.
When I plan on having a meet I don't ask or put a meet in the events. I just get chatty for a few days before then just ask them straight out. Go younger and a wee bit shorter if need be
I'm now speaking to a 25 year old ... However you know my thoughts on short lol
Even I go for taller but there is some lovely guys out there just a tad shorter than your fine self "
I'm not hard lines, 5ft 8 for an exceptional
Specimen would be ok (but I'm scarred from coffee with a guy who could only kiss me stood on a step ) |
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
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As a shortass, hairy chested, over 40 year old guy, I'd say it's their loss.
I'm not sure you are doing anything wrong, it's just that as has been said, a lot of guys bottle it after that initial meet or are just after the thrill of the chase.
I wouldn't change much to be honest though, just be yourself, keep chatting and who knows? You might just find a gem in amongst the crap |
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By *ndykayMan
over a year ago
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"I've been stood up once but that was 3 years ago.
When I plan on having a meet I don't ask or put a meet in the events. I just get chatty for a few days before then just ask them straight out. Go younger and a wee bit shorter if need be
I'm now speaking to a 25 year old ... However you know my thoughts on short lol
Even I go for taller but there is some lovely guys out there just a tad shorter than your fine self
I'm not hard lines, 5ft 8 for an exceptional
Specimen would be ok (but I'm scarred from coffee with a guy who could only kiss me stood on a step )"
What do you expect meeting 1 of snow whites dwarves whilst wearing 5 inch heels??  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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your pics and profile seem fine red if they go quiet then its there loss at the end off the day ive been stood up but hey thats life pkus being a fulltime single dad doesnt give me much time etc got too there place for a coffee then they cant be full off bs and the party can begin |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
I've never been stood up, and only had one fella cancel - on the morning of the meet.
I chat for ages... Most meets have waited months to meet up, if they're going to go cold they've gotten bored before then.
Also, If something feels wrong, I stop the conversation. I'd rather have less meets than meet the wrong person |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've never been stood up, and only had one fella cancel - on the morning of the meet.
I chat for ages... Most meets have waited months to meet up, if they're going to go cold they've gotten bored before then.
Also, If something feels wrong, I stop the conversation. I'd rather have less meets than meet the wrong person "
nice crunchie lol x |
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Anyone that stands you up having just looked at your OMG pics must be bonkers!!!
There's hot, and then there's you, ever stood up again next, let me know, I'd make a great sub, straight off the bench, no warm up needed ?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You must be kidding!!! A single guy?? They make up 90% of the site!"
Yes but I have standards so whilst the numbers might be there it doesn't necessarily help |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok so need to up the level of chat.
I can do that - I'm a gobby sod lol
We know how to shut you up tho
Haha
oh reallly "
There's defo something In the bag of doom for that haha x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok so need to up the level of chat.
I can do that - I'm a gobby sod lol
We know how to shut you up tho
Haha
oh reallly
There's defo something In the bag of doom for that haha x"
Please leave my wee pal bag out of it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Nobody over 44 can reach you on your couples profile. Of course, perhaps you want only younger men, and that's a personal thing, fair enough. But some of us older guys can give you a good time too, - just maybe not in the same way as the younger stallions. Why not allow older contact ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Nobody over 44 can reach you on your couples profile. Of course, perhaps you want only younger men, and that's a personal thing, fair enough. But some of us older guys can give you a good time too, - just maybe not in the same way as the younger stallions. Why not allow older contact ? "
Because I don't want to??? |
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
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"Nobody over 44 can reach you on your couples profile. Of course, perhaps you want only younger men, and that's a personal thing, fair enough. But some of us older guys can give you a good time too, - just maybe not in the same way as the younger stallions. Why not allow older contact ?
Because I don't want to??? "
simple answer lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"sorry red, but I don't believe this. I've met you (within a group) & if I got the chance of a solo meet then I would bite your hand off x"
Seriously we sat and tallied it up tonight.
I have had coffee with 3 guys, all of whom went quiet when asked to meet.
There have been 3 guys who I've spoken with, arranged a social meet, and then no shows
And even tonight I messaged a guy, he replied - I responded and his profile is now hidden!!!
I'm bloody cursed lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I can't believe this forum and it just goes to confirm how many time wasters that's out there. From the profile and Reds stunning photos I can't imagine why any serious guy would not want to meet.
Am I missing something here? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I can't believe this forum and it just goes to confirm how many time wasters that's out there. From the profile and Reds stunning photos I can't imagine why any serious guy would not want to meet.
Am I missing something here?"
Well the common factor is me - so one of three options:
1. Face like a slapped arse
2. I've photoshopped all images and actually resemble one of the clampits
3. My selection process is sh*te
You choose lol |
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By *ay2571Man
over a year ago
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"I can't believe this forum and it just goes to confirm how many time wasters that's out there. From the profile and Reds stunning photos I can't imagine why any serious guy would not want to meet.
Am I missing something here?
Well the common factor is me - so one of three options:
1. Face like a slapped arse
2. I've photoshopped all images and actually resemble one of the clampits
3. My selection process is sh*te
You choose lol "
I'm going for the latter,
I'm my experience a lot of guys, especially married ones like the idea of things more than the actually doing of it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You are a lovely, gorgeous, sexy lady, I doubt it's anything you're doing. I think that sometimes people are excited by the idea of meeting and then nerves kick in and they bottle it. I've been stood up by single guys a few times and I'm not even in your league.
Just keep doing what you're doing, the genuine people will stand out. "
I really dont understand your comment about not being in your league ?
Explain that ?
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By (user no longer on site)
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Red, You've had a lot of compliments and a lot of OMG's which much be flattering but I think the reality is that there isn't really a way, beyond what you're already doing, for you to determine if a guy is going to be a timewaster or not.
It sounds like you're doing everything the right way and it might just genuinely dow to the fact you've picked some wrong 'uns!
They're either brutally shy in which case this is not the site for them or, and is probably more the case, either cheating married guys or they love the fantasy of getting naked with you but when it comes down to 'the moment' to even meet you, they pussy out! They probably cracked one out to the thought of you whilst in the shower getting ready then the 'motivation' to leave the house has gone!
You mentioned one guy was even from a couple, I think that would be something worth sticking with but maybe meeting as two couples first to check them out and then potentially meeting as a single later on?
Doesn't sound like you're doing anything wrong though, just the wrong guys unfortunately! |
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"You are a lovely, gorgeous, sexy lady, I doubt it's anything you're doing. I think that sometimes people are excited by the idea of meeting and then nerves kick in and they bottle it. I've been stood up by single guys a few times and I'm not even in your league.
Just keep doing what you're doing, the genuine people will stand out.
I really dont understand your comment about not being in your league ?
Explain that ?
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Sure. She's a lovely and attractive lady, I enjoyed her company very much at the last social I held and both myself and Mr would love to meet her, and Tall, again.
Whereas I am a sack of spuds, and while I'm not surprised that I get no shows, I'm gobsmacked that Red does.
Does that help? |
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"Red, You've had a lot of compliments and a lot of OMG's which much be flattering but I think the reality is that there isn't really a way, beyond what you're already doing, for you to determine if a guy is going to be a timewaster or not.
It sounds like you're doing everything the right way and it might just genuinely dow to the fact you've picked some wrong 'uns!
They're either brutally shy in which case this is not the site for them or, and is probably more the case, either cheating married guys or they love the fantasy of getting naked with you but when it comes down to 'the moment' to even meet you, they pussy out! They probably cracked one out to the thought of you whilst in the shower getting ready then the 'motivation' to leave the house has gone!
You mentioned one guy was even from a couple, I think that would be something worth sticking with but maybe meeting as two couples first to check them out and then potentially meeting as a single later on?
Doesn't sound like you're doing anything wrong though, just the wrong guys unfortunately! "
I have to pretty much agree with this |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"You are a lovely, gorgeous, sexy lady, I doubt it's anything you're doing. I think that sometimes people are excited by the idea of meeting and then nerves kick in and they bottle it. I've been stood up by single guys a few times and I'm not even in your league.
Just keep doing what you're doing, the genuine people will stand out.
I really dont understand your comment about not being in your league ?
Explain that ?
Sure. She's a lovely and attractive lady, I enjoyed her company very much at the last social I held and both myself and Mr would love to meet her, and Tall, again.
Whereas I am a sack of spuds, and while I'm not surprised that I get no shows, I'm gobsmacked that Red does.
Does that help? "
V a sack of spuds you are most definitely not!!!
I'm going to try the cast net wide and see who I catch approach lol
Worst case scenario I don't meet solo and our fantasy remains just that |
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"You are a lovely, gorgeous, sexy lady, I doubt it's anything you're doing. I think that sometimes people are excited by the idea of meeting and then nerves kick in and they bottle it. I've been stood up by single guys a few times and I'm not even in your league.
Just keep doing what you're doing, the genuine people will stand out.
I really dont understand your comment about not being in your league ?
Explain that ?
Sure. She's a lovely and attractive lady, I enjoyed her company very much at the last social I held and both myself and Mr would love to meet her, and Tall, again.
Whereas I am a sack of spuds, and while I'm not surprised that I get no shows, I'm gobsmacked that Red does.
Does that help?
V a sack of spuds you are most definitely not!!!
I'm going to try the cast net wide and see who I catch approach lol
Worst case scenario I don't meet solo and our fantasy remains just that "
There is a fantastic single guy I'd love to introduce you to, when he returns to fab. He didn't make my last social but is coming to our party. I'll try to persuade him to return sooner than later |
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"You are a lovely, gorgeous, sexy lady, I doubt it's anything you're doing. I think that sometimes people are excited by the idea of meeting and then nerves kick in and they bottle it. I've been stood up by single guys a few times and I'm not even in your league.
Just keep doing what you're doing, the genuine people will stand out.
I really dont understand your comment about not being in your league ?
Explain that ?
Sure. She's a lovely and attractive lady, I enjoyed her company very much at the last social I held and both myself and Mr would love to meet her, and Tall, again.
Whereas I am a sack of spuds, and while I'm not surprised that I get no shows, I'm gobsmacked that Red does.
Does that help?
V a sack of spuds you are most definitely not!!!
I'm going to try the cast net wide and see who I catch approach lol
Worst case scenario I don't meet solo and our fantasy remains just that
There is a fantastic single guy I'd love to introduce you to, when he returns to fab. He didn't make my last social but is coming to our party. I'll try to persuade him to return sooner than later "
Is that who I think it is???? |
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"You are a lovely, gorgeous, sexy lady, I doubt it's anything you're doing. I think that sometimes people are excited by the idea of meeting and then nerves kick in and they bottle it. I've been stood up by single guys a few times and I'm not even in your league.
Just keep doing what you're doing, the genuine people will stand out.
I really dont understand your comment about not being in your league ?
Explain that ?
Sure. She's a lovely and attractive lady, I enjoyed her company very much at the last social I held and both myself and Mr would love to meet her, and Tall, again.
Whereas I am a sack of spuds, and while I'm not surprised that I get no shows, I'm gobsmacked that Red does.
Does that help?
V a sack of spuds you are most definitely not!!!
I'm going to try the cast net wide and see who I catch approach lol
Worst case scenario I don't meet solo and our fantasy remains just that
There is a fantastic single guy I'd love to introduce you to, when he returns to fab. He didn't make my last social but is coming to our party. I'll try to persuade him to return sooner than later
Is that who I think it is????"
If you're thinking of a tall gentleman then yes it most certainly is |
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"You are a lovely, gorgeous, sexy lady, I doubt it's anything you're doing. I think that sometimes people are excited by the idea of meeting and then nerves kick in and they bottle it. I've been stood up by single guys a few times and I'm not even in your league.
Just keep doing what you're doing, the genuine people will stand out.
I really dont understand your comment about not being in your league ?
Explain that ?
Sure. She's a lovely and attractive lady, I enjoyed her company very much at the last social I held and both myself and Mr would love to meet her, and Tall, again.
Whereas I am a sack of spuds, and while I'm not surprised that I get no shows, I'm gobsmacked that Red does.
Does that help?
V a sack of spuds you are most definitely not!!!
I'm going to try the cast net wide and see who I catch approach lol
Worst case scenario I don't meet solo and our fantasy remains just that
There is a fantastic single guy I'd love to introduce you to, when he returns to fab. He didn't make my last social but is coming to our party. I'll try to persuade him to return sooner than later
Is that who I think it is????
If you're thinking of a tall gentleman then yes it most certainly is "
Oooohhhh he ain't no short arse and I'd honestly say he'd be an excellent match for Red!
I miss that man mountain around here  |
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"You are a lovely, gorgeous, sexy lady, I doubt it's anything you're doing. I think that sometimes people are excited by the idea of meeting and then nerves kick in and they bottle it. I've been stood up by single guys a few times and I'm not even in your league.
Just keep doing what you're doing, the genuine people will stand out.
I really dont understand your comment about not being in your league ?
Explain that ?
Sure. She's a lovely and attractive lady, I enjoyed her company very much at the last social I held and both myself and Mr would love to meet her, and Tall, again.
Whereas I am a sack of spuds, and while I'm not surprised that I get no shows, I'm gobsmacked that Red does.
Does that help?
V a sack of spuds you are most definitely not!!!
I'm going to try the cast net wide and see who I catch approach lol
Worst case scenario I don't meet solo and our fantasy remains just that
There is a fantastic single guy I'd love to introduce you to, when he returns to fab. He didn't make my last social but is coming to our party. I'll try to persuade him to return sooner than later
Is that who I think it is????
If you're thinking of a tall gentleman then yes it most certainly is
Oooohhhh he ain't no short arse and I'd honestly say he'd be an excellent match for Red!
I miss that man mountain around here "
He'll be back, I'm sure of it |
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"You are a lovely, gorgeous, sexy lady, I doubt it's anything you're doing. I think that sometimes people are excited by the idea of meeting and then nerves kick in and they bottle it. I've been stood up by single guys a few times and I'm not even in your league.
Just keep doing what you're doing, the genuine people will stand out.
I really dont understand your comment about not being in your league ?
Explain that ?
Sure. She's a lovely and attractive lady, I enjoyed her company very much at the last social I held and both myself and Mr would love to meet her, and Tall, again.
Whereas I am a sack of spuds, and while I'm not surprised that I get no shows, I'm gobsmacked that Red does.
Does that help?
V a sack of spuds you are most definitely not!!!
I'm going to try the cast net wide and see who I catch approach lol
Worst case scenario I don't meet solo and our fantasy remains just that
There is a fantastic single guy I'd love to introduce you to, when he returns to fab. He didn't make my last social but is coming to our party. I'll try to persuade him to return sooner than later
Is that who I think it is????
If you're thinking of a tall gentleman then yes it most certainly is
Oooohhhh he ain't no short arse and I'd honestly say he'd be an excellent match for Red!
I miss that man mountain around here
He'll be back, I'm sure of it "
Perving patrol for newbies is on! |
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"You are a lovely, gorgeous, sexy lady, I doubt it's anything you're doing. I think that sometimes people are excited by the idea of meeting and then nerves kick in and they bottle it. I've been stood up by single guys a few times and I'm not even in your league.
Just keep doing what you're doing, the genuine people will stand out.
I really dont understand your comment about not being in your league ?
Explain that ?
Sure. She's a lovely and attractive lady, I enjoyed her company very much at the last social I held and both myself and Mr would love to meet her, and Tall, again.
Whereas I am a sack of spuds, and while I'm not surprised that I get no shows, I'm gobsmacked that Red does.
Does that help?
V a sack of spuds you are most definitely not!!!
I'm going to try the cast net wide and see who I catch approach lol
Worst case scenario I don't meet solo and our fantasy remains just that
There is a fantastic single guy I'd love to introduce you to, when he returns to fab. He didn't make my last social but is coming to our party. I'll try to persuade him to return sooner than later
Is that who I think it is????
If you're thinking of a tall gentleman then yes it most certainly is
Oooohhhh he ain't no short arse and I'd honestly say he'd be an excellent match for Red!
I miss that man mountain around here
He'll be back, I'm sure of it
Perving patrol for newbies is on! "
Woohoo! |
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"You are a lovely, gorgeous, sexy lady, I doubt it's anything you're doing. I think that sometimes people are excited by the idea of meeting and then nerves kick in and they bottle it. I've been stood up by single guys a few times and I'm not even in your league.
Just keep doing what you're doing, the genuine people will stand out.
I really dont understand your comment about not being in your league ?
Explain that ?
Sure. She's a lovely and attractive lady, I enjoyed her company very much at the last social I held and both myself and Mr would love to meet her, and Tall, again.
Whereas I am a sack of spuds, and while I'm not surprised that I get no shows, I'm gobsmacked that Red does.
Does that help?
V a sack of spuds you are most definitely not!!!
I'm going to try the cast net wide and see who I catch approach lol
Worst case scenario I don't meet solo and our fantasy remains just that
There is a fantastic single guy I'd love to introduce you to, when he returns to fab. He didn't make my last social but is coming to our party. I'll try to persuade him to return sooner than later
Is that who I think it is????
If you're thinking of a tall gentleman then yes it most certainly is
Oooohhhh he ain't no short arse and I'd honestly say he'd be an excellent match for Red!
I miss that man mountain around here
He'll be back, I'm sure of it
Perving patrol for newbies is on!
Woohoo! "
he sounds like a dream |
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"You are a lovely, gorgeous, sexy lady, I doubt it's anything you're doing. I think that sometimes people are excited by the idea of meeting and then nerves kick in and they bottle it. I've been stood up by single guys a few times and I'm not even in your league.
Just keep doing what you're doing, the genuine people will stand out.
I really dont understand your comment about not being in your league ?
Explain that ?
Sure. She's a lovely and attractive lady, I enjoyed her company very much at the last social I held and both myself and Mr would love to meet her, and Tall, again.
Whereas I am a sack of spuds, and while I'm not surprised that I get no shows, I'm gobsmacked that Red does.
Does that help?
V a sack of spuds you are most definitely not!!!
I'm going to try the cast net wide and see who I catch approach lol
Worst case scenario I don't meet solo and our fantasy remains just that
There is a fantastic single guy I'd love to introduce you to, when he returns to fab. He didn't make my last social but is coming to our party. I'll try to persuade him to return sooner than later
Is that who I think it is????
If you're thinking of a tall gentleman then yes it most certainly is
Oooohhhh he ain't no short arse and I'd honestly say he'd be an excellent match for Red!
I miss that man mountain around here
He'll be back, I'm sure of it
Perving patrol for newbies is on!
Woohoo!
he sounds like a dream "
Lol he has manners and is a complete gent |
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"You are a lovely, gorgeous, sexy lady, I doubt it's anything you're doing. I think that sometimes people are excited by the idea of meeting and then nerves kick in and they bottle it. I've been stood up by single guys a few times and I'm not even in your league.
Just keep doing what you're doing, the genuine people will stand out.
I really dont understand your comment about not being in your league ?
Explain that ?
Sure. She's a lovely and attractive lady, I enjoyed her company very much at the last social I held and both myself and Mr would love to meet her, and Tall, again.
Whereas I am a sack of spuds, and while I'm not surprised that I get no shows, I'm gobsmacked that Red does.
Does that help?
V a sack of spuds you are most definitely not!!!
I'm going to try the cast net wide and see who I catch approach lol
Worst case scenario I don't meet solo and our fantasy remains just that
There is a fantastic single guy I'd love to introduce you to, when he returns to fab. He didn't make my last social but is coming to our party. I'll try to persuade him to return sooner than later
Is that who I think it is????
If you're thinking of a tall gentleman then yes it most certainly is
Oooohhhh he ain't no short arse and I'd honestly say he'd be an excellent match for Red!
I miss that man mountain around here
He'll be back, I'm sure of it
Perving patrol for newbies is on!
Woohoo!
he sounds like a dream
Lol he has manners and is a complete gent "
I can't compete with that lol x |
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"You are a lovely, gorgeous, sexy lady, I doubt it's anything you're doing. I think that sometimes people are excited by the idea of meeting and then nerves kick in and they bottle it. I've been stood up by single guys a few times and I'm not even in your league.
Just keep doing what you're doing, the genuine people will stand out.
I really dont understand your comment about not being in your league ?
Explain that ?
Sure. She's a lovely and attractive lady, I enjoyed her company very much at the last social I held and both myself and Mr would love to meet her, and Tall, again.
Whereas I am a sack of spuds, and while I'm not surprised that I get no shows, I'm gobsmacked that Red does.
Does that help?
V a sack of spuds you are most definitely not!!!
I'm going to try the cast net wide and see who I catch approach lol
Worst case scenario I don't meet solo and our fantasy remains just that
There is a fantastic single guy I'd love to introduce you to, when he returns to fab. He didn't make my last social but is coming to our party. I'll try to persuade him to return sooner than later
Is that who I think it is????
If you're thinking of a tall gentleman then yes it most certainly is
Oooohhhh he ain't no short arse and I'd honestly say he'd be an excellent match for Red!
I miss that man mountain around here
He'll be back, I'm sure of it
Perving patrol for newbies is on!
Woohoo!
he sounds like a dream
Lol he has manners and is a complete gent
I can't compete with that lol x"
Haha it just sounds odd when you say pleaae |
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"You are a lovely, gorgeous, sexy lady, I doubt it's anything you're doing. I think that sometimes people are excited by the idea of meeting and then nerves kick in and they bottle it. I've been stood up by single guys a few times and I'm not even in your league.
Just keep doing what you're doing, the genuine people will stand out.
I really dont understand your comment about not being in your league ?
Explain that ?
Sure. She's a lovely and attractive lady, I enjoyed her company very much at the last social I held and both myself and Mr would love to meet her, and Tall, again.
Whereas I am a sack of spuds, and while I'm not surprised that I get no shows, I'm gobsmacked that Red does.
Does that help?
V a sack of spuds you are most definitely not!!!
I'm going to try the cast net wide and see who I catch approach lol
Worst case scenario I don't meet solo and our fantasy remains just that
There is a fantastic single guy I'd love to introduce you to, when he returns to fab. He didn't make my last social but is coming to our party. I'll try to persuade him to return sooner than later
Is that who I think it is????
If you're thinking of a tall gentleman then yes it most certainly is
Oooohhhh he ain't no short arse and I'd honestly say he'd be an excellent match for Red!
I miss that man mountain around here
He'll be back, I'm sure of it
Perving patrol for newbies is on!
Woohoo!
he sounds like a dream
Lol he has manners and is a complete gent
I can't compete with that lol x
Haha it just sounds odd when you say pleaae "
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"I can't believe this forum and it just goes to confirm how many time wasters that's out there. From the profile and Reds stunning photos I can't imagine why any serious guy would not want to meet.
Am I missing something here?
Well the common factor is me - so one of three options:
1. Face like a slapped arse
2. I've photoshopped all images and actually resemble one of the clampits
3. My selection process is sh*te
You choose lol "
1. definitely not
2. no photoshop required
3. it most certainly is
sounds like you've been choosing the dreamers and not the dooers x |
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