Or does anyone else get put off meeting guys/couples when they go on and on about meeting ?? Iv chatted to lots of folk who seem nice then its like pure pressure to meet. Puts me rite off 2bh, i like the messaging back n forth i think it makes the eventual meeting more fun. Sadly tho some peeps seem to think u will just say hi then disappear. I hate being pressured and i cant stand the sometimes downright desperation. What happened to playing it cool ? And dont get me started on the negative profiles and stats. Can we all put our happy faces on pretty please ?  |
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"Or does anyone else get put off meeting guys/couples when they go on and on about meeting ?? Iv chatted to lots of folk who seem nice then its like pure pressure to meet. Puts me rite off 2bh, i like the messaging back n forth i think it makes the eventual meeting more fun. Sadly tho some peeps seem to think u will just say hi then disappear. I hate being pressured and i cant stand the sometimes downright desperation. What happened to playing it cool ? And dont get me started on the negative profiles and stats. Can we all put our happy faces on pretty please ? "
Totally agree a slow flirty build up wins hands down in my books.  |
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"Or does anyone else get put off meeting guys/couples when they go on and on about meeting ?? Iv chatted to lots of folk who seem nice then its like pure pressure to meet. Puts me rite off 2bh, i like the messaging back n forth i think it makes the eventual meeting more fun. Sadly tho some peeps seem to think u will just say hi then disappear. I hate being pressured and i cant stand the sometimes downright desperation. What happened to playing it cool ? And dont get me started on the negative profiles and stats. Can we all put our happy faces on pretty please ? Totally agree a slow flirty build up wins hands down in my books. "
Yh I got my happy face on lol |
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I often think too that too much chat sometimes things just fizzle out and a meet doesn't happen.
Its all about the timing and vibes your getting from the person your chatting to whether it's the right time to ask them if they would like to meet.
I know why I'm here and I'm not afraid to ask to meet either. |
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"I often think too that too much chat sometimes things just fizzle out and a meet doesn't happen.
Its all about the timing and vibes your getting from the person your chatting to whether it's the right time to ask them if they would like to meet.
I know why I'm here and I'm not afraid to ask to meet either. "
I have had some good meets both ways to be honest chatting for a while and also a few messages then meet although they are usually the no show meets lol |
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"I often think too that too much chat sometimes things just fizzle out and a meet doesn't happen.
Its all about the timing and vibes your getting from the person your chatting to whether it's the right time to ask them if they would like to meet.
I know why I'm here and I'm not afraid to ask to meet either. "
Yh fizzle out seems to happen to me lol maybe its because I'm new to the swingers scene  |
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Yeh obvz everyone has their own preference to what they like and how they use the site.... Was jus having a wee rant as i really do hate feeling pressurised. Each to their own n all that. I like a flirty fun build up personally. |
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