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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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If you have an exchange with someone but when face pics are swapped there is no attraction, do you respond with a polite no thank you or do you just ignore and delete messages?
Ive experienced both but my feelings and thoughts are if someone has taken the time to message you, you should at least give the time and respect to be direct and say no thank you.
Do you agree or disagree and why? |
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Kinda depends on the message, the grammar, what the last message was like or how soon the face pic was shared. If a face pic is attached to the first or second message and it wasn't even asked for or I wasn't interested to begin with its a coin flip between me ignoring or replying that I'm not interested. If we've been chatting, I'll just downplay it and gradually phase out the chat to nowt!  |
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"If you have an exchange with someone but when face pics are swapped there is no attraction, do you respond with a polite no thank you or do you just ignore and delete messages?
Ive experienced both but my feelings and thoughts are if someone has taken the time to message you, you should at least give the time and respect to be direct and say no thank you.
Do you agree or disagree and why?"
always agree on a photo swap ASAP that way if there is no attraction not much time is wasted on to a fro emails  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So it seems many agree, once pics are exchanged and if no interest just be polite and say not interested.
However many fems just go silent and don't reply, I find it very rude. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What so you expect a novel on the first message I don't use that approach as see it as a waste of time because I was like that my first couple of weeks and still got no where lmao |
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No I don't expect a novel. I do expect more than "hi". If they can't put any effort into a first message then why would I think they'd put any effort into a meet?
Many times we've received a one line message. I always look at the profile and invariably there's one or two lines written there, so it gives me absolutely nothing to work with. |
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As an aside, you have been here for 6 weeks, and the OP 2 weeks. As every single man is told on here, you are in the majority and have to make yourself stand out from the crowd. No effort = no reward.
There are guys who've been here for months and have yet to get a meet. If you're resorting to one liners after such a short period of time, then you won't get far. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As an aside, you have been here for 6 weeks, and the OP 2 weeks. As every single man is told on here, you are in the majority and have to make yourself stand out from the crowd. No effort = no reward.
There are guys who've been here for months and have yet to get a meet. If you're resorting to one liners after such a short period of time, then you won't get far."
Thanks for the advice but will say it again after sending loads of messages with a couple paragraphs and get no where I feel the need to sit back relax and enjoy! After all if I wanted a quick shag I would go to blythswood sq lmao but I'm here for friends!! But I'm a shy guy with confidence issues so sometimes I don't know what they like to hear about me or my thoughts .... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's definately a bit of a lottery for you guys. A woman can have her pick of guys so you do need to put in some effort. There are some women who'll have a quick chat then meet, however there are women who want to take some time. It's so off putting when I answer a guy and he goes crazy sending messages...just seems desperate, yuck. It's been said before but, patience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We will tend to give a polite no thanks, we will not find everyone attractive just like they won't us, honesty is the best policy in this instance
Mr"
Yep the guys can relate to that(single) |
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