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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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would you meet anyone without seeing who you where going to meet????
asked if i would meet i said send a picture and ill send one back.
A.sorry do don't picture ?????? ![](/icons/s/eek.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think that most people would admit that you have to like the look of someone before you indulge in whatever you do.
Pictures of someones ass, a cock shot or the black outline is in my opinion not enticing, but for obvious reasons people like to be discrete, however speaking for myself would always ask for a face picture before going to meet someone...but that leads on to picture issues, how old the pictures are etc. |
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"I think that most people would admit that you have to like the look of someone before you indulge in whatever you do.
Pictures of someones ass, a cock shot or the black outline is in my opinion not enticing, but for obvious reasons people like to be discrete, however speaking for myself would always ask for a face picture before going to meet someone...but that leads on to picture issues, how old the pictures are etc."
mine r as old as my skinniest time lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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no we would never meet without seeing pictures, if we arent physically attracted to the people we defo wouldnt play!
im sorry to say but the people who say will meet regardless of looks, size or age gives out one word only ......"desperate". |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"no we would never meet without seeing pictures, if we arent physically attracted to the people we defo wouldnt play!
im sorry to say but the people who say will meet regardless of looks, size or age gives out one word only ......"desperate"."
Couldn't agree more. Always insist on seeing face pics. How would you even recognise the people you are going to meet if you don't ![](/icons/s/confused.gif) |
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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago
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"no we would never meet without seeing pictures, if we arent physically attracted to the people we defo wouldnt play!
im sorry to say but the people who say will meet regardless of looks, size or age gives out one word only ......"desperate".
Couldn't agree more. Always insist on seeing face pics. How would you even recognise the people you are going to meet if you don't "
you can spot me a mile off xix - I'm the one in A&E, bleeding and laughing at everyone else ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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nope i wouldnt meet with out seeing pic and wouldnt exspect a person to meet me with out seeing mine .
as people have said ,whats the use if theres absolutly no attraction there ? waste of their time and your own .people are going to see you face to face anyway ,so whats the problem sending a pic or putting cam on for a sec ?? shows A) that persons genuine B)you know then who you are looking for if you then decide to go ahead with the meet and no shocks .
personally id rather not turn up and see im obviously not the kinda person they are looking for . shockingly not everyone likes size 14 ,short arse red heads with a goth type look lol .i know im not gonna be everyones cuppa tea,so i send a picture and avoids that being an issue .
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By *if42Man
over a year ago
dundee |
Nope..personally prefer to see a pic and also for them to have seen me so at least there's a little physwical attraction both ways. Thereafter personality...sense of humour...attitude etc definitely comes into it...hell what am I on a bout...I'd be happy just to get chatting *lol* |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we were going to invite you to meet us in a glasgow hotel on the 28th dec Rif.obviously no point."
really???? well i sure you will manage to find someone that will meet you without an exchange of pictures. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Need to see pics first. There has to be a mutual attraction. Not gonna shag anyone that looks like Cecil the conductor in Vicar of Dibley that says he looks like Tom Cruise but has no pics! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We do all the time. As I do not send mine,
Everyone takes their privacy differently, To us it is essential.
We always meet in a pub and give a brief description there has never been a problem in recognising the people we are meeting. and if they are not what we are looking for, saying no thanks is never a problem and no offence is ever taken, after all there does have to be a attraction between all parties.
Their is also the problem that the photo's can be copied and used elsewhere!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"nope i wouldnt meet with out seeing pic and wouldnt exspect a person to meet me with out seeing mine .
as people have said ,whats the use if theres absolutly no attraction there ? waste of their time and your own .people are going to see you face to face anyway ,so whats the problem sending a pic or putting cam on for a sec ?? shows A) that persons genuine B)you know then who you are looking for if you then decide to go ahead with the meet and no shocks .
personally id rather not turn up and see im obviously not the kinda person they are looking for . shockingly not everyone likes size 14 ,short arse red heads with a goth type look lol .i know im not gonna be everyones cuppa tea,so i send a picture and avoids that being an issue .
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I dunno a size 14 short arse red head sounds quite appealing |
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By *if42Man
over a year ago
dundee |
"We do all the time. As I do not send mine,
Everyone takes their privacy differently, To us it is essential.
We always meet in a pub and give a brief description there has never been a problem in recognising the people we are meeting. and if they are not what we are looking for, saying no thanks is never a problem and no offence is ever taken, after all there does have to be a attraction between all parties.
Their is also the problem that the photo's can be copied and used elsewhere!
" ...suppose thats not so bad for local meets but not so good if it's a long distance meet. Fully understand where your coming from though...as I said before each to their own ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By *if42Man
over a year ago
dundee |
"well thank you for that athena.someone who thinks the same as us." ...well now that I know the missus is a bald 6'4 amazon - from another thread - that might explain no pics *lol*...only teasing honest ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"well thank you for that athena.someone who thinks the same as us."
Great to hear it, you get so many refusals after you say no, but what the hell! If your privacy is important don't send it. Meeting face to face means you see who you are meeting whereas when you send your photo and they know you, do they send theirs in return, I think not. xx |
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By *if42Man
over a year ago
dundee |
......see I never see the point in doing something like that...when you meet it becomes apparent...why go all the way to meet someone - assuming it's not local only for it to go pear shaped cause your not like your pic...guess I've a lot to learn! |
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