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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Does anyone look at a profiles interest list and compare what they like and what you like as well?
I always have. I check their profiles before deciding if I should respond to their mail. Nothing worse than meeting someone who likes the opposite lol
But it seems to be more people don't according to some messages |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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first thing to look at i would say ,saves a lot of wasted time .Immense patience required to find compatible play mates who actually do want to meet and happy to be discreet as well .can be worth the wait though. |
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Interest lists are just that.
I have a few interests but don't carry out each list I have on every meet because it all depends on my mood on the day if I fancy doing something on one meet I might not be interested in doing it on another.
It's all about preferences but not all preferences are set in stone for me .  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Interest lists are just that.
I have a few interests but don't carry out each list I have on every meet because it all depends on my mood on the day if I fancy doing something on one meet I might not be interested in doing it on another.
It's all about preferences but not all preferences are set in stone for me . "
Very true, nothing is set in stone but if their only interested are DP, water sports and fisting (which aren't my interests) I certainly won't bend my interests to reply lol |
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Yes I tend to. Seems the sensible thing to do. But then i suppose theres no harm looking at someones profile who is into different things.
Sometimes the whole thing can ve a big learning curve if your ready to make that jump?  |
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To be honest the interest list is rather lacking options as it stands, and should be separated into 3 sections: Giving/receiving/in common. Would save a lot of grief and confusion, plus if some one was interested in trying other things they could just write that on their profile in stead.
I do actually read others interests, yet I just clicked some for myself that I may have only tried once in my whole life, but it "interested me" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anyone look at a profiles interest list and compare what they like and what you like as well?
I always have. I check their profiles before deciding if I should respond to their mail. Nothing worse than meeting someone who likes the opposite lol
But it seems to be more people don't according to some messages "
Ive never really believed a profile in the past 9 years on here.
Apart from the initial itenary that you look for.Most profile dialogues in what people seek and in others is never a true reflection in cases.
Chatting is your best source of connection,
Good Luck x
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Yeah exactly. Sometimes the person has said too much that you don't know what to believe or there is nothing left to talk about. Or absolutely nothing and you think "hmm well they clearly don't want to make an effort so I know where their prerogatives lie" |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Does anyone look at a profiles interest list and compare what they like and what you like as well?
I always have. I check their profiles before deciding if I should respond to their mail. Nothing worse than meeting someone who likes the opposite lol
But it seems to be more people don't according to some messages
Ive never really believed a profile in the past 9 years on here.
Apart from the initial itenary that you look for.Most profile dialogues in what people seek and in others is never a true reflection in cases.
Chatting is your best source of connection,
Good Luck x
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I've been on and off here for 3 years. It's not luck I need, just some common sense would do it for coming back again lol |
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
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I do look but its not the be all of things also take into account profile wording and pics ..also just chatting can give you a real sense of whether your compatible or not people may have an interest in something but that may not be a reguisite for a meet  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No I prefer to talk to the person. but nasty old me im likely to see who their veris are from and if from those I find undesirable I wouldnt even converse with them "
So you judge others simply because you don't like the people they've met, seems fair  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The list definitely needs updating.. where is kissing??
I agree.......also, where is Exhibitionism ??"
Yes please to both ... Lets start a petition to have them added  |
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