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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm sure this will have been discussed but I was chatting with a lovely lady, part of a couple, and was looking to arrange a meet. That is until she posted a pic of her going bareback. I asked if she goes BB in regular meets. She said she did, so I decided not to go ahead with the meet. What would you guys have done?
PS. Not sure if she blocked me or has left the site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Better to be safe than sorry bareback with long term fuckbuddy. Actually enjoy condoms I know most men hate them but its a vital part of protection . Everyone should get checked out . If for peace of mind as most std have no syndromes . |
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"I'd have made myself a bacon sandwich. "
lol' at this and have no idea why.
I was on a meet last week and person asked me if I liked bareback but it's not an option with me, unless it's with a long term person who doesn't sleep with others without protection etc |
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By *andG4moreCouple
over a year ago
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Lol ur own safety is your own business.
Folks say all the time they play protected yet have bareback pics on their profile and that is entirely up to them.
Would not of made any difference to us as we would of played with condom.
We take the view that everyone plays bare and we protect ourselves accordingly. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Lol ur own safety is your own business.
Folks say all the time they play protected yet have bareback pics on their profile and that is entirely up to them.
Would not of made any difference to us as we would of played with condom.
We take the view that everyone plays bare and we protect ourselves accordingly."
Fair dos, I just like to know anyone I meet has the same attitude towards healthy and safe sex as I do. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How old are you? Cant you make your own decisions?"
Thanks for the insightful contribution. Of course I can make up my own mind, in fact I did. I was merely trying gauge how other people felt about it, isn't that what the forum is about? |
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Is really a matter for informed adults to decide when together. Really should not be the concern of any other individual.
And the I would never go with that person because they have gone bareback with another and consequently are either unhealthy or unsafe attitude is simply ridiculous. In my opinion of course.
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But if she does go bareback (btw I think you made the right decision not to bareback), you could have still met and used a condom? Or was she refusing to use any? If you do the glovin' lovin' then you are protected......
Btw, sorry if I've got the situation all wrong.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks guys. That was a damn sight easier than my last post. Think I'll give up on the Forum  "
Probably best. It doesn't sound like you've got the mind set to deal with the wide variety of people who are perfectly entitled to post their views and opinions on here, whether you like them or not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How old are you? Cant you make your own decisions?"
What's with the negativity ???!!!
Attitudes and comments like that put people off from contributing to the forum.
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"How old are you? Cant you make your own decisions?"
I pretty sure the op said in his opening message that he did indeed make his own decision.
He was asking what others would have done in the same position.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How old are you? Cant you make your own decisions?I pretty sure the op said in his opening message that he did indeed make his own decision.
He was asking what others would have done in the same position. "
Thanks Nawty; always seem to get a balanced and helpful contribution from you. (Lame attempt at flirting, but true nonetheless lol)  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Thanks guys. That was a damn sight easier than my last post. Think I'll give up on the Forum
Probably best. It doesn't sound like you've got the mind set to deal with the wide variety of people who are perfectly entitled to post their views and opinions on here, whether you like them or not."
It wasn't people's opinions that frustrated me, it was that they didn't understand the point I was trying to make. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"But if she does go bareback (btw I think you made the right decision not to bareback), you could have still met and used a condom? Or was she refusing to use any? If you do the glovin' lovin' then you are protected......
Btw, sorry if I've got the situation all wrong.."
You're right, I could have agreed to meet and use a condom. It's just a personal choice I make. In fairness to the couple concerned, they don't list Safe Sex on their profile, so I should have spotted it earlier. I value all constructive comments, thanks for yours. |
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"How old are you? Cant you make your own decisions?I pretty sure the op said in his opening message that he did indeed make his own decision.
He was asking what others would have done in the same position.
Thanks Nawty; always seem to get a balanced and helpful contribution from you. (Lame attempt at flirting, but true nonetheless lol) "
thank you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ok ...
So someone states on their profile they practice Safe Sex.They could possibly have Safe Sex with you.How can you be so sure that they have had Safe Sex with others.
Periodic health checks are paramount on a Swinging Site.
Good Luck
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