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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi folks, is it just me or are people still hesitant with whether a profile is genuine or not despite it being verified? Maybe I'm just being too cautious  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi folks, is it just me or are people still hesitant with whether a profile is genuine or not despite it being verified? Maybe I'm just being too cautious "
Theres nothing wrong in being cautious.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe with just 1 verification but not if there are several as you can possibly then confirm that way. Cautious is always good. Oh, & you never see a bad verification posted.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I fully understand why people will not meet without verifications but it is very hard to get a meet initially to get one. It is like going to a nightclub and being told it is regulars only. How do I become a regular then if I can't get in? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I fully understand why people will not meet without verifications but it is very hard to get a meet initially to get one. It is like going to a nightclub and being told it is regulars only. How do I become a regular then if I can't get in? "
Head to a social or club for a night and you should pick a couple up. |
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By *andACouple
over a year ago
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"Hi folks, is it just me or are people still hesitant with whether a profile is genuine or not despite it being verified? Maybe I'm just being too cautious "
Yes. Some verifications seem to be very circular with a profile being verified within minutes of being created and then when you follow the verifications you see the same 2 or 3 profiles all verifying each other and no one esle. Doesn't necessarily mean they are fake but it sets alarm bells ringing for me. |
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By *uttyMan
over a year ago
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"Hi folks, is it just me or are people still hesitant with whether a profile is genuine or not despite it being verified? Maybe I'm just being too cautious
Yes. Some verifications seem to be very circular with a profile being verified within minutes of being created and then when you follow the verifications you see the same 2 or 3 profiles all verifying each other and no one esle. Doesn't necessarily mean they are fake but it sets alarm bells ringing for me."
This, and the fact the people they've met have only the one veri, and have been on over a year   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm always suspicious of people who have been on for over a year and have yet to be verified."
It takes no time at all for someone to jump on camera and get verified. Or as people have already suggested get their bum to a club or social and get verified. Simple. We won't entertain someone who has been on for that length of time with no verification.
Now actually getting a hot meet, well good things come to those who wait 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All very valid points , always wondered about cam verifications although I understand that due to time a social meet etc cannot be done so a can veri can show that you match your pics before a meet
Always prefer a social meet as I think it leads to better fun meet if organised x |
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i never chat with non-verified. As others have said, it takes literally 1-2 mins to get photo verified which to me means more than a tick... I'm just overly suspiciously so verified by way of a photo and meet is best for me lol.
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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago
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"I'm always very catious regardless of veris.... especially after the last Diddy "
Some years ago, I was chatting to a lady who in the course of the conversation, commented that she'd had a meet a couple of days previously.
She admitted that she'd given the guy a good veri, even though she wouldn't be meeting him again because the meet hadn't been that great!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm always very catious regardless of veris.... especially after the last Diddy
Some years ago, I was chatting to a lady who in the course of the conversation, commented that she'd had a meet a couple of days previously.
She admitted that she'd given the guy a good veri, even though she wouldn't be meeting him again because the meet hadn't been that great!! "
Yeah, I've done this too. Sadly, more than once. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive met a cracking women on here twice now and she hasnt verified me for either meet. We are hopeful again of meeting up next month.
Im not bothered about her not verifying me as Im aware that some dont like verifying others, and I would rather not risk losing the opportunity of further meets with her by badgering her for a verification. |
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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago
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"I'm always very catious regardless of veris.... especially after the last Diddy
Some years ago, I was chatting to a lady who in the course of the conversation, commented that she'd had a meet a couple of days previously.
She admitted that she'd given the guy a good veri, even though she wouldn't be meeting him again because the meet hadn't been that great!!
Yeah, I've done this too. Sadly, more than once. "
I'm sorry, but I don't understand the logic. What's the point? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well follow a few verifications to see who posted them. It's usually pretty obvious when it's someone with a couple of accounts verifying themselves. "
Spot on  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I fully understand why people will not meet without verifications but it is very hard to get a meet initially to get one. It is like going to a nightclub and being told it is regulars only. How do I become a regular then if I can't get in? "
My experience exactly. Presumably veris are important as a lot of returning members with new profiles ask for their former friends/meets to reverify them. |
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