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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Wouldnt it be great if there was a detector. That warns you of the timewasters. The picture collectors . The fakes men kidding on there females.
Jezzo just think how much easier it would be on here.?: ??
Really need patience on here so many people getting worning down with it . |
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"Wouldnt it be great if there was a detector. That warns you of the timewasters. The picture collectors . The fakes men kidding on there females.
Jezzo just think how much easier it would be on here.?: ??
Really need patience on here so many people getting worning down with it ."
I'm not being funny but I think you must be very unlucky to experience all of that.
Yes I too have had timewasters fake profiles (both men and women) as I'm sure most of us on here have.
But it's not been that many in all my years on here.
Maybe you should tighten up your filters mooe and start doing your own search for meets?
I'm sure it would cut down a good bit on these types of users. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This site is overrun with fake profiles,weirdos that've screenshot girls pics so they can get there cheap thrills by pretending to be them!.... it's ruining it for the genuine folk  |
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"This site is overrun with fake profiles,weirdos that've screenshot girls pics so they can get there cheap thrills by pretending to be them!.... it's ruining it for the genuine folk "
its the folk who preach about "genuine folk" I worry about |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wouldnt it be great if there was a detector. That warns you of the timewasters. The picture collectors . The fakes men kidding on there females.
Jezzo just think how much easier it would be on here.?: ??
Really need patience on here so many people getting worning down with it ."
Had this thought for ages..shouldnt be able to do or see anything till you get photo verified
Get rid of fakes  |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
I've chatted to a few profiles that have set alarm bells ringing - men and women 'tend' to type/write differently. Its an immediate warning.
As for picture collectors - my pics are so boring they have never bothered.
I don't enter into sex chat on here as I just find it tedious.
Never had a timewaster in over 4 years (well other than the hours I have wasted on here by choice lol) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Think your private photos have people saying anything to become friends so they get to see them ??
There is people who it is all a fantasy cheaper than premier phone calls cheap
Thrills really . The longer your on here more chance of finding all that I mentioned ?? |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
"Think your private photos have people saying anything to become friends so they get to see them ??
There is people who it is all a fantasy cheaper than premier phone calls cheap
Thrills really . The longer your on here more chance of finding all that I mentioned ??"
Nope, I am clear my friends list is for people I actually want to meet - its not facebook and "collect a pal"
Fantasists are usually easy to spot within a message or 2 - those that rush for the sex chat or sexy pictures are cut a short shrift.
Been on here 4 yrs plus, and honestly, if it annoyed me that much, I'd vote with my tootsies and leave. |
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"Think your private photos have people saying anything to become friends so they get to see them ??
There is people who it is all a fantasy cheaper than premier phone calls cheap
Thrills really . The longer your on here more chance of finding all that I mentioned ??
Nope, I am clear my friends list is for people I actually want to meet - its not facebook and "collect a pal"
Fantasists are usually easy to spot within a message or 2 - those that rush for the sex chat or sexy pictures are cut a short shrift.
Been on here 4 yrs plus, and honestly, if it annoyed me that much, I'd vote with my tootsies and leave."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Its Dosnt annoy me that much. Its all part and pracel on here. Its a free site. Its going to attract people who have no intention of meet. Its just a form of Entertaiment . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My detector system is based on certain basic rules.
- if I don't receive a reply to my email them forget it and move on
- if it sounds to good to be true then it probably is too good to be true
- for a 50 plus gent on here there are also plenty of filters so we don't generally require much in the way of detectors anyhow LOL |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This site is overrun with fake profiles,weirdos that've screenshot girls pics so they can get there cheap thrills by pretending to be them!.... it's ruining it for the genuine folk its the folk who preach about "genuine folk" I worry about"
Coming from the guy that writes saught instead of sought  |
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"This site is overrun with fake profiles,weirdos that've screenshot girls pics so they can get there cheap thrills by pretending to be them!.... it's ruining it for the genuine folk its the folk who preach about "genuine folk" I worry about
Coming from the guy that writes saught instead of sought "
lol grammar police really |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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I think sometimes when the angst is significantly heightened, it a self warning system that people are taking this malarky too seriously and have everything invested in swinging.....
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think sometimes when the angst is significantly heightened, it a self warning system that people are taking this malarky too seriously and have everything invested in swinging.....
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Good point _iew yes need to take a step back and remember its ment to be fun. Also you are in control . |
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By *rallvalCouple
over a year ago
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Had this thought for ages..shouldnt be able to do or see anything till you get photo verified
Get rid of fakes "
Except we have been on here since pretty much the start and have never been photo verified. |
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By *rallvalCouple
over a year ago
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"Wouldnt it be great if there was a detector. That warns you of the timewasters. The picture collectors . The fakes men kidding on there females.
Jezzo just think how much easier it would be on here.?: ??
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We have a fairly strict filter system; we wink/message, then move onto webcam verification, it is amazing just how many 'couples' have their webcam break down just at the start of a skype call.
If that happens then we suggest a phone call between women to verify. Then you get the 'she has just popped out for a while' or 'she lost her voice'.
Nobody has yet tried to put on a high pitched voice and try it like a panto dame.
Then a Social meet to see if we all click, we have yet to have a timewaster at the meet stage although we have twice has a couple split up between the social and a play meet..... not sure if it was anything to do with us! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This site is overrun with fake profiles,weirdos that've screenshot girls pics so they can get there cheap thrills by pretending to be them!.... it's ruining it for the genuine folk its the folk who preach about "genuine folk" I worry about"
Me tae
One Persons Genuine is Another Persons Fake
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wasted 2.5 hours on Sunday morning travelling to meet a couple on here. Surprisingly they went offline 30mins before our meet and never came back on.
I now see that they, or as I suspect the male, have now left the site. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I wasted 2.5 hours on Sunday morning travelling to meet a couple on here. Surprisingly they went offline 30mins before our meet and never came back on.
I now see that they, or as I suspect the male, have now left the site."
That is bang out of order. No need for that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ah I'm on gd behaviour for a while. but if u find any satisfying males feel free to give me a holler lol  "
Good behaviour, means you must be storing something up for when your out on the pull lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wasted 2.5 hours on Sunday morning travelling to meet a couple on here. Surprisingly they went offline 30mins before our meet and never came back on.
I now see that they, or as I suspect the male, have now left the site.
That is bang out of order. No need for that."
Quite right, there is no need for people being rude and ignorant to others. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Think ill post myself on eBay .
Looking for hot man . Who likes banter, laughs, lots of sex and must buy me cakes .
In return many great day/ nights b&b. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Think ill post myself on eBay .
Looking for hot man . Who likes banter, laughs, lots of sex and must buy me cakes .
In return many great day/ nights b&b."
Do you accept pay pal? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Think ill post myself on eBay .
Looking for hot man . Who likes banter, laughs, lots of sex and must buy me cakes .
In return many great day/ nights b&b."
You'll crash the internet with an advert like that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't tend to go on the pull lol If it happens it happens. x
And there will be many on here who hope that it does indeed happen 
wouldn't be too sure. "
I find that surprising, but will take that at face value. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think sometimes when the angst is significantly heightened, it a self warning system that people are taking this malarky too seriously and have everything invested in swinging.....
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I was going to say exactly that. I would just give a big  to fakes and timewasters and toddle off on my merry way. If I didn't then I'd be the one with the wee problem. Real life has way more to concern me. |
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