was getting messages from someone, wanting a meet,.... blah, blah, blah...
i wasn't convinced they were genuine but chatted for a bit to see if they were genuine...
they were so they said dying to meet this weekend. I'm doing nothing tonight anyway, but will be dolled up.
As I'm doing nowt anyway and have no plans a no-show wouldn't have bothered me all that much, So I decided to call their bluff and said "come up on sunday night"....
checked my mails there only to find
**(user no longer on site)
sooo many fantasists around  |
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I don't know if it's always the case they are just having a fantasy to themselves. People vanish for many reasons. Fab is way down the list of priorities for most and life takes over.
Maybe they also just got nervous and didn't know how to say.
Some vanish periodically because of guilt or shame or just because they scratched the itch and now they are done. Some come back some don't.
And it's their perogative to do so. |
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"I don't know if it's always the case they are just having a fantasy to themselves.
Maybe they also just got nervous and didn't know how to say.
Some vanish periodically because of guilt or shame or just because they scratched the itch and now they are done. Some come back some don't.
And it's their perogative to do so. "
i kinda disagree on that i'm afraid.
if i hadn't been somewhat battle hardened and cynical to an extent due to having seen it all before, and had got all excited about the prospect of a meet I would be pissed off..
what if i myself hadn't had many meets and had actually specifically arranged my limited free time to accomodate a meet tonight?.....a meet that clearly wouldn't have happened? That's not on and people shouldnt join a swinging site unless their actually going to go through with things and meet someone..... if they just want to wank about the fantasy, they should stick to skype  |
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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago
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"I don't know if it's always the case they are just having a fantasy to themselves.
Maybe they also just got nervous and didn't know how to say.
Some vanish periodically because of guilt or shame or just because they scratched the itch and now they are done. Some come back some don't.
And it's their perogative to do so.
i kinda disagree on that i'm afraid.
if i hadn't been somewhat battle hardened and cynical to an extent due to having seen it all before, and had got all excited about the prospect of a meet I would be pissed off..
what if i myself hadn't had many meets and had actually specifically arranged my limited free time to accomodate a meet tonight?.....a meet that clearly wouldn't have happened? That's not on and people shouldnt join a swinging site unless their actually going to go through with things and meet someone..... if they just want to wank about the fantasy, they should stick to skype "
 Saw one very recently, another reason for UNLOS is when someone has had more than one profile but eventually decides to discard one.
You see it all on here.  |
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"I don't know if it's always the case they are just having a fantasy to themselves.
Maybe they also just got nervous and didn't know how to say.
Some vanish periodically because of guilt or shame or just because they scratched the itch and now they are done. Some come back some don't.
And it's their perogative to do so.
i kinda disagree on that i'm afraid.
if i hadn't been somewhat battle hardened and cynical to an extent due to having seen it all before, and had got all excited about the prospect of a meet I would be pissed off..
what if i myself hadn't had many meets and had actually specifically arranged my limited free time to accomodate a meet tonight?.....a meet that clearly wouldn't have happened? That's not on and people shouldnt join a swinging site unless their actually going to go through with things and meet someone..... if they just want to wank about the fantasy, they should stick to skype
Saw one very recently, another reason for UNLOS is when someone has had more than one profile but eventually decides to discard one.
You see it all on here. "
2 profiles? well I've heard it all now,that's ridiculous bothy |
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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago
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"I don't know if it's always the case they are just having a fantasy to themselves.
Maybe they also just got nervous and didn't know how to say.
Some vanish periodically because of guilt or shame or just because they scratched the itch and now they are done. Some come back some don't.
And it's their perogative to do so.
i kinda disagree on that i'm afraid.
if i hadn't been somewhat battle hardened and cynical to an extent due to having seen it all before, and had got all excited about the prospect of a meet I would be pissed off..
what if i myself hadn't had many meets and had actually specifically arranged my limited free time to accomodate a meet tonight?.....a meet that clearly wouldn't have happened? That's not on and people shouldnt join a swinging site unless their actually going to go through with things and meet someone..... if they just want to wank about the fantasy, they should stick to skype
Saw one very recently, another reason for UNLOS is when someone has had more than one profile but eventually decides to discard one.
You see it all on here. 2 profiles? well I've heard it all now,that's ridiculous bothy "
Absolutely, shouldn't be allowed.  |
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