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Why block
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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OK this has always bugged me, when u msg someone nicely n u get a msg back saying thanks but no thanks, when u msg to say OK cool have fun they have blocked u? I can understand if u was nasty or was bugging her after she had said no but to just block??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Saves them coming across you again, or you mistakenly messaging someone who has already declined your offer. It's not personal, it's a time saving tool for some. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Saves them coming across you again, or you mistakenly messaging someone who has already declined your offer. It's not personal, it's a time saving tool for some. "
But I have a gd memory so once declined they don't get second chance lol but I know not everyone is like that so yeah I understand |
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I've sent a thanks but no thanks to several guys only to be messaged by them later. Blocking stops further contact if they're not what I'm looking for. |
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By *cotscplCouple
over a year ago
Inverclyde |
Often there is no need to block someone, but after the 3rd time of asking from the same person thats when we block. Unfortunately happens too often. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Often there is no need to block someone, but after the 3rd time of asking from the same person thats when we block. Unfortunately happens too often. "
Yeah I can understand if u bug them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes a no thanks message can result in an abusive one back. Easier to block and avoid it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Probably stop that person from sending multiple messages..then harsh ones after that |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sometimes a no thanks message can result in an abusive one back. Easier to block and avoid it"
I understand that but most know ur get them if u get one easy report then block but not all of us are like that,
But I get to see why it happens thank you all |
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By *cotscplCouple
over a year ago
Inverclyde |
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By *cotscplCouple
over a year ago
Inverclyde |
"Sometimes a no thanks message can result in an abusive one back. Easier to block and avoid it"
Agree as often get abusive replies when rejecting some peoples messages (nicely of course) |
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Have never sent an offensive or abusive text when advances have been declined and never really become upset at a thanks but no thanks if there is a response.
What I do find totally ignorant is somebody who actively engages with you then blocks for no reason other than they have seen a face pic or whatever.
If you start speaking to someone in the street do you just walk away without even saying goodbye or whatever? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Have never sent an offensive or abusive text when advances have been declined and never really become upset at a thanks but no thanks if there is a response.
What I do find totally ignorant is somebody who actively engages with you then blocks for no reason other than they have seen a face pic or whatever.
If you start speaking to someone in the street do you just walk away without even saying goodbye or whatever?"
Yeah I've had that to chatting for a while exchange pics n boom gone n blocked |
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
south east |
Why take it personal mores the question ..people will use the site the way they want as im sure you will  |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Angus & Findhorn |
because I have zero interest in them, what they have to say or usually what teensy weeny drama they have going on in their 'played out all for to witness' life.......
and I don't give a shit who I am blocked by for the very same reason |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Angus & Findhorn |
weensy* |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If a lady or a couple decline my invitation of a sexy encounter then I block them so I don't embarrass myself and message them again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because there's a lot of arrogant weirdos on here. I Only block people if there abusive, sick, or if I know them and its to close home. |
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"Why take it personal mores the question ..people will use the site the way they want as im sure you will "
Because common decency and manners cost nothing. Easy really |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OK this has always bugged me, when u msg someone nicely n u get a msg back saying thanks but no thanks, when u msg to say OK cool have fun they have blocked u? I can understand if u was nasty or was bugging her after she had said no but to just block??? "
Don't worry; people who block are good, they do you a favour
consider them as trash taking themselves out to the bin  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What I don't understand is why people feel the need to reply to "no thanks". But then I have no manners...    |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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By *teve_D1Man
over a year ago
Edinburgh |
Saves trawling through profiles that I know I have contacted and my message has deleted with no reply.
Makes things much easier really, nothing personal just easier way to look through profiles. Although there is the occasional fruitcake I have blocked deservedly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We block people we don't think are for us because we get a lot of mail and cant remember everyone we speak to so we use it as a kind of filter. Sometimes we can be chatting for a while before deciding people arent for us so we just block. Its nothing personal usually just our way of choosing who's for us and who's not |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We block people we don't think are for us because we get a lot of mail and cant remember everyone we speak to so we use it as a kind of filter. Sometimes we can be chatting for a while before deciding people arent for us so we just block. Its nothing personal usually just our way of choosing who's for us and who's not "
most on hear are not for me, I would have a huge list if following that method, but if it works for you, great |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OK this has always bugged me, when u msg someone nicely n u get a msg back saying thanks but no thanks, when u msg to say OK cool have fun they have blocked u? I can understand if u was nasty or was bugging her after she had said no but to just block??? "
Females and Couples recieve hundreds of messages.Some Men cant accept "Thanks But No Thanks".They also Block because it also saves them answering you again 3 weeks down the line.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Actually takes a lot for us to block, always a last resort |
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Because you are of no intrest to them its really that simple |
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