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how to enjoy the site as a new single guy

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

As a new member to the site. I'm finding it hard to get people's attention. I know it's coz I'm a single guy, but it can't be this hard to get a conversation going. Can it ?

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By *haostimeMan over a year ago

north Glasgow

It's not just you bud, I'm the same, and been on it a while now. I reckon it's just due to that many jokers on it. I have encountered a few decent, legit people, they are there, you just need to try and find them and delete the Muppets

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By *oobsandballsMan over a year ago

st andrews

Ok, here's my tuppence worth...

All your pics are friends only, so nothing to look at

Not much of a profile, doesn't say what you're looking for or what you can offer

And if your messages are basically "hi" people will delete them.

Many people, women in particular will look at your profile before reading your message. If there's nothing for them to read/see, they'll ignore you.

Hope that helps

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Ok, here's my tuppence worth...

All your pics are friends only, so nothing to look at

Not much of a profile, doesn't say what you're looking for or what you can offer

And if your messages are basically "hi" people will delete them.

Many people, women in particular will look at your profile before reading your message. If there's nothing for them to read/see, they'll ignore you.

Hope that helps "

Thanks. I'll try re-jig the profile.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's not just you bud, I'm the same, and been on it a while now. I reckon it's just due to that many jokers on it. I have encountered a few decent, legit people, they are there, you just need to try and find them and delete the Muppets"

Im Animal

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By *ringiton89Man over a year ago

Glasgow

Hang on in there pal

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"As a new member to the site. I'm finding it hard to get people's attention. I know it's coz I'm a single guy, but it can't be this hard to get a conversation going. Can it ?"

Patience Respectful Preperation Discretion Honesty and Be Yourself

Good Luck

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"As a new member to the site. I'm finding it hard to get people's attention. I know it's coz I'm a single guy, but it can't be this hard to get a conversation going. Can it ?"

Ill talk to you . Local man. Blether away.

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By *cotscplCouple over a year ago

Inverclyde

"Ok, here's my tuppence worth...

All your pics are friends only, so nothing to look at

Not much of a profile, doesn't say what you're looking for or what you can offer

And if your messages are basically "hi" people will delete them.

Many people, women in particular will look at your profile before reading your message. If there's nothing for them to read/see, they'll ignore you.

Hope that helps "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OK this is new profile long story why but mynlast one was 4 years old and I had 20 verifications pics on show n it was still hard to get msgs back, and now I'm starting again its even harder I'm lucky I've caught up with old friends n even new ones since being back, just stick in there, read profiles before msging add some from there profile in ur msg so they know u can read lol only send face pics to start with if they want more they will ask.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don't try to hard, just join the chat, and remember there are a good crowd of folk in the chat room too, for some reason most people who post on forum keep out of the chat room, no idea why but they are missing out.

Give it time and you may find a few contacts, start with friends and see where it flows

Ditch your full nude pic, if it is actually you in the pic, someone will eventually find it that knows you and could get embarrassing.

remember there are other forums just as good as this one, join a few, keep your options open

and last of all, speak your mind, make sure your not a crawler who agrees with everything the females say on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"As a new member to the site. I'm finding it hard to get people's attention. I know it's coz I'm a single guy, but it can't be this hard to get a conversation going. Can it ?

Ill talk to you . Local man. Blether away."

Not until the contract is signed though lol ??

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By *oobsandballsMan over a year ago

st andrews

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By *oobsandballsMan over a year ago

st andrews

Some helpful hints there. Also, we're women, not 'females'

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Well thanks guys. All good advice. That is me in the pictures. All of them lol plus I don't see how it can get messy for me, but thanks for the advice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Well thanks guys. All good advice. That is me in the pictures. All of them lol plus I don't see how it can get messy for me, but thanks for the advice.

Sorry, before anyone gets upset........

And thank you ladies