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Dom ,Sub or Switch?
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over a year ago
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"What is it you all like about being either sub or dom ?"
For me it's the thrill of his responses. The way I can let my imagination go and keep him guessing.
Knowing that at that moment he's desperate for more of me.
Seeing him writhing under my touch. Groaning or moaning or that sharp intake of breath all because of me.
It's a little bit about control for me sometimes though not that much.
It's more of an ego boost and making sure I win the place as the one who gives more pleasure than anyone else. Sounds dumb but it's the truth of it.
Of course there are times I also take what I want too but that's not usually the motivator.
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Definitely sub.
I'm so "in charge" of my daily life, organised, making decisions etc. I love to give that up to someone I trust in the bedroom and be told what to do.
In previous times it was more about how I felt about myself, that I somehow deserved to be made to be dirty. I let it go to far and it was really messed me up. I mentally in a much better place and a much better person has helped me enjoy my sub side safely.
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For me being Dom, is about the tease and the control. The ability to give pleasure and excitement, the psychological edge adding to the thrill of the sex. It is not and never will be for me, just an excuse to Spank a girl or have rough sex that's not being Dom its part of the arsenal of things you can employ but in and of itself that's not it. The key for me is to to get inside the subs head, working out the rewards and punishments that will excite the most. |
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I'm genuinely switch - just as happy in charge or in bondage
It all depends on the lady.... Dominant ladies bring out the sub in me easily and I'll find myself naturally submitting to them, sometimes without even realizing it!
On the other side, a submissive lady will bring out my Dom side and I'll take as much control as she's comfortable letting me have.
What can I say.. cake and eat it |
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"I'm genuinely switch - just as happy in charge or in bondage
It all depends on the lady.... Dominant ladies bring out the sub in me easily and I'll find myself naturally submitting to them, sometimes without even realizing it!
On the other side, a submissive lady will bring out my Dom side and I'll take as much control as she's comfortable letting me have.
What can I say.. cake and eat it"
: you've done it now switch you've mentioned the C word   |
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Switch but slightly more Dom. I do love it when I get a woman who can really dominate me. Make me do things I wouldn't normally do.
Do love rope play. Me meting the dom in that. |
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"What is it you all like about being either sub or dom ?"
So far been dom. Always wanted to explore whether I have a sub side ibut never met a lassie who wanted to play that way.
I enjoy the feeling of trust that having somebody give themselves to you that fully. Aye, there is a sense of power and control there but, more than that, I enjoy the feeling that they have given themselves over to me, to do as I see fit. Not just to inflict pain or humiliation, but to care for and protect. |
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