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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Fed up with them on this site arrange a meet turn up on time while there still chatting on here and kik only for them not to show then get blocked when ask where they were

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By *oobsandballsMan over a year ago

st andrews

So what do you suggest is done about it?

If you use the search function you'll see there are numerous threads on this subject

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

As far as im concened there should be a way to name them to warn others

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By *oobsandballsMan over a year ago

st andrews

And all those threads explain why that won't work. Have a read of them

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

But whats the point in doing it all it takes is a message saying sorry they have changed there mind before the meet

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By *oobsandballsMan over a year ago

st andrews

There is no point. Perhaps they get a kick out of it.

But by naming and shaming, you earn yourself a ban as its against the site rules, and it also makes people think they can't trust you as you are not discreet so actually makes you look worse.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Its shit but happens in everything in life. I only meet people who are verified because it shows they have at least been genuine at some point but never a guarantee either.

Put it down to experience & move on xx

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By *ifes journeyCouple over a year ago

scotland

Follow your gut....don't swap numbers and open yourself up until you know and feel in your gut they are genuine.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Never give out my phone number till after i met them as to many weirdos on here

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By *ifes journeyCouple over a year ago

scotland

Your maybe just gonna have to find stronger gut instincts and strategies to them out...

Naming and shaming will never ever work.

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By *ifes journeyCouple over a year ago

scotland

I also think giving your kik out to the whole site to use is also brings a catalogue of disasters .

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Do you know i didnt even consider that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fed up with them on this site arrange a meet turn up on time while there still chatting on here and kik only for them not to show then get blocked when ask where they were"

The more you block, the more that are out of the equation

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By *quirtiliscious1Woman over a year ago

Dundee

"Fed up with them on this site arrange a meet turn up on time while there still chatting on here and kik only for them not to show then get blocked when ask where they were

The more you block, the more that are out of the equation

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Am in total agreement with you for once General

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

block away until your wee heart is content but at least stop whinging about lack of meets what do you expect when youv blocked everyone

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By *wiftieeMan over a year ago

near Glasgow

"Fed up with them on this site arrange a meet turn up on time while there still chatting on here and kik only for them not to show then get blocked when ask where they were

The more you block, the more that are out of the equation "

I block for a reason, so they're out of the equation for the same reason. Simple!

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By *nnyMan over a year ago

Glasgow

"As far as im concened there should be a way to name them to warn others"

There is (a bit). Warn everyone on your friends list for starters.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

theirs always two sides too the story and you could have done or said that brought it on

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