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over a year ago
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"Knowing this girl for a few years now
We get on really well
But when we talk she always calls me a good friend still no idea what it is your asking  "
Think he may be wanting to be more than just friends with the lady,, but unsure whether to take the next step incase it messes up their friendship. Tx |
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been in that situation man, was a rough 3 years. only thing i can say is you either try be more flirty with her and guage how she reacts.
that or just be honest and upfront about how you feel.
or just say nothing and end up feeling frustrated :P |
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If she mentions that you're a good friend a lot, it may be that she knows you fancy her and is trying to make it clear she's only your friend.
What you have to decide is if taking the risk is worth potentially losing her friendship. If you do and she rejects you, things will be awkward for a while.
If she has never given any sign that there could be more, I'd say leave it alone tbh |
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Be upfront if she's friends the thought has crossed her mind at some point ask her if she thinks people can go from being good friends to more her answer will tell you more than a thousand flirty comments. If it sounds promising say for example me and you and if she's really good friends and you've told her about this site you might want to tell her you've gave up this site because your looking for something more serious |
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This is a really hard one. Been there a really good friend wanted this. I couldnt see it. Saw him more like a brother. Had to be totally honest about it. Either except it. Or you need to walk away. Nothing worse than someone you care about hurts .However friendship is a very strong bond. Just be honest see what happens. Take it from there. |
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"This is a really hard one. Been there a really good friend wanted this. I couldnt see it. Saw him more like a brother. Had to be totally honest about it. Either except it. Or you need to walk away. Nothing worse than someone you care about hurts .However friendship is a very strong bond. Just be honest see what happens. Take it from there."
as the above two advise, be honest, say exactly as you feel |
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