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over a year ago
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"Its easy cant accom=the wife n kids live here. Cant travel=im either at work or home with the family can nip out with the dog for a knee-trembler in the nearby park " ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Its easy cant accom=the wife n kids live here. Cant travel=im either at work or home with the family can nip out with the dog for a knee-trembler in the nearby park "
Awh right get it. Eh Naw it alright . |
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Some very assuming assumptions.
There are many reasons for this ask the person and om sure they will tell you why.
Ie can't accommodate=kids still live at home
Can't travel=no car and prefer to meet local.
At least give people the benefit of doubt until they prove otherwise |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seen this on a few profiles .
Can't accomodate. Can't travel ??
Why they on a swingers site ??
The idea of this site is to meet people ??"
I once asked a lady who had this on her profile. The answer I got was something to the effect of "I can say what I like on my profile, there are plenty of men who will pick me up and take me to there flat" The one that gets me is those women who can't accommodate, but if the guy can't "Don't bother messaging me". !!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Some very assuming assumptions.
There are many reasons for this ask the person and om sure they will tell you why.
Ie can't accommodate=kids still live at home
Can't travel=no car and prefer to meet local.
At least give people the benefit of doubt until they prove otherwise"
True true . Proves it depends what way you read it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i dont drive and i have kids. i do get round this but there isnt option to say sometimes x if some one asks im happy to explain. its just as frustrating when someone says they can accom and then say cant for varies reasons x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I cant accommodate as i have flatmates and i cant travel as i don't have a car
i see the cant travel option as being more a distance thing though ... Like i wouldn't go outside Glasgow as its not practical for me to be traipsing off to dundee or stirling on busses and trains to meet someone ... I have no problem travelling locally but thts just my interpretation of the tickbox i suppose
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We don't accommodate , we like our privacy and not everyone is discrete, we had one couple who pointed out a cpl of our neighbours they had met. This is one of the many reasons some wont accommodate .
Some may not travel as they don't drive or like to stay fairly local due to whatever situation they are in. |
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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago
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"Some very assuming assumptions.
There are many reasons for this ask the person and om sure they will tell you why.
Ie can't accommodate=kids still live at home
Can't travel=no car and prefer to meet local.
At least give people the benefit of doubt until they prove otherwise"
The usual suspects queuing up, sad but also laughable. ![](/icons/s/rolleyes.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some very assuming assumptions.
There are many reasons for this ask the person and om sure they will tell you why.
Ie can't accommodate=kids still live at home
Can't travel=no car and prefer to meet local.
At least give people the benefit of doubt until they prove otherwise"
spot on. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Again?? Do a forum search or use common sense. Done to death.
What's done to death ??
Your question. It comes up every week."
Iv never seen this question on the forum
Before ??? It was something I couldnt understand now heard why people put it
On it makes sence now . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can't accomm on especially a single fem profile can mean I don't want to invite men into my home as I live alone or don't want people to know where I live.
Can't travel can mean I don't drive and I'm not prepared to go miles for a no show. Perhaps a new category of will can travel locally would be good?
On the flip side 'can travel' - does that mean if you get a meet 700 miles away it's acceptable? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had 3 women last week mail me they couldn't accom or travel & expected me to go to Glasgow pick them up bring them to mine "fuck" then take them home, not worth it in my book |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some very assuming assumptions.
There are many reasons for this ask the person and om sure they will tell you why.
Ie can't accommodate=kids still live at home
Can't travel=no car and prefer to meet local.
At least give people the benefit of doubt until they prove otherwise
spot on."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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or house manky, hubby on 14th tennents and im skint so you need to pick me up, and i will act like you buying drinks and fact ur house smells clean isnt impressing me a lot lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you were going on a 'regular' date with a girl, the acceptable etiquette has always been to pick them up, take them out and have fun (whatever that entails), then see them safely home.
Don't see why the woman on this site should deserve any less respect!
Maybe that's just me and the way I was raised, but just saying! |
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