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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

right here go's

im getting most fed up way some couples

complaining about mostly single guys

about not reading profile's an still emailing them..or getting emails from

single guys but on there profile it says

if we are looking for single guys we

know were 2 find u..fs its no a cattle market were u can go get a single guy

when ever cpls want 1..single guys have

feelings 2..but on there profile they looking for..guess wat SINGLE FEMS lol

well soz but thank god i dont realy meet cpls..cause some are worse then single guys..ok rant over lol ((HUGS)) xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

yes yes and yes

I soo agree!

I never understood anyways..why a hetro or bi couple only wants single fems.

Doesnt matter how you dress it up..one part of that couples is getting farrrrrrrrr more than the other.

Single guys are not all idiots wankers..and lets not forget..couples contain women AND men..and at times the men in couples are just as bad if not worse than the 'stereotype' of the single guy!

Vol...loves single guys

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

lol well said stunna as u know im part of a couple we meet both single males and couples and most of out best meets have been with single guys come on couples give these guys a break and some respect xxx

luv jacs

xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Think it could depend on the content of the emails from people that you have already stated that you are not looking for. if its a bombardment of crude emails then people are going to grumble.

our post on fuck buddies was in no way a moan, just looking for what others views on it was,

we are not looking for single guys, but it wont stop us saying hi in chat or set our message setting to block all single guy emails as not every guy on here will pester to meet me behind my other halves back or be crude in thier emails.

the sad truth is, as single guys are the majority couples can pick and choose who and when they want, same with single girls as they too have the luxury of being able to do so.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

PamelaandGordie this post is about single getting it tuff in swinging its nothing 2

do way ur fuck buddie post its just starting 2 do my head in the way ppl down

single guys..it say on there profile no single guys..but they have verifaction fae single guys so if i read on a profile no single fems plz..an i saw on there verifaction they met a single fem yea

id email an asked if they like a meet

but if i single guy does that he gets

shot down in flames for it..they cant win either way..an btw for the record

in my 2 years here ive emailed 1 cpl an never would i email anyone 4 a meet xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"lol well said stunna as u know im part of a couple we meet both single males and couples and most of out best meets have been with single guys come on couples give these guys a break and some respect xxx

luv jacs

xxxx"

yea jac u do hun but theres cpls out there who think they can pick up an drop single guys when ever they want x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i was really impressed with the way the high majority of guys were at the weekend when we had a laugh on cam. Out of all the guys, there was only mabye 3 that were crude. for that reason alone we will always say hi when we are online and will swap emails if we are chatting, it just wont go any further.There is one guy in particular that i will always have a high five to give to, a complete gentleman xx

i think mabye some couples have had one bad experience and the majority (who are really nice tbh) get the flak for it.xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

as I said yesterday..

in swinging, you have the assholes in all categories, males, fems, and couples....

males... who dont read profiles, message the same crap to all, expect someone to drop em within 5 lines of text, hassle and bully fems into meets and then treat them like 'pieces of meat',etc, etc, etc.

females.. the self obsessed who have no intention to meet but will whallow in the attention, go on cam and tease, cry wolf, borderline escorting etc, etc, etc.

couples... some so far up their own jacksie its untrue, love being chased, love the putting down and humiliation of single guys, MANY TIMES THE HUBBY, WHO WHEN SUITS, THEN CHASES EVERY SINGLE FEM FOR A 121 MEET ( at that point , he is a single guy )but a fecking hypocrite.. etc, etc, etc.

BUT THANKFULLY, I BELIEVE ALL THE ABOVE IN THE MINORITY, AND THE GOOD MALES, FEMS AND COUPLES PREVAIL... & ' VIVA LA SWINGING ' XXX

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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Well said !!!

It's a wonder they stay after reading some of the comments about them.

The way some couples and females speak you would think they were a inferior species.

They can't even play on cam without people abusing them for it. Just don't watch !!

Big thumbs up from us for the single men on here !!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

ive had 2 bad experience way cpl's but it dont mean u bring them down every chance u get most of my friends are cpls an they bril..but its a nice day so hope u lot have a nice one :0) xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's wee threads like this that restore your faith in Fab.

Whilst I know fine that single guys are their own worst enemy, I think View's post was an excellent summary of what goes on.

Single guys have feelings too! Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

here here morven lol xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Want to add my bit to this topic.....Yes we have on our profile no single guys, but also had verifications from single guys I have played with. I personally (taj) don't seek single guys on fab, feel much safer and comfortable doing so in the clubs we go to or private party's/socials. Thats just the way I prefer to play, and don't think anyone is at my beck and call.

Yes as has been said you find plonkers in all areas.....singles and couples.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

yea taj but not once have i saw u bring them down xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Mags and View x

fkn quality

Now , Wheres that thread about King and Queen of Swing.....

Buboo ......x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

u can pay me later bub lol xxx

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By *erandhim67Couple over a year ago

West Lothian

Well this is a subject close to my heart. I have complained on here and on another site where single guys having a play on cam were being called all-sorts in the chatrooms. Its as if people think they have some god given right to abuse them. This is supposed to be an adult site - I for one have enjoyed many a male cam! (Her talking) lol. The way some of these guys are treated makes me feel sick. We are all human beings - on here for whatever our personal preferences are - and I stand up for them! The vast majority of single men who have contacted us have been polite, and respectful - so what if they didn't read the profile right? Its hardly crime of the century! The site would be a sorry place without them - they bring another patch to the great patchwork we call swinging! (Steps down from soap-box) lol Her xxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

hey her hun yea they got feeling same as u an me xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Great post Stunna, I've went on about double standards for ages, cam being my main concern - its ok for a lady to play with her self on cam and she will indeed be applauded but if a guy chooses to have a play on cam he is castigated as one of the "cock cam" brigade.

I still find it a complete paradox that a community of so called open minded folks can be so narrow minded when it come to the treatment of others.

Just ma 2 bobs worth.

Thanks for pointing out how bad the "We will find you if we want you" (taken down in shame).

Some of our best friends on here are singles and some of our worst meets have been with couples xxxxxxx

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By *eclan_and_AimeeCouple over a year ago

dunblane, stirling

Aimee and I fall into the genre of 'looking for couples and single fems' and excluding singles males. This is a personal preference for what we are looking for from the site. However we do chat with many guys in the chatroom the vast majority of which are friendly, courteous and articulate. The unfortunate side is the miniscule percentage of single guys who do presume that this site is a given for getting a ride! To be fair these are generally guys who have no idea of what the swinging community is like and assume that all ladies are up for it with anyone and everyone. We feel sorry for the genuine guys on this site as they do unfortunately get tarnished with that same brush. We must admit to it being a little frustrating when you are contacting by email, or spoken to in chat by someone who hasnt even taken a quick scan at your profile but these do tend to be again the small percentage that let the good guys down. As previously said by others, we are all here for different things and therefore we should all respect each other whether or not they fall into the categories that tick your own preference boxes. Otherwise is it simply a form of discrimination.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

With regard to the status, "Single", I'd like to suggest that there is actually a problem with this itself.

I suspect that "single" means different things to different people.

1. Single as in unattached.

2. Single as in meeting on their own although they're attached in some form. (And stated as such on their profile!).

3. Single male + single female but not attached, at least to each other, but operating as a couple for the purpose of meeting other couples. (Again, stated as such on their profile!)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

well my 2ps worth

we say on our profile,,we have met single guys and loved doing so,,mmmm lol.

although please dont message us as we only occasionally meet them.that said it doesnt stop them doing so!

im with you stunna single guys get alot of bad press and i have posted in the lounge about this,i feel as if some cpls slag off single guys but then turn round click their fingers and expect them all to come running?

whether your a single fem/guy or cpl you shld still expect some respect.

rant over xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

well my 2ps worth

we say on our profile,,we have met single guys and loved doing so,,mmmm lol.

although please dont message us as we only occasionally meet them.that said it doesnt stop them doing so!

whether your a single fem/guy or cpl you shld still expect some respect.

rant over xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just been reading an ad where every 4th or 5th line was ******NO SINGLE MALES******. Was repeated about 6 times

Single men arent fucking stupid you arrogant couple of arseholes. The Not looking for single guys option in what your after would suffice

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"With regard to the status, "Single", I'd like to suggest that there is actually a problem with this itself.

I suspect that "single" means different things to different people.

1. Single as in unattached.

2. Single as in meeting on their own although they're attached in some form. (And stated as such on their profile!).

3. Single male + single female but not attached, at least to each other, but operating as a couple for the purpose of meeting other couples. (Again, stated as such on their profile!)"

valid point.

for me single is someone not in a loving trustbased relationship with gf/bf... commonlaw hubby's and wives and people who have gone thro a ceremony and pronounced married.

or someone who has said to his/her alleged loved one, I am off out to stick my body parts into someone elses..

or someone who is prepared to allow a couple/ single fem / single guy to contact the partner to confirm they are ok with their significant other playing.

again.. only my opinion.

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By *ighMan over a year ago

Fife

Wise words babes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wise words babes."

thanks

would prefer you didna call me babes so publically lol lol lol

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By *ighMan over a year ago

Fife

Garry babes cannae keep my passion under wraps pmsl

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

lol@babes.... mwahhhhhhhhhhhhh

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

fekk me!

sometime single - sometime fuckbud -sometime playmate - sometime straight - sometime bi - female here totally confused as to what people want judging by the profiles I have read recently!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

love the new name lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Appreciate all said, i readily respect couples with the big "NO SINGLE GUYS",yet i do send the occasional bit of party info if the couple list parties as a genuine interest, its not done in a pushy way, more a info-update style,and most are fab about it,but i have had the occasional absolute ott rant and "Cant you F,,ing read etc" When ohh you know, "no thanks" would of done.

T xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

good to see youse all stick up for us single guys on here !! its not that easy being a single guy on here ! ive clearly stated id like to meet with couples on here and so far not had a single sniff .

cheers xx

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