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over a year ago
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If anyone called me a slut or a whore they'd get a slap. I am neither.
If they called me fat it would be the truth.
Of course it hurts to have it pointed out and I'd hope most have a bit more tact than that.
It's wrong to insult anyone . Sadly it happens.
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I think its a question most guys think on.the answer I feel is we are diffrent creatures and the way we interact in the world is diffrent. Guys of my generation in the main were still brought up to love cherish and protect woman. On the other side fems were brought up to look their best make the home comfortable and make sure that the guy was happy. Fling into that media where fems are bombarded with what (apparently) men want.And how exactly a guy should behave |
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"If anyone called me a slut or a whore they'd get a slap. I am neither.
If they called me fat it would be the truth.
Of course it hurts to have it pointed out and I'd hope most have a bit more tact than that.
It's wrong to insult anyone . Sadly it happens.
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Im a big girl and I know it I do have mirrors at home so don't need it pointed out to me.
First and foremost when I see or meet a person the first thing I see is a person not their size.
I don't care if your fat,thin, gay,bi,or straight I see the person always.
Some people are just rude to others who they don't deem to be perfect but to be honest I think it says more about them than it does about me.
If someone thinks I'm fat yes they are right and that's fine if they feel the need to mention it but being rude just to make themselves look and feel better is sad really. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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I think it is not gender specific, someone giving their opinion of your size uninvited is rude.
But, drama is usually the result of it on here and outrage worn like a badge of honour. And it gets attention |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Dont think the op was calling anyone anything. More trying to understand why fems get upset being called fatty. But more than happy being called a slut"
worded that wrong... Was meant as in a general term ..OP my aplolgises!!  |
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"Dont think the op was calling anyone anything. More trying to understand why fems get upset being called fatty. But more than happy being called a slut"
Actually it's not often I agree with maddogger (usually never  ) but I do think it was more of a stirring post  |
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"Dont think the op was calling anyone anything. More trying to understand why fems get upset being called fatty. But more than happy being called a slut
Actually it's not often I agree with maddogger (usually never ) but I do think it was more of a stirring post "
its not very often i agree with myself  |
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"Dont think the op was calling anyone anything. More trying to understand why fems get upset being called fatty. But more than happy being called a slut
Actually it's not often I agree with maddogger (usually never ) but I do think it was more of a stirring post "
I agree with you Cutie, on ALL counts!
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Not sure why its seen this way . As ive said for me anyway I do find it strange the negative reaction fems have to being called fat, ugly but enjoy being called a slut or hoe which is also a negative term |
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"Not sure why its seen this way . As ive said for me anyway I do find it strange the negative reaction fems have to being called fat, ugly but enjoy being called a slut or hoe which is also a negative term"
Oh come on kola, you've been here long enough to tell the difference between a discussion and lighting the fuse  |
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I think it all depends in which Way its being said.
Ive been called a slut/slapper before from mostly females who have never met me nor know the first thing about me that's insulting.
But during a play meet that's totally different in my opinion. |
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"Why do woman get very upset if they are called over weight or fat but are more than happy to accept a man calling them a Slut or Whore .
A very confused guy .  "
I have no issue being called fat as I am however I would be fuming if someone called me a slut |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If anyone called me a slut or a whore they'd get a slap. I am neither.
If they called me fat it would be the truth.
Of course it hurts to have it pointed out and I'd hope most have a bit more tact than that.
It's wrong to insult anyone . Sadly it happens.
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this |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im a big girl and I know it I do have mirrors at home so don't need it pointed out to me.
First and foremost when I see or meet a person the first thing I see is a person not their size.
I don't care if your fat,thin, gay,bi,or straight I see the person always.
Some people are just rude to others who they don't deem to be perfect but to be honest I think it says more about them than it does about me.
If someone thinks I'm fat yes they are right and that's fine if they feel the need to mention it but being rude just to make themselves look and feel better is sad really. "
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"Why do woman get very upset if they are called over weight or fat but are more than happy to accept a man calling them a Slut or Whore .
A very confused guy . "
It's up to a man to step in and protect a lady when insulted, regardless if its the man's partner or just a lady in his company. Sadly there are not enough manors or common decency in this new age we live in, more guys should learn the cowboy way
Im Lee, I just put my first post on Introductions, hope you have time to read it, this here is my second post |
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"If anyone called me a slut or a whore they'd get a slap. I am neither.
If they called me fat it would be the truth.
Of course it hurts to have it pointed out and I'd hope most have a bit more tact than that.
It's wrong to insult anyone . Sadly it happens.
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I would gladly step in and slap them for you ma'am; its simply wrong to see a lady hurt or cry |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If anyone called me a slut or a whore they'd get a slap. I am neither.
If they called me fat it would be the truth.
Of course it hurts to have it pointed out and I'd hope most have a bit more tact than that.
It's wrong to insult anyone . Sadly it happens.
I would gladly step in and slap them for you ma'am; its simply wrong to see a lady hurt or cry"
awww bless your wee cotton socks |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Dont think the op was calling anyone anything. More trying to understand why fems get upset being called fatty. But more than happy being called a slut"
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
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"Why do woman get very upset if they are called over weight or fat but are more than happy to accept a man calling them a Slut or Whore .
A very confused guy . "
I can assure you, anyone calling me a slut or a whore will get a smack in the mouth!
Don't give a toss about being called FAT.....Coz I am |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"Why do woman get very upset if they are called over weight or fat but are more than happy to accept a man calling them a Slut or Whore .
A very confused guy .
I can assure you, anyone calling me a slut or a whore will get a smack in the mouth!
Don't give a toss about being called FAT.....Coz I am "
welcome stranger... I hope life is good |
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
In a crisp poke on the A814 |
"Why do woman get very upset if they are called over weight or fat but are more than happy to accept a man calling them a Slut or Whore .
A very confused guy .
I can assure you, anyone calling me a slut or a whore will get a smack in the mouth!
Don't give a toss about being called FAT.....Coz I am
welcome stranger... I hope life is good"
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