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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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See this age range on most men's profiles. How many would really meet up with say a 80 year old woman ?? Proves no effort in profile. Mabe this is why its hard to get meets ?? Men have a look and see who has this ?? LOL |
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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago
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It's a general tenet of life, that the more effort you put into something, the more you get out of it.
This site is no different, and although I'm sure it doesn't apply to all, but time and again the guys who come on here complaining about struggling to get a meet, have put little effort or imagination into their profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's a general tenet of life, that the more effort you put into something, the more you get out of it.
This site is no different, and although I'm sure it doesn't apply to all, but time and again the guys who come on here complaining about struggling to get a meet, have put little effort or imagination into their profile."
So true bothy. Take your time and proof read your profile (better double check mine!) ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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I think most have an open age rage to give them more chances of meeting people regardless of age .
But so many are not truthful when setting up profiles with regards to their age anyway so it doesn't really matter what they have on their profile now anyway. |
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"How many would actually meet that 99 year old x
And how many 99 year olds can work the internetty to be on fab to start with
Hahahahaha "
Oh I don't know they might have some very interesting stories to tell! |
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"See this age range on most men's profiles. How many would really meet up with say a 80 year old woman ?? Proves no effort in profile. Mabe this is why its hard to get meets ?? Men have a look and see who has this ?? LOL"
Not just a trait of the "Desperado" chaps on here, as I've seen more than my fair share of female profiles on here with the same all-inclusive age range!
Male or female, they're either lazy or desperate!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Of course the flipside of 18-99 is an unrealistically narrow age range. A 35 yo lady posted on here that she only wants to meet 35 yo men!
Many middle aged ladies want up to 45 yo men. I'm 46 this year and terrified of what hideous deformity will befall me and render me unable to chat or meet with anyone under 60. ![](/icons/s/neutral.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Of course the flipside of 18-99 is an unrealistically narrow age range. A 35 yo lady posted on here that she only wants to meet 35 yo men!
Many middle aged ladies want up to 45 yo men. I'm 46 this year and terrified of what hideous deformity will befall me and render me unable to chat or meet with anyone under 60. "
unfortunately those "magic" numbers seem to kick in too some effect lol
ps unable to chat or meet is purely down to their filters
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Which is a shame. I'm physically fitter then I was 10 years ago, more mannerly, mature, less arrogant and cocksure. Being acceptable at 45 and 364 days and suddenly ostracised at 46 and 0 days is kinda harsh. Sure, everyone has to draw a line of preference but not necessarily block messages from someone who may be quite suited to them based solely on a number. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Which is a shame. I'm physically fitter then I was 10 years ago, more mannerly, mature, less arrogant and cocksure. Being acceptable at 45 and 364 days and suddenly ostracised at 46 and 0 days is kinda harsh. Sure, everyone has to draw a line of preference but not necessarily block messages from someone who may be quite suited to them based solely on a number."
I have to draw the line somewhere. 45 works for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"See this age range on most men's profiles. How many would really meet up with say a 80 year old woman ?? Proves no effort in profile. Mabe this is why its hard to get meets ?? Men have a look and see who has this ?? LOL" few women have this too and when I've messaged them I'm told I'm too old at 42
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Which is a shame. I'm physically fitter then I was 10 years ago, more mannerly, mature, less arrogant and cocksure. Being acceptable at 45 and 364 days and suddenly ostracised at 46 and 0 days is kinda harsh. Sure, everyone has to draw a line of preference but not necessarily block messages from someone who may be quite suited to them based solely on a number."
one possible way round these filters is get yourself down to a few socials , say hi and if people like your personality...you'll make new friends and poss some fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Which is a shame. I'm physically fitter then I was 10 years ago, more mannerly, mature, less arrogant and cocksure. Being acceptable at 45 and 364 days and suddenly ostracised at 46 and 0 days is kinda harsh. Sure, everyone has to draw a line of preference but not necessarily block messages from someone who may be quite suited to them based solely on a number.
I have to draw the line somewhere. 45 works for me. "
Phewwwww there's hope yet lol x |
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