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Each to their own but ....?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

maybe i am just old fashioned but i would have assumed that when a woman finally falls the joys of the next nine months of people making a total fuss of her and in the end having a little bundle of joy that maybe mum to be and dad to be would take a back seat to swinging and not meet or am i just old fashioned ................?? lol x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I totally agree..they should only be interested in the new family and not doing meets. After all the new mummy may not even be well enough or indeed cope with being a mum. Oh who we on about?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

but whats to stop the mum or dad having a chat in the chat rooms and keeping in touch with friends , it doesnt make a bad parent , it makes a better parent who can relax and mothers can look after kids and do housework , , so why not chat, and i doubt if new parents would want to meet when the baby is tiny

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i think its a bit iffy to judge other people though, if a couple are secure enough to carry on then i dont see an issue.

personally if it was us (we werent swinging in anyway however) when we had found out our baby was coming we wouldnt have played but if we did there would have been limits, ie soft swing only.

also, i dont see any probs with folk coming no for a gossip and things,

just our 2p thrown in xx

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By *1cebren4uWoman over a year ago

clydebank

if this is about a certain couple i know have known them for a lot of years and why should one stop talking to ppl they have been talking to for years just because there is a new edition to the family.

I for one would still want to come into chat and chat away with mates ive come to know as prob wudnt have them on msn to chat too as you cant have everyone on there.

Just because one has given birth doesnt mean that life has to end there.

Well thats my two pennies worth

NO OFFENCE GIVEN TO ANYONE XXXX BREN

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why judge at all.......people make their own choices in life. Only the couple involved will know the full situation. So good luck to every adult that makes their own choices and who don't concern themselves with the opinions of others.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

the folks I know who have just had a wee one have chatted and chatted only. No meets, they just kept in touch with their pals and I am pleased they have, they bring banter to the chat room.

What they choose to do now baby is here, is there business .. NOT MINE x

I saw a post from a single girl who was awaiting the arrival of her baby and her profile clearly said NOT MEETING.

That was in the lounge forum.

However, I will say on another site couple of years ago, a couple used to do 'cam' sessions during their pregancy and that made me feel a bit 'unsure' but as always, everyone is responsible for their own behaviour and if thats what they wanted to do, cool with me, I just chose NOT TO WATCH.

and to the new mums and dads, enjoy yur new family and best wishes fae me x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

2 be honest its nothing wat so ever 2 do with anyone.if i was pregant i would still come into chat..id still do socials 2 keep in touch with my friends..so condem me does that make me a bad person??..an im glad my 2 friends who just had the baby boy kept in touch with us xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If the OP means the two who just had a baby boy, they didn't play, they came into chat only and have always kept the banter in there uproariously funny, they would have been sorely missed if they hadn't been there. Sometimes late on in pregnancy when it was difficult for Mrs to sleep she would also pop in for the companionship, better that than sitting alone and bored. Other couples have had babies in fab and stayed in touch with all. Sharing the love is what fabs all about too lol lol xxxxx

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

As the title says......each to their own.

If we were swinging when I was pregnant it wouldn't have stopped us chatting to people.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"maybe i am just old fashioned but i would have assumed that when a woman finally falls the joys of the next nine months of people making a total fuss of her and in the end having a little bundle of joy that maybe mum to be and dad to be would take a back seat to swinging and not meet or am i just old fashioned ................?? lol x"

Am i just being dumb cause I can't see the point of this post......is the point you disagree with swinging when pregnant or after the baby has arrived???

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By *empnbunkCouple over a year ago

south coast

was just thinking same thing tajandjay....or does it mean that PARENTS shouldnt be swingers...OMG better ive up now im BAD PARENT....LOL

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By *1cebren4uWoman over a year ago

clydebank

"was just thinking same thing tajandjay....or does it mean that PARENTS shouldnt be swingers...OMG better ive up now im BAD PARENT....LOL

pmsl bunk i must be a bad parent too as both my kids know im a SWINGER HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just wanted to say that when i posted my comment on this i thought the couple were doing meets. Swinging is more about sex and there is nothing wrong with the new dad or mum going on chat etc oh and er for the comment about the dad coming on and chatting while the mum is doing housework and baby stuff... Yeah right that will be chocolate! Give dad a bottle and the hoover, let the mum chill with mates x

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By *lba couple1Couple over a year ago

glasgow

swing have sex eat chocolate chat, do what u want we still live in a free world. wont condem anyone for being secure in there choices.xx just my opinion.mrs late

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

truely sorry by reading the comments didnt mean to offend anyone at all. no there was no point in the posting the forum reading the comments sorry i offened people xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

........ and this wasnt about anyone in particular was just a question xxlolxx

sorry again xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

its not offensive to post a point of view at all x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just my opinions....

I was going to say this in a nice way..but feck it!!

Its got feck all to do with anyone!! It is even more shocking that swingers who are supposed to be open minded etc..would climb on a soap box and moralise about something like this!

Blunt facts...

pregnant women have sex

some men find pregnant women a huge turn on

Sex will not harm the baby..regardless of how many men the women has sex with (as long as its safe sex)

Women with small children and or babies have sex

Sex is normal at any time of your life and why the feck would anyone wish to judge on that????!!!!

Whilst it would not be my choice i respect the rights of others to chose. I will even be honest enough to say that even though i am not keen on the idea..i would defend the rights of anyone in this situation to chose.

if you had been swinging for years and had a close friend or circle of friends who had no issues...then its your call to do it.

As for the man...last i checked he is not the pregnant one..therefore him having sex at any time of gestation or after is between him and his partner and to be blunt could very well be a testament to the strength of the relationshiop him and his partner have ( equally he could be a shit...but that is the case regardless of pregnancy! lol)

As to still using the site as a social network when pregnant or after the child is here..why on earth should they not??

Does this mean that everyone is sooooooo shallow that its ONLY and ALL about the sex and that once your 'off' that list you cant still chat and laugh?? ffs outrageous

If all of that was the case...do we then check all fems who are trying to conceive..cos afterall...thats the start of the cycle of life.

This is supposed to be a community and as such we would be better served supporting and accepting the rights of others, forging frienships that endure and fucking till we cant wipe the smiles off our faces...than judging people on something that is really no ones business and even if we find it distasteful..is a personal choice

Vol

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By *unglikaMan over a year ago

glasgow

well done Vol i agree whole heartedly

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By *ilandlarryCouple over a year ago

more north lincs than mids!

As most (all?) of you know I have recently had a baby and altho we didn't play whilst I was pregnant we still attended socials etc and came into chat.

People on here are my friends, I wanted to stay in touch with them, they were concerned about my welfare when we moved over here and when I thought I was in labour one night when Larry wasn't with me.

Our little one has been with us for just over 5 months now and the only reason we aren't playing is primarily because we are in a different country from everyone else on here lol.

At the end of the day, each to their own and to be frank, it's nowt to do with anyone else!!

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By *empnbunkCouple over a year ago

south coast

way to go vol hun lol...perfectly put..xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Camming while makin the bairn wouldve been cool. Camming while the bairn was popping out?? Meh no so much. Anything else is up to them and nowt to do wi anyone else.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i for one am quite pissed at the thought of those so perfect people on here that continue to condem people for what they believe is rite ...

i also think that the couple who have had their bairn are well within their rites to come on here an chat as i miss the banter from them both . and yes i am friends with them altho fae the banter ye widney fink sae lol

so when are people goin to look in their ain windaes afore looking oot tae other peoples windaes an tellin them what an where an who they shud be doing ........ if doing any thing at all .........

vol hunni u hit nail on head it aint anyones bees wax apart fae the couples .

so im awe fir supporting them in any thing they do an look forward to the day they come back as a swinging cple as well as friends in chat ..

me 2 p worth tae an nae offence tae any one but ffs let people live an get on wie yer ain lives we all old enuff on here to make our own choices .......

sioux xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

especially after a baby being born, i think it would be great to nip on here for a chat while the new one is sleeping. it would help to relax.

Also, i know i could have done with some extra compliments from outwith my relationship just after i had my little one as i felt crappy for ages.

men do not know how easy they get it in life lol xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"especially after a baby being born, i think it would be great to nip on here for a chat while the new one is sleeping. it would help to relax.

Also, i know i could have done with some extra compliments from outwith my relationship just after i had my little one as i felt crappy for ages.

men do not know how easy they get it in life lol xx"

soooo tru , i kne there was nites my twins wudnt sleep an i was gettin grupmy so when i finally hud them settled it was great comin in tae room an chilling and talkin utter crap with friends and a laugh was well needed an the support from scotland room is jsut fantastic so lets see some of it here again xxx

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By *cots70Couple over a year ago

west lothian

well well well ...wonder who this forums aimed @? hmmmmm....cudnt be us as we havent been on since wee fella was born..but tonite i thot while he was havin a nap id pop on and see what id been missin..ooh the banter ooh the laffs ooh the back stabbin and mindless tw@ts who assume just because u have a kid u cant have a laff in chat ..wtf ..mind me to block and never chat to this mindless tit on here ever...some ppl shud really get a grip and never assume ppl who r preg are on to meet ...ffs ...!!! thanks for the support guys but like i said was it aimed @us or was it aimed @someone who gives a fook ..lol ..hopefully speak to u soon once things have settled down a bit ..like when the wee fellas 16 ..lol bgood play nice and have fun xxxxx me toon and wee fella ..lol aka the bump

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By *cots70Couple over a year ago

west lothian

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Greetings Mrs70...hows the wee 70toon doing? Hope all is good and that he sleeps well for you, if not though you can always bounce him on your knee and chat away to us all in here, he'd love that.

TC love hugs and kisses to 70toon xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

lol 70...so good...ye posted it twice!!!!

keep rockin.....and shaggin ....lol xxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

lol 70...so good...ye posted it twice!!!!

keep rockin.....and shaggin ....lol xxxxxxxx

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