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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok, I'm gonna have a moan. Sorry.
I've had a crap week, family stuff, and tonight I find out that someone on here is playing me, and has been for some time.
I can't believe I fell for it and now I feel like a complete fool.
Moan over.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok, I'm gonna have a moan. Sorry.
I've had a crap week, family stuff, and tonight I find out that someone on here is playing me, and has been for some time.
I can't believe I fell for it and now I feel like a complete fool.
Nothing to feel foolish over,the lengths fakes go to on here is scary. Head held high and move on. There's still genuine guys on here. Just need ti find more of us x
Moan over. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ok, I'm gonna have a moan. Sorry.
I've had a crap week, family stuff, and tonight I find out that someone on here is playing me, and has been for some time.
I can't believe I fell for it and now I feel like a complete fool.
Nothing to feel foolish over,the lengths fakes go to on here is scary. Head held high and move on. There's still genuine guys on here. Just need ti find more of us x
Moan over. "
I know there are, just gonna feel sorry for myself for a bit!
Thanks. |
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I think most are players on here both male and females.
Everyone uses this site and the people on it to manipulate situations and finally get what they want from it.
Not sure in what way use feel uve been played so can't really give my opinion on it. The |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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I think swinging brings out the most exploitative behaviours in people, rightly or wrongly...... People have their agenda and will play the people who can get them it.
In some case, better to have them stand in front of you rather than trust them standing behind you. 
Good luck |
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"I think swinging brings out the most exploitative behaviours in people, rightly or wrongly...... People have their agenda and will play the people who can get them it.
In some case, better to have them stand in front of you rather than trust them standing behind you.
Good luck"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's not nice when it happens, but the way you're feeling now will soon go. You won't let it happen again, believe me! "
You're damn right I won't!! Thanks x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks everyone for the nice messages, I've had a good cry and approx 55 cups of tea and I feel much better.
Wallowing in self pity isn't really my style, thankfully.
Much love xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just treat it as a lesson learned darling. We have all fallen for the lines at one time or another so you're not alone. It hurts when people we trust let us down but when the mist fades we see a lot more clearly. The shame is all theirs.
Chin up...fun to be had!! X  |
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"whats you definition of a player thou i would say everyone on a swinging site would be described as players "
player to me would be someone who has no regard for others just so long as they get what they want with no care about how they get it .....yup a fair few on here could be deemed players
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By *dicplCouple
over a year ago
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"whats you definition of a player thou i would say everyone on a swinging site would be described as players player to me would be someone who has no regard for others just so long as they get what they want with no care about how they get it .....yup a fair few on here could be deemed players "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"whats you definition of a player thou i would say everyone on a swinging site would be described as players player to me would be someone who has no regard for others just so long as they get what they want with no care about how they get it .....yup a fair few on here could be deemed players
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to be honest thats the _iew you should have of anyone on here unless they show otherwise |
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"whats you definition of a player thou i would say everyone on a swinging site would be described as players player to me would be someone who has no regard for others just so long as they get what they want with no care about how they get it .....yup a fair few on here could be deemed players
to be honest thats the _iew you should have of anyone on here unless they show otherwise "
lol it is until someone proves otherwise and not with words |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just treat it as a lesson learned darling. We have all fallen for the lines at one time or another so you're not alone. It hurts when people we trust let us down but when the mist fades we see a lot more clearly. The shame is all theirs.
Chin up...fun to be had!! X "
Throw myself back in the deep end?!!! Thanks lovely ladies xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just treat it as a lesson learned darling. We have all fallen for the lines at one time or another so you're not alone. It hurts when people we trust let us down but when the mist fades we see a lot more clearly. The shame is all theirs.
Chin up...fun to be had!! X
Tried to pm u but u have fems blocked. X
Throw myself back in the deep end?!!! Thanks lovely ladies xx "
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"Anyone else want to bump this so I don't get to forget about it???
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simple treat everyone as a player if they aint they will prove it over time if they are they will scurry off in search of an easy targetyou will be right 95% of the time |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anyone else want to bump this so I don't get to forget about it???
simple treat everyone as a player if they aint they will prove it over time if they are they will scurry off in search of an easy targetyou will be right 95% of the time"
That's one way for a guy not to bother with you!
Someone treated me as a player when im not then I wouldn't waste another message on them! Never heard the saying dont tar everyone with the same brush? |
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"Anyone else want to bump this so I don't get to forget about it???
simple treat everyone as a player if they aint they will prove it over time if they are they will scurry off in search of an easy targetyou will be right 95% of the time
That's one way for a guy not to bother with you!
Someone treated me as a player when im not then I wouldn't waste another message on them! Never heard the saying dont tar everyone with the same brush?"
prefer the practicality of life experience over believeing folks hype. And if you werent a player it would be evident in time to many buy the bullshit on fab its that simple |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok, I'm gonna have a moan. Sorry.
I've had a crap week, family stuff, and tonight I find out that someone on here is playing me, and has been for some time.
I can't believe I fell for it and now I feel like a complete fool.
Makes a difference from you playing others then eh ?
Moan over. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There people on here who just want to play mind games. Think its a game of chess. Tell the same bullshit to everyone. Thinking women don't talk to each other. Just dust yourself down . Get your head up and that gem could be around the corner . All been there . You are reading words on a screen. You learn. Go by your gut feeling. Hug Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok, I'm gonna have a moan. Sorry.
I've had a crap week, family stuff, and tonight I find out that someone on here is playing me, and has been for some time.
I can't believe I fell for it and now I feel like a complete fool.
Makes a difference from you playing others then eh ?
Moan over. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok, I'm gonna have a moan. Sorry.
I've had a crap week, family stuff, and tonight I find out that someone on here is playing me, and has been for some time.
I can't believe I fell for it and now I feel like a complete fool.
Moan over. "
Shit when that happens. Big hugs xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok, I'm gonna have a moan. Sorry.
I've had a crap week, family stuff, and tonight I find out that someone on here is playing me, and has been for some time.
I can't believe I fell for it and now I feel like a complete fool.
Moan over.
Shit when that happens. Big hugs xx"
it was 2 weeks ago..she's over it..I hope  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok, I'm gonna have a moan. Sorry.
I've had a crap week, family stuff, and tonight I find out that someone on here is playing me, and has been for some time.
I can't believe I fell for it and now I feel like a complete fool.
Moan over.
Shit when that happens. Big hugs xx
it was 2 weeks ago..she's over it..I hope "
Us women take a while xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok, I'm gonna have a moan. Sorry.
I've had a crap week, family stuff, and tonight I find out that someone on here is playing me, and has been for some time.
I can't believe I fell for it and now I feel like a complete fool.
Moan over.
Shit when that happens. Big hugs xx
it was 2 weeks ago..she's over it..I hope
Us women take a while xx"
thats two weeks of wasted time when ya could be getting shagged silly  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok, I'm gonna have a moan. Sorry.
I've had a crap week, family stuff, and tonight I find out that someone on here is playing me, and has been for some time.
I can't believe I fell for it and now I feel like a complete fool.
Moan over.
Shit when that happens. Big hugs xx
it was 2 weeks ago..she's over it..I hope
Us women take a while xx
thats two weeks of wasted time when ya could be getting shagged silly "
Shagging on here!!? Ye kidding |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok, I'm gonna have a moan. Sorry.
I've had a crap week, family stuff, and tonight I find out that someone on here is playing me, and has been for some time.
I can't believe I fell for it and now I feel like a complete fool.
Moan over.
Shit when that happens. Big hugs xx
it was 2 weeks ago..she's over it..I hope
Us women take a while xx
thats two weeks of wasted time when ya could be getting shagged silly
Shagging on here!!? Ye kidding "
lol...thats a standard single guy line! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ok, I'm gonna have a moan. Sorry.
I've had a crap week, family stuff, and tonight I find out that someone on here is playing me, and has been for some time.
I can't believe I fell for it and now I feel like a complete fool.
Moan over.
Shit when that happens. Big hugs xx
it was 2 weeks ago..she's over it..I hope
Us women take a while xx
thats two weeks of wasted time when ya could be getting shagged silly
Shagging on here!!? Ye kidding
lol...thats a standard single guy line!"
Got over it fairly quickly, just someone decided after two weeks, to comment on it. Weird. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ok, I'm gonna have a moan. Sorry.
I've had a crap week, family stuff, and tonight I find out that someone on here is playing me, and has been for some time.
I can't believe I fell for it and now I feel like a complete fool.
Makes a difference from you playing others then eh ?
Moan over. "
Sorry? |
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Forum posts go back a few years so anyone can add a comment at any time once it's been posted.
My bisexuality post was bumped up a few days ago after it being posted 19 weeks ago lol.
Sometimes its a case of people being bored and going over old posts and they want to add a comment to it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Forum posts go back a few years so anyone can add a comment at any time once it's been posted.
My bisexuality post was bumped up a few days ago after it being posted 19 weeks ago lol.
Sometimes its a case of people being bored and going over old posts and they want to add a comment to it. "
Yeah, it's a pain in the backside!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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And he's back.
So, why do I keep falling for him, and all the lies?
Is it my ridiculously trustful nature or am I being stupidly naive?
Once again, moan over. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And he's back.
So, why do I keep falling for him, and all the lies?
Is it my ridiculously trustful nature or am I being stupidly naive?
Once again, moan over. "
Unfortunately there is always going to be one.
We want to believe and hearts over rule rational thought sometimes.
It's hard not to beat yourself up over it but you have to remember to be kind to yourself. No one else will be. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And he's back.
So, why do I keep falling for him, and all the lies?
Is it my ridiculously trustful nature or am I being stupidly naive?
Once again, moan over.
Unfortunately there is always going to be one.
We want to believe and hearts over rule rational thought sometimes.
It's hard not to beat yourself up over it but you have to remember to be kind to yourself. No one else will be. X"
Thank you lovely lady. I'll be fine by wine o'clock tomorrow  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Unfortunately there is always going to be one.
We want to believe and hearts over rule rational thought sometimes.
It's hard not to beat yourself up over it but you have to remember to be kind to yourself. No one else will be. X"
Amen to that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Unfortunately there is always going to be one.
We want to believe and hearts over rule rational thought sometimes.
It's hard not to beat yourself up over it but you have to remember to be kind to yourself. No one else will be. X
Amen to that!"
Exactly x |
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